| 7/3/2008 12:29:19 AM |
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rjthomas698
Surprise, AZ
age: 25
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 It seems that every girl I get with like a holes and then complain when they are being one. What is the big deal. In my case I am not a a hole and my late lady friend decided to go out on me an cheat that is why I am single. An on top of that he has nothing to show for his life and has no job with a kid of his own and a wont to be gangster. Now please tell me what is the big deal. By the way is there any nice laid back lady out there that really whats to be treated right........
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| 7/3/2008 6:30:40 AM |
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ysera
Bronx, NY
age: 31
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Just be friends with chicks and see where it goes. The right one will come someday,besides your 25 and u should be working on yourself and have fun and enjoy life and forget about any relationship now unless the one pops up.
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| 7/4/2008 2:04:08 AM |
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1hungrychicken
Surprise, AZ
age: 37
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The last advice was very good. Take some time and work on yourself maybe go back to school and take a class you never know who you will meet in a different environment. Ha Ha I should take my own advice but I dont need another degree.
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| 7/4/2008 2:16:07 AM |
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rjthomas698
Surprise, AZ
age: 25
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I see why you told me to go back to school. My spelling sucks when I have a little much to drink. Please feel free to work around my spelling. Thank you
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| 7/4/2008 3:54:43 PM |
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1hungrychicken
Surprise, AZ
age: 37
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Ha ha that wasnt why i sad go back to school. The reason is your a young guy and can meet quality women there while bettering yourself. Crap if I didnt already have 4 degrees i would go back myself.
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| 7/5/2008 3:25:56 AM |
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rjthomas698
Surprise, AZ
age: 25
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That is great advice. Not to give excusses. But having very young kids with child support. Working 14-16 hours a day with sunday only off kind of makes it a lil ruff. But if you can tell me a better way I will take into consideration.
[Edited 7/5/2008 3:27:32 AM]
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| 7/8/2008 11:45:38 PM |
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sweetsickness4u
Phoenix, AZ
age: 19
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well i can tell u this....
im 1 of those girls who seem 2 always find the a**holes.
n so ive stayed single intil a ryte man comes along 2 prove me that not all r the same.
girls always go 4 it cuzz they take it as a challenge,
if the guy is an a-hole then "we" look at it like i wanna make him not b 1 2 only me.
u c?
but hell nahhh... im done wit all that.
i dont let the lil stuff stress me or the big stuff bring me down.
i keep it real n dont play all that lil kid stuff.
but maybe we shud talk.
holla if u'd like!!!!!!!!!
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| 7/9/2008 10:05:17 PM |
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testinggrounds
Queen Creek, AZ
age: 40
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Hey don't worry man, there is one around every corner.. One reason is that "Most Women" are hardwired to like the bad guy. It goes to thousands of years of the biggest baddest dude being able to bring home the food and protect what is his.. I know ladies that sounds sexist but it's the fact. Some women are attracted to all kinds of different people, I'm just talking about the majority.. So if 20% of the available women like guys who are nice guys, they pick within that group.. other factors come into play there, you would be at a disadvantage to me if the woman who was deciding between me and you really dug musicians... do you see???
Now a good guy can be a bad one also, when I perform my music, a girl that wouldnt give me the time of day on the street or at the mall, all the sudden calls me over to her table... It use to drive me nuts, but I know why.. they can't see my tallent, women wan't to be with guys who are successful, and they really like guys they think they can polishi into a diamond...
Odds are the girl who calls me over at a club is a bad girl, I'm seeing one right now and she's drop dead 27 year old... I know what she likes, I'm not an A hole, but I give her enough crap ignore her just enough to keep her calling every day. So for now if that's what floats her boat then I'm her bad guy.. Problem is though I gotta watch out, I may just fall for the bad girl,,,,,, again LOL....
So what you need to do is be a good bad guy if you wan't that kind of girl???.... My phone rings about every day from the bad girls. The girl I'm really after, you know long term, is going to take a while to find,,, If she isn't chased away by my good guy open heart. But from the girls who are after the bad guy... Find your superman mentality, I'm two people clark kent and then when I hit that stage or hand a girl a CD in a bar I'm superman, the good girl will dig both guys, the bad girl only wants superman... Chicks dig a guy who is tallented, what is your tallent??? It's tricky The point is just be laid back, talk about what you are really good at.. I really screwed up with a great gal just recently pushing things to fast, if she's into you don't tell her exactly how you feel to soon, it will likely chase her away..
unfortunately if you are working so much you are even more at a disadvantage, however the net is a great place for you to be, a lot of women are working just as hard as you.. That idea of you taking college is great, hey you don't have to take a full load, just take 1 class in something that women would be in, like Psycology??? or early childhood development, that's where I met my daughters mom.. She came home with me after an ASU class and never left for 5 years..
