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7/14/2008 9:03:41 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
tabithamarie23
Bakersfield, CA
32, joined Apr. 2008


just wondering why anybody divorced what reason did you divorce




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7/14/2008 3:38:16 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
papa_jack
Camarillo, CA
40, joined Mar. 2008


She cheated on me!!!!!

7/14/2008 4:13:32 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
econjoe
Decatur, AL
33, joined Jul. 2008


Two different people with different goals in life.

7/14/2008 4:22:03 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
foxy_woman_49
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,595)
Omaha, NE
58, joined Nov. 2007


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

7/14/2008 5:13:38 PM Why did any of you divorce?  

bookshort
Herrin, IL
68, joined May. 2007


After 36 1/2 years I found out that he was a cheat and a liar. He also seemed to think that his adult children wanted to know about his affairs. When my oldest grandson came to me and said, "Why are you so nice to Grandpa when he is so mean to you?" That is when I left. Three years later on our 40th wedding anniversary we were divorced on the grounds of "extreme mental cruelty". Him, not me.



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7/14/2008 6:38:21 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
real53
Sumner, GA
63, joined Jun. 2008


first one her family interfearing . she would not tell them to butt out . second one was cheating !

7/14/2008 7:52:51 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
mrq423
Racine, WI
64, joined Mar. 2008


A person can only take verbal abuse so long.
After 30 yrs. of trying to keep it together, I started to lose who I was.
And believed what lies he was saying about me...
I had to get out.

7/14/2008 10:52:28 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
aerrol
Houston