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9/10/2008 6:34:45 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
imhereforyou2
Gilman, IL
36, joined Sep. 2008


Well I am in the same boat as meny women. My husband cheated, lied and stole from me. His bestfriend was a girl. That was the first red flag. She was always over, calling, and wanting to have my husband over for dinner with out me. He was always lieing to me about where he was going, who he was seeing, and what he was doing while I was at work. He was taking the money I made and paying her remt, car payment, and for her name brand clothes. While I was struggling to make my truck payment and keeping me in scrubs for work. But when I noticed the money disapering I stopped putting it in the checking account. I am about over it now. Life goes on and well now he is paying my truck and house payment. CARMA IS A BITXX In the end we all get what we diserve

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9/10/2008 10:01:01 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

rss0412
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,537)
McHenry, IL
55, joined Feb. 2008


imhereforyou2. i admire the strenght you show here. sorry i can't wink or email, but dh won't allow it, since i'm out of your age range. almost like censorship.



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9/10/2008 11:04:59 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
snowbird1961
Over 2,000 Posts (3,704)
Los Lunas, NM
56, joined Apr. 2008


He wanted to move to Vegas, I like smaller towns. He wanted me to go to srtrip clubs with him, and I refused, he said I was too nice. He was my best friend for 12 years, we dated for 12 years off and on, then married for 8. I never saw it coming. He went out and found someone who would do all the above one night, brought her home and said he was leaving for Vegas. I helped him pack. CRASH!!! I hope he didn't need that. That was 3 years ago.

9/10/2008 11:06:41 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
endmytragity
Tomah, WI
32, joined May. 2008


my marriage and my last relationship ended the same way they found a guy who promised the world and gave them a grain of sand and when they tryed to come back i wasnt falling for it again

9/11/2008 9:55:19 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

bunnyfastard
Over 2,000 Posts (2,443)
Henderson, CO
59, joined Jun. 2008


She cheated on me and spent all the money. I'm alot better off now.

9/11/2008 11:09:40 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
canon55
Port Huron, MI
63, joined Apr. 2008


you dont love me all you want is sex,,duhh!

9/12/2008 6:43:19 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
wimsygirl
Campbellsville, KY
73, joined May. 2008


I could write a book , We were married soooooooo long 43 years and most good ones ...But then we just started to grow apart , he want his ,I went mine ..we both wanted differant things out of life ...Then he started going out dancing (without me ) so I said it is time to quit ! We are both better for it ..and happier too .

9/13/2008 9:38:23 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

croydon_pa_male
Trenton, NJ
61, joined May. 2008


She left one day. Never heard from her again. Why stay married to someone who's not there? I was bitter but now I'm not. I have avoided relationships for many years. I guess living alone and dying alone is my destiny in life. Not by choice, I'd rather have someone near me, but it just seems hard to find that person.

9/13/2008 6:37:26 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

bonzhd
Red Oak, TX
55, joined Jan. 2008


We just grew apart. She became more of a home body and I wanted to get out and met more people.
She has lots of family here and most of them still love me, but we're just friends and that's the way it'll be from now now.

So we got divorced because we were great frineds but sucked as being married.

9/13/2008 8:35:21 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

georgiachick
McDonough, GA
47, joined Sep. 2008


I was married for almost 18 years.He traded me in for a 22 year old!!!

9/13/2008 8:52:30 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
illbefree
West Olive, MI
36, joined May. 2008


she wanted someone else after 10 years

9/14/2008 12:18:30 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

stanizz
Fort Washington, MD
62, joined Jun. 2008


we argued all the time about everything. And when she ran out of new stuff to be mad about she would start with old arguements and what was said during those fights. IT NEVER STOPPED. While in the middle of a fight that was about 15 years old, I held up my hand went and got my work clothes and my lunch and left, I've never even thought about reconciliation.

9/14/2008 4:48:23 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
bad_wi_girl69
Colby, WI
65, joined Sep. 2008


nothing in common...he did his thing and i did mine..we lived together but not as husband and wife..

9/15/2008 9:15:03 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
sazzyazz
Vancouver, WA
32, joined Aug. 2008


he was abusive mentally and physically

9/15/2008 8:37:54 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

jack2334
Van Buren, AR
32, joined Sep. 2008


my ex- used drugs and cheated on me

9/15/2008 8:39:27 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

jack2334
Van Buren, AR
32, joined Sep. 2008


she cheated on me plus she did drugs

9/17/2008 9:33:13 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

jdarkdragon
Beaufort, SC
68, joined Nov. 2007


one thing she got hang up on online role playing and just give a dam about anyone kid, cat or the dog. Take all the money move in with the guy he was playing with in two weeks he send her packing and she in with one of GF and she send her pack as well Best to happen to now I just to move on.


