| 4/17/2013 12:23:48 PM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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How much longer should I pay the bills in a house that I don't even live at.... I have been doing it for the past 3 months.... How much is enough?
edited to add.... why can't you just leave me alone....................
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| 4/17/2013 12:28:27 PM |
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sstiglets
Lakeland, GA
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Who's house?
Daughters? Sons? Ex?
1st
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| 4/17/2013 12:30:57 PM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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Ex g/f....
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| 4/17/2013 12:37:32 PM |
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sstiglets
Lakeland, GA
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Do I really need to explain what to do?
But it depends. Are u still frakin her? Does she have a boyfriend?
Is the house in your name?
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| 4/17/2013 12:39:19 PM |
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loveshopeful
Lawrenceville, GA
36, joined Mar. 2013
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this should have never been posted. kinda disappointed and disgusted
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| 4/17/2013 12:40:12 PM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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It's a rental... I did this so maybe she would leave me alone....
edited to add, keeping her up my phone has been turned off. She has blocked me from facebook so this is the only message I could get to her....
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| 4/17/2013 12:46:12 PM |
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sstiglets
Lakeland, GA
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Everything points to H*LL NO.
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| 4/17/2013 12:51:12 PM |
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robtest
Norcross, GA
53, joined Sep. 2008
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You should move back in... 
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| 4/17/2013 1:45:25 PM |
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writerdog
Lawrenceville, GA
30, joined Sep. 2010
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I agree with those that said this did not belong here. For what it's worth, though, I think it depends on the situation. We can't decide for you. Sorry Jonis.
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| 4/17/2013 2:32:32 PM |
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enjoying_life80
Covington, GA
52, joined Oct. 2011
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It's a rental... I did this so maybe she would leave me alone....
edited to add, keeping her up my phone has been turned off. She has blocked me from facebook so this is the only message I could get to her....
If she is bothering you then why did she block you on Facebook. Too many holes in this story. A man that continues to pay the bills do so because they care or they are getting something out of the deal.
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| 4/17/2013 2:45:31 PM |
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avgjoe0266
Grovetown, GA
48, joined Aug. 2008
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I disagree Kim.some of us are actually that stupid sometimes
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| 4/17/2013 2:47:26 PM |
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enjoying_life80
Covington, GA
52, joined Oct. 2011
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I disagree Kim.some of us are actually that stupid sometimes
Well stupid, pay mine then. 
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| 4/17/2013 2:50:40 PM |
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avgjoe0266
Grovetown, GA
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I took a big cut in pay last year....prob won't make that much this year.....I'm still good for a date here and there though
I hope work picks up .I need another house
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| 4/17/2013 2:52:56 PM |
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enjoying_life80
Covington, GA
52, joined Oct. 2011
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I took a big cut in pay last year....prob won't make that much this year.....I'm still good for a date here and there though
I hope work picks up .I need another house
For a 133 thousand you can have mine.
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| 4/17/2013 2:57:39 PM |
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avgjoe0266
Grovetown, GA
48, joined Aug. 2008
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For a 133 thousand you can have mine.
That is tempting if it comes with benefits 
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| 4/17/2013 3:02:26 PM |
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enjoying_life80
Covington, GA
52, joined Oct. 2011
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That is tempting if it comes with benefits
It does!! You get to pay the utilities.
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| 4/17/2013 4:33:56 PM |
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peekabobean
Hampton, GA
58, joined Jun. 2011
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It does!! You get to pay the utilities.
Ouch
Kimmie....proving once again that women are smarter than men
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| 4/17/2013 4:43:57 PM |
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avgjoe0266
Grovetown, GA
48, joined Aug. 2008
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She's only smarter if I actually do that
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| 4/17/2013 5:02:13 PM |
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writerdog
Lawrenceville, GA
30, joined Sep. 2010
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Woman may be smarter, but men know more about sex.
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| 4/17/2013 5:03:05 PM |
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angelagir
Bethlehem, GA
45, joined Jul. 2008
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Woman may be smarter, but men know more about sex.
Ummm I don't think so!!!
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| 4/17/2013 5:05:36 PM |
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writerdog
Lawrenceville, GA
30, joined Sep. 2010
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The heck you say.
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| 4/18/2013 12:06:33 PM |
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mist3r_r33
Decatur, GA
35, joined Oct. 2012
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It does!! You get to pay the utilities.
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| 4/18/2013 5:28:18 PM |
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pleazu2010
Hartwell, GA
51, joined Jan. 2011
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Quit listening to rumors about
me ..lol..