EM
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| 7/10/2008 7:33:26 PM |
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navyfive0
Surprise, AZ
age: 20
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well i can tell u this....
im 1 of those girls who seem 2 always find the a**holes.
n so ive stayed single intil a ryte man comes along 2 prove me that not all r the same.
girls always go 4 it cuzz they take it as a challenge,
if the guy is an a-hole then "we" look at it like i wanna make him not b 1 2 only me.
u c?
but hell nahhh... im done wit all that.
i dont let the lil stuff stress me or the big stuff bring me down.
i keep it real n dont play all that lil kid stuff.
but maybe we shud talk.
holla if u'd like!!!!!!!!!
huh??
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| 7/10/2008 7:44:33 PM |
Ladies what is the big deal |
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rogueghost
Tempe, AZ
age: 28
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well i can tell u this....
im 1 of those girls who seem 2 always find the a**holes.
n so ive stayed single intil a ryte man comes along 2 prove me that not all r the same.
girls always go 4 it cuzz they take it as a challenge,
if the guy is an a-hole then "we" look at it like i wanna make him not b 1 2 only me.
u c?
but hell nahhh... im done wit all that.
i dont let the lil stuff stress me or the big stuff bring me down.
i keep it real n dont play all that lil kid stuff.
but maybe we shud talk.
holla if u'd like!!!!!!!!!
huh??
The dating pool needs chlorine... and apparently, English lessons...
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| 7/10/2008 9:06:04 PM |
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a12345689
Scottsdale, AZ
age: 19
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do you watch tila tiquilla?(no homo) this reminds me of george on that show.
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| 7/13/2008 3:18:42 AM |
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rjthomas698
Surprise, AZ
age: 25
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do you watch tila tiquilla?(no homo) this reminds me of george on that show.
well if that was to me that I am a lame lil homo let me tell you something lil 19 year old puck. I my be nice to girls because I respect wemen. There is one thing you are forgetting is that it dont make me a homo son. In fact it makes me more of a man. But here is one lil leason that you should learn is that just because I treat wemen with respect real dont mean that I am a lil pus... Come on now you think that making a girl cry is being a man then you have something else coming son. I dare you to try an make me cry son. In fact go to your nerest bar you have a lot of them in scottsdale I should know and try to make a guy bigger than you cry. Then you can call your self a man untill you meet someone like me son.
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| 7/13/2008 10:11:11 PM |
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sweetsickness4u
Phoenix, AZ
age: 19
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i dont need english lessons thank you.
i explore my vocabulary n shorten my words.
so anyways!!!!!!!!!!
but i was saying that "woman" (like myself) seem to go for a**holes cuzz it seems to be a challenge.
if we can get an a**hole and turn them in a sweetheart only to us(the one girl).
then we have beat that course.
but it really makes no sence.
i seem to always find a**holes too and its a challenge.
but i gave up on all of it and staying single cuzz its way easier.
does that make better sence for you older guys who arent into the slang?
ha ha no offence.
laters
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| 7/14/2008 1:27:01 PM |
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rogueghost
Tempe, AZ
age: 28
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i dont need english lessons thank you.
i explore my vocabulary n shorten my words.
so anyways!!!!!!!!!!
but i was saying that "woman" (like myself) seem to go for a**holes cuzz it seems to be a challenge.
if we can get an a**hole and turn them in a sweetheart only to us(the one girl).
then we have beat that course.
but it really makes no sence.
i seem to always find a**holes too and its a challenge.
but i gave up on all of it and staying single cuzz its way easier.
does that make better sence for you older guys who arent into the slang?
ha ha no offence.
laters
No offense taken, and that was much better, thank you. I am not an old fart or anything, but if you go back and look at what you had wrote earlier, it really was pretty rediculous.
You are a very good looking young woman, and your profile is presented well. Then, you type a message on here that looked like my five year old was attempting to type for the first time.
Don't undermine yourself, or your intelligence, by lowering yourself for someone else. It's not as attractive as the way you act normally.
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| 7/15/2008 7:34:35 PM |
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navyfive0
Surprise, AZ
age: 20
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i dont need english lessons thank you.
i explore my vocabulary n shorten my words.
so anyways!!!!!!!!!!
but i was saying that "woman" (like myself) seem to go for a**holes cuzz it seems to be a challenge.
if we can get an a**hole and turn them in a sweetheart only to us(the one girl).
then we have beat that course.
but it really makes no sence.
i seem to always find a**holes too and its a challenge.
but i gave up on all of it and staying single cuzz its way easier.
does that make better sence for you older guys who arent into the slang?
ha ha no offence.
laters
no I think english lessons would still would be a good idea....
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