Darkdragon

9/17/2008 9:58:31 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
trublu5ft2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,828)
Saint Joseph, TN
60, joined Jul. 2007


Gave to me everything I wanted.. nothing I needed

9/18/2008 2:30:30 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
bbbw2878
Wausau, WI
39, joined Jun. 2008


we were to young when we had are frist we tryed to make it work after 11 years she walked out on me and the kid's said i don't love you anymore and shut the door

9/18/2008 2:49:39 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
amyhair
Over 2,000 Posts (3,652)
Mission, KS
44, joined Mar. 2008


because I hated the son of a b*tch!!!!!!!!!

9/18/2008 3:04:09 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
cynthia_78
Bristol, IN
39, joined Jul. 2008


I got tired of smelling pork....What a pig!

9/19/2008 11:25:22 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
sassymt
Rocklin, CA
46, joined Aug. 2008


He decided he wanted to move to the other side of the United States to be closer to his family! Um...that wasn't going to work for me so much so it was just practical for us to divorce and go our separate ways. Still no draHma



9/20/2008 1:40:18 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
shadowe1
San Diego, CA
50, joined May. 2008


I have been married for 16 years -- married the first and only girl I ever dated in fact -- 2 of those years were OK, the next 2 she grew to hate me because she couldn't 'change me' and because I worked a lot of hours (because she didn't want to work), so she cheated on me, and I forgave her and tried harder to be a good husband because I really did love her and wanted it to work -- the next 12-years we spent separated (not legally, just living apart) -- I waited all these years for her, never straying, always being there for her.

Now, she finally wants an 'official' divorce so she can get together with someone else.

I'm happy to give it to her. I've been alone in a non-existent relationship for at least 14 years -- the divorce should have happened at least 12 years ago.

9/20/2008 8:08:32 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
justlanie
Troutman, NC
50, joined Sep. 2008


He cheated on me then blamed me. Said I was cheating on him . How could I . I was at work or at home with the kids. I couldnt go to the store alone . She took everthing she could and droped him. Some men are PIGS.

9/21/2008 10:17:54 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
kit280
Wichita, KS
37, joined Mar. 2008


He cheated on me and i dont stand for that at all.

9/22/2008 12:56:57 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
tman2408
Hamilton, MI
53, joined Feb. 2008


I found out she was working overtime..not at work..but with some guy from work.I asked her about it,and she wouldnt answer me.The next night she never came home,and left me and our 3yr old daughter to be with this guy.She sent me a letter telling me she didnt want to be with me anymore.."really".Its was bad ehough,but when my daughter would cry and ask when s my mom coming home just ripped my guts out.

9/22/2008 4:23:29 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
tatz2009
Fort Benning, GA
35, joined Sep. 2008


she cheated on me more than once, used my money and blamed me because I was distant. oh did I mention I was in iraq when she did this. needless to say my home comeing was shattering to find out less than 4 hours since I came home

9/22/2008 5:03:29 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
koolditzychik
Savannah, GA
55, joined Jul. 2008


After 19 1/2 years of verbal abuse, I found out that he liked little girls I am much better off without him, but it sure is lonely out here.

9/22/2008 5:38:08 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
theothergman
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,058)
Michigan, ND
56, joined Apr. 2008


Quote from amyhair:
because I hated the son of a b*tch!!!!!!!!!


That about sums it up.

9/23/2008 4:39:44 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
lancasterlady
Lancaster, CA
65, joined Jul. 2008


I divorced him or would have killed him!!!!!

9/23/2008 9:48:19 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
trackman66
Mandan, ND
51, joined Mar. 2008


The main reason I divorsed, my ex, love of my life choose a life of meth, once that gets ahold of a person, it is all over!!

9/23/2008 10:51:46 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
katedoyle
Willow Grove, PA
40, joined Jul. 2008


I now the feeling he was cheating and I ask if he wanted to save it but he said it was because other people telling me he was cheating that caused ours to end not the fact he was running around. Well we are all better off without them.

9/24/2008 9:29:22 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
makaboy
Over 2,000 Posts (3,432)
Stillwater, OK
44, joined Sep. 2008


Wife was unfaithful and wasnt going to change.

9/24/2008 9:36:33 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

alwaysfishin878
Over 1,000 Posts (1,567)
Waubun, MN
54, joined Apr. 2006


well she said it was a business trip to alanta,and i found out she went there to have a abortion with my child.since her new man didnt want to raise my child with her.some women are just evil.