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| 4/18/2013 5:52:11 PM |
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loveshopeful
Lawrenceville, GA
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Woman may be smarter, but men know more about sex.
oh horse shit... if they did i wouldnt have to teach so many...5 a night
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| 4/18/2013 6:04:20 PM |
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enjoying_life80
Covington, GA
52, joined Oct. 2011
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Our pups keep coming to us for a reason.
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| 4/18/2013 7:13:45 PM |
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jiminsav
Savannah, GA
52, joined Feb. 2011
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isn't the OP's ex the woman who's dying as we speech, and is writer dog been raised under a rock...she has no idea how to use a vagina?..WTF
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| 4/18/2013 11:02:13 PM |
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tardsmasher2
Douglasville, GA
51, joined Jun. 2010
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Dude I'm surprised you have to even ask this but I guess people get hooked and have a hard time breaking loose sometimes so I wont go ruff on ya...Butt hell no if it is over YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HER UPKEEP sorry about the caps they were for emphasis move on dude and best wishes to you.
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| 4/18/2013 11:37:20 PM |
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gwwrn
Lawrenceville, GA
58, joined Jun. 2010
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^^^ what he said
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| 4/19/2013 6:35:53 AM |
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nobbyobby
Dallas, GA
45, joined Dec. 2012
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What he and she said.
Move on or move in.
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| 4/21/2013 12:00:41 AM |
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peekabobean
Hampton, GA
58, joined Jun. 2011
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oh horse shit... if they did i wouldnt have to teach so many...5 a night
slacker
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| 4/24/2013 6:54:02 AM |
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happypainter
Dahlonega, GA
46, joined Sep. 2009
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You chose to stay with your mom, your sister, your brother, and no one has a phone in that entire trailer? I called and left you messages on your house phone You also stop by toget your mail out of our mailbox, and I have been trying to tell you let's go transfer stuff...I am not paying bills not in my name, and I a not going to pay for bunch of extravagant stuff we didn't have to have and I didn't want. It's like the lease...your name is on the lease too, and we have to dissolve that. Heck....you had the whole house except my bedroom, the only thing was 'no getting shitfaced drunk and driving, and being whacked out crazy mean, and not going to your classes. Hospice cares for all my meds you don't pay for those and haven't in a while. Because of being in the hospital so much you haven't paid for meds much since July, other people help with nursing me, and I might add this would have all happened sooner if you would have taken me to sign up and get home health, but you were always to tired, busy or drunk.
You are the nicest person I know when you are sober, I think..heck I don't know anymore.I do appreciate all the Mtn Dews and graham crackers and carrots. There is a church group coming this weekend to do yard work and clean the gutters and trim stuff back and the ladies are going to help me have a pretty porch and gardens outside my window,and Gary built that lovely ramp and the guys are going to do the concrete walkway. Is there conkrete downstairs? You are welcome to come. They may need help with the weird electrical wriggling and all that stuff please. If you are not too tired
I feel so sad that you have a lovely house, maybe it will even be as nice as we imagined...because that is the way some women ultimately say to their man that they love him....they make a nice home to the proud of. I am so sorry I got sick and I tried to tell you that it might happen and I explained it all, I never hid how bad it could be, because I wanted you to go then instead of after I got too sick to do anything for myself, and you kissed me and swore I would always have a home. You promised. And the same went for you except for the alcoholism, and you have asked me several times to try and help you not drink., because another DUI and you would be done. You could kill someone, like that day you had Devon and she was what, 5? in the half seat of your pickup drunk running errands. I was scared half to death. I was always worried about you, always.
If you wish this financial counselor s help. You know to tell me. Or type me here on DateHookeup, apparently THE means for communications now. I bet the Pentagon uses it. (Seriously didnt the 911 bomber use a site like this to send messages?) and you are blocked from FB for getting schnochkered and posting the word c*nt on my mom's page but if you can behave better now maybe a probation..will consider it.
Please in the future, can you just use my email address?? And Michael? You can kick it, I believe in you, all those ranger schools all that tough shit...you can kick this too, somehow you switched out and thought alcohol is your buddy and sobriety is the enemy, but you can fix it, and you can kick its ass. I believe in you.
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| 4/24/2013 8:22:31 AM |
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tardsmasher2
Douglasville, GA
51, joined Jun. 2010
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Um probably not wise please keep it private no offense
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| 4/24/2013 8:24:51 AM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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I was about to write something really mean..... but I am done. I will come over tommorrow to have them transferred. If you are not able, I will just turn everything off. You have one days notice..... welll you've had 3 months... you knew it was coming. You are on my time.....