9/24/2008 9:42:06 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
whispers_n_tx
Over 1,000 Posts (1,849)
Rusk, TX
37, joined Jul. 2008


Quote from alwaysfishin878:
well she said it was a business trip to alanta,and i found out she went there to have a abortion with my child.since her new man didnt want to raise my child with her.some women are just evil.



that is so fu***ng wrong.........my heart goes out to you........god almighty people these days are so dam selfish and shallow

9/24/2008 10:23:35 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

alwaysfishin878
Over 1,000 Posts (1,567)
Waubun, MN
54, joined Apr. 2006


ty whispers

9/24/2008 11:00:07 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
whispers_n_tx
Over 1,000 Posts (1,849)
Rusk, TX
37, joined Jul. 2008


Quote from alwaysfishin878:
ty whispers


your very welcome



i think some peoples compassion for life went out the window with yesterdays nasty farts



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9/28/2008 6:40:33 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

itsabreeze2me
West Palm Beach, FL
66, joined Aug. 2008


Some physical, mostly mental abuse........

9/28/2008 9:59:04 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

billyblueboy903
Texarkana, AR
42, joined Sep. 2008


She came up to me one day and said she knew I loved her, but that just wasn't enough for her. She said life was too short to be unhappy, and she had things she wanted to accomplish with her life. She wanted to travel the world, and build her career, and various things like that. Being a wife and mother was rather low on her list of priorities at the time. I still think it was a cruel and selfish choice to make, but in fairness to her, we were both in graduate school and life wasn't easy at the time. Money was tight and we had the constant stress of trying to go to school and take care of two babies and still work too, so maybe that's why she started daydreaming about seeing the world and doing other stuff with her life. I don't know for sure. I do know she had another boyfriend before the sheets had time to cool off. I think that hurt more than her leaving. . . breaking up and needing time apart for a while I could somewhat understand, but I never would have thought I meant so little to her that she could replace me that fast. I forgive her and I wish her well, but I'd be a liar if I said I didn't still miss her now and then.

9/28/2008 10:47:56 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

hamcoming00
Galena, IL
35, joined May. 2008


I was married for almost 3 years, but together for 7 years by the time we divorced. 3 days after our 2nd anniversary, he comes out and tells me that he is gay, and he cheated on me with a guy 6 months into our relationship!

Teresa

9/28/2008 11:29:22 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
hew50
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
59, joined Sep. 2008


Was not my idea she wanted to party after 23 and three kids. I worked second shift. We only saw each other on weekends. she got into myspace and chat rooms friends then started hanging out with this crowd of girls that was the end of me. life goes on...

9/30/2008 11:14:53 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
barbaraajo
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,400)
Reston, VA
61, joined Jul. 2008


He left me for another woman when our baby was only 2 months old and his mistress was already pregnant!!! He said he did not love me. He broke my heart.I did not even see it coming!
But I am okay now and glad he is gone, he did me a favor leaving me, who wants a man like that anyway.
I hate liars and cheaters!!!!

10/1/2008 12:02:04 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
hew50
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
59, joined Sep. 2008


Quote from barbaraajo:
He left me for another woman when our baby was only 2 months old and his mistress was already pregnant!!! He said he did not love me. He broke my heart.I did not even see it coming!
But I am okay now and glad he is gone, he did me a favor leaving me, who wants a man like that anyway.
I hate liars and cheaters!!!!



He was crazy time to move on. you are a lady. any man would have to be crazy

10/1/2008 12:20:10 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,679)
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008


Because in all of his 6'4" he couldn't find room to say "NO" to his mother...and she was asking a lot.

10/1/2008 5:47:11 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
smiles4ualways
Over 2,000 Posts (3,169)
Colonial Beach, VA
61, joined Jun. 2008


she admitted to a year long affair.

10/1/2008 6:09:38 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
jennieann68
Over 1,000 Posts (1,927)
Council Bluffs, IA
49, joined Apr. 2008


My ex is a wonderful man we just had stopped communicating and we were taking each other for granted. He was 13 years older than me and I think we overlooked the fact we didn't have the same interests. We both knew if was over, but we remain friends.

10/1/2008 6:12:04 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

bunnyfastard
Over 2,000 Posts (2,443)
Henderson, CO
59, joined Jun. 2008


Infidelity.