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| 4/24/2013 9:00:14 AM |
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freebirdguy
Griffin, GA
60, joined Jan. 2010
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And people want to know why I don't post on here any more. 
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| 4/24/2013 9:04:06 AM |
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happypainter
Dahlonega, GA
46, joined Sep. 2009
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That wasn't mean? I do not even understand why you are angry, there is nothing that I said that was a lie. You surround yourself with people who enable your drinking. Styxx has granddaughters I believe, how long do you think you would live if he found out you had driven of those girls around unsecured in the halfback of a little truck? You choose to drink, you made this thread, why is it not my right to answer back?
You are so far behind, from what I could see because you won't show me these bills I am supposed to pay, you can't pay anything off. I have asked for months to get them changed to my name, and you would disappear for days when we had a time set to go, and now they are so behind....did you do that on purpose? I posted about the nursing, the help with the house upkeep, all that stuff because I would think that deserves a pat on the back. It is so hard sometimes but I did it so far. What do I get from you? A 'thanks for trying'? No...I get a 'I am turning off the power even though you are on a breathing machine".
I have not used your name when the cadets come over to help, or any of the other students, except when they saw stuff with your mail lying around. In the reverse?? You would have talked shit about me to everyone but I actually protected you...and I do not know why the hell I do that for you. I could have told everyone how I did your work for you - you could just kiss your degree behind and pay all that Gov. Money back, but I am not that mean, but look at how you act when I answer a thread you made to me. All I asked was prep time and lets go transfer it over. I do not even know where you put all the boxes of papers like we need.
Do you realize that when I have to get people to help me dig through boxes looking for copies of the lease and the utilities files these people are thinking you are a total bastard?? This isn't the Internet Michael...this is about the small town you live in and how you are not thinking about your future.
Did you read your other email? About the business offer from the guy? Everyone trying so hard to help, and they say toss you away you are just crap, but for some reason I think there is something in your worth saving.
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| 4/24/2013 9:06:51 AM |
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felixdecat
Savannah, GA
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Um probably not wise please keep it private no offense
What? No drama on the internet? No crazy or something?
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| 4/24/2013 9:27:44 AM |
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happypainter
Dahlonega, GA
46, joined Sep. 2009
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Um probably not wise please keep it private no offense
I have hope for him I guess. I don't know why. I tried to be as respectful as I could, since I keep asking him to show me the latest bills....catch me up and let me see what I need financially to make this work....I have done this for months. I have been dealing with my Dad going into a nursing home and probably hospice in a fe weeks and my mother declining so rapidly, and even though they were not there for me I want to see them if I could. All this stress and I got on to a new palliative care group, and it's so hard to deal with my own stuff like having a big DO NOT CALL 911 in front of me because I want to stop but then I still feel,like fighting sometimes too...it's so hard.
I just needed the info, I needed time ahead so I could be prepared and I have asked nice so many times, others have asked too...I wanted to transfer them, and now he says he is going to cut it off which means even more money to rebook it up and I can't even drive...why I don't just do like he says and take handfuls off pills until I don't burden anyone anymore I don't know. I guess at least I am crying because I care and I love, not because I am filled with hate.
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| 4/24/2013 9:27:57 AM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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After tommorow the ones that pertain to you will be caught up. Like I said, I am not paying anything anymore after tomorrow... take an extra pain pill or something....
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| 4/24/2013 9:54:19 AM |
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writerdog
Lawrenceville, GA
30, joined Sep. 2010
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I guess it is now my turn to support Lisa, as she was there for me when I first befriended all of you. There's no two ways about it. The way you just addressed her is outright rediculus. Why treat someone so poorly that did nothing, but attempt to help? Before you mention it yourself, allow me to say that I definately am not aware of the entire situation. Nor should I be privey to this particular information. However, it is not considered respectful to walk out on those that have tried in vain to help you. As far as I can tell, all that Lisa required from you is a little understanding and respect. Please allow me to point out going out of your way to make asinine comments like the ones you made above is a far cry from that. What planet are you fron, anyway? Okay. I have officially said my piece. Take it which ever way you like. It makes no difference to me.
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| 4/24/2013 10:12:01 AM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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I love you milkshake.
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| 4/24/2013 10:13:24 AM |
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writerdog
Lawrenceville, GA
30, joined Sep. 2010
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I love you milkshake.
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| 4/24/2013 10:23:29 AM |
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happypainter
Dahlonega, GA
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After tommorow the ones that pertain to you will be caught up. Like I said, I am not paying anything anymore after tomorrow... take an extra pain pill or something....
Sorry I would rather hurt inside and face what I have to do and be done with it rather than 'take an extra pill'. Maybe if you got the guts to stand up and do what you gotta do instead of 'having another drink' you wouldn't be sitting there in a better place.
Thank you, Alicia, that was kind of you but I was stupid for trying to help him, and for expecting 'nice' in return. I don't know why but I still just wanted to hear him say that I Did do all this stuff, and tell him good news. I was stupid and never should have posted here.
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| 4/24/2013 10:25:08 AM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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You talking to me? What the hell does that mean?
Ask Lisa, we had a great laugh about it.
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| 4/24/2013 10:30:41 AM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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How many times have you done this with guys on this site? Red flags should have stood out....
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| 4/24/2013 11:01:08 AM |
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happypainter
Dahlonega, GA
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Except...you knew in advance what could happen. You always went to costs to me, so you could ask questions, you were offered support in caring for me.....you were offered an 'out' three times where someone was going to take over, like this (except you waited so long it is a mess to handle) but every time you had to do your 'I love her' couple with the 'I am a Ranger we can do anything'....except avoid running into our own front porch.
Okay this is stupid and asinine,
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| 4/24/2013 11:06:04 AM |
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happypainter
Dahlonega, GA
46, joined Sep. 2009
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Ask Lisa, we had a great laugh about it.
You know I hate your stupid 'jokes' calling people racial slurs and making fun of their disabilities....wtf? You have a nephew with severe autism, you want him to be talked about and made fun of by someone like you? And that is something else...you barely work, you don't go to school...could you put down the booze one day and sober up and maybe take the kid to the park or something? poor child has you as a male role model
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| 4/24/2013 11:14:13 AM |
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rynoserious
Bethlehem, GA
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Jonas!!
Can i bounce my scrumptious balls off of your ass??
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| 4/24/2013 11:17:42 AM |
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felixdecat
Savannah, GA
62, joined Apr. 2013
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You talking to me? What the hell does that mean?
Why don't you tell both parties to take this shit off here?
At this point, hardly anyone cares anymore, it's just more of the same shity f**ked up people, and their daily, shity lives being broadcasted. They're both blocked, enough is enough.
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| 4/24/2013 11:19:58 AM |
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tictacboss
Austell, GA
35, joined Apr. 2013
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How would you like to suck my bawls?
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| 4/24/2013 11:20:23 AM |
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writerdog
Lawrenceville, GA
30, joined Sep. 2010
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Why don't you tell both parties to take this shit off here?
At this point, hardly anyone cares anymore, it's just more of the same shity f**ked up people, and their daily, shity lives being broadcasted. They're both blocked, enough is enough.
I only took up for a friend. When he came back with that statement, I didn't know what he was talking about. As far as I am concerned my portion of this "talk" has come to a close.
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| 4/24/2013 11:55:21 AM |
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georgiat
Conyers, GA
62, joined Aug. 2008
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what a refreshing thread. you can tell it's spring with the all the love in the air.
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| 4/24/2013 12:22:49 PM |
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happypainter
Dahlonega, GA
46, joined Sep. 2009
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 4/24/2013 12:53:58 PM |
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sstiglets
Lakeland, GA
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Sounds to me Jonas is an donkeys rear end. You should never get wit someone if your not gonna stick to the end, unless the girl a slut but after the first week you would of known if that was the case.
& I could say more but you can't change a person of that nature
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| 4/25/2013 11:55:32 AM |
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jonas_has_risen
Dahlonega, GA
40, joined Dec. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 4/25/2013 12:34:09 PM |
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writerdog
Lawrenceville, GA
30, joined Sep. 2010
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I had made up my mind not to participate in this dumb argument anymore. However, posting that conversation for all to see is a bit much. I am pretty sure some of the others will agree that this is getting out of line. Why don't you guys agree to disagree about whatever the original fight was about? I will now return you to your regularly scheduled conversation. Sorry for interrupting.
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| 4/26/2013 2:39:17 AM |
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tardsmasher2
Douglasville, GA
51, joined Jun. 2010
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I've gots some more balls for jonas's collection c'mere boy
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| 4/27/2013 10:00:53 AM |
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i_stan
Byron, GA
64, joined Aug. 2010
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MY first question to ask, "Do YOU have an STD?" . . . not concerned about "your?" personal experience . . . or did I miss the intent of the post?
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