10/1/2008 5:08:17 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
55mm
Comstock Park, MI
47, joined Jul. 2008


Homewrecker was jealous of the amount of time he spent with me. That and he is a raging alcoholic. I thought it was time to leave when he pointed a loaded shot gun at me from 2 feet away.

10/2/2008 12:58:53 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
countrycharmer
Over 2,000 Posts (2,789)
Litchfield, OH
52, joined Sep. 2008


My 2-cents... She thought a marriage certificate was a licence for slavery from day-one. The children & I are much better off now, although I did tough it out for 17-years.

10/2/2008 10:44:10 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

tmanqz
Wyoming, MI
51, joined Sep. 2008


My ex told me she had no physical attraction or chemistry for me 3 months after we were married,(in other words I was her sugar daddy) that she had repressed these feelings and negelected to let me know before we
got married.
I stuck it out 7 years for the sake of my 5 year stepson who I love very much and didnt want to see him abandoned again.(like his bio dad did)



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10/3/2008 2:23:45 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

renemotoman
Los Banos, CA
46, joined Oct. 2008


kept getting cheated on and lied to. i know i deserve better, now the hard part is finding her. lol me and the x are cool now.

10/3/2008 7:26:36 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
evilgiggle
Woodstock, GA
48, joined Sep. 2008


pretty much cheated on, lied to and drugs/alcohol. every time i would give him a chance to redeem himself, he would fall off the wagon time and time again. last straw was i was in the hospital in intensive care, he came in, laid on the bed that i was and said that this was boring and left within 30 minutes of getting there. after that i pretty much just bid my time to leave and ended.


10/3/2008 12:56:24 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

felicia_alexis
Osawatomie, KS
32, joined Sep. 2008


abussive and had drinking issues

10/3/2008 2:52:59 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

flyingdutchman
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,319)
Lancaster, CA
53, joined Jan. 2008


My profile says it all...

10/4/2008 10:07:07 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
shellbellmi
Galesburg, MI
48, joined Feb. 2008


Quote from tabithamarie23:
just wondering why anybody divorced what reason did you divorce


He was cheating and looked me in the eye and lied about it. I had to find out through friends. I DO NOT tolerate cheating or forgive or forget. She apparently was also cheating on her husband with him, so they deserve each other. Not sure how either of them could trust each other though, but he's not my problem anymore. I'm much happier with out him. Just need to find a great guy to be with again... Now that's another story and issue altogether.

10/6/2008 9:56:04 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
sunshine319
Saint Joseph, MO
53, joined Sep. 2008


He cheated on me. The drugs and alcohol and staying out all hurs of the night and be gone 2-3 days a week. Then got fired from job. So moved in with the ex-wife so she could support his habits. Thank god hes gone.

10/9/2008 8:43:02 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
gingersnap79
Fulton, NY
38, joined Sep. 2008


too much to list here, i'd be here for years, but Let me say this"WASN'T WORTH ANY OF IT AT ALL"

10/9/2008 10:16:22 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  
linspace2
Asbury, MO
57, joined Aug. 2008


the #'s didn't add up
26 years of marriage
3 kids
13 affairs
2 black eyes
1 broken nose = 1 divorce
You add it up

10/9/2008 11:20:51 PM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

kat46218
Indianapolis, IN
40, joined Dec. 2007


Well...he:

- He was chatting to numerous women online with intention of cheating.
- He then acted on it by calling his ex-girlfriend invited her over to my house & had sex with her in our pool.
- He then made friends with another gal & f**ked her in my bed while I lay up doped up from surgery.
- Endured 7 miscarriages due to him constantly keeping me in a state of panic, anxiety, depression & stress.
- Through all of this I endured verbal, emotional, and physical abuse due to his inability to control himself & drinking. (it got so bad. he one night after work came home i was upstairs on the beautiful sky-bridge we had that connected our 2 upstairs bedrooms and bathroom polishing the pure honey oak banister. he decided it would be fun to grab me up and throw me over the banister trying to drop me on the couch below i landed on the coffee table damn near breaking my back.)
- The last straw was when he came to me & told me that he was f**king another man at work whom I knew him & his wife Renee. Plus f**king the gal from the bedroom incident.


After all is said & done I still talk to Renee & have a close relationship with her & her ex-husbands kids that of which she has 4 the last one of which she was pregnant with when this happened.

So yea.

10/10/2008 11:26:29 AM Why did any of you divorce? | Page 3  

travel_gal
Spearfish, SD
77, joined Jun. 2008


We grew apart big time. We each had different ideas for retirement. I wanted to get out and travel - do and see, he was content to stay at home. Now he's happy, and so am I.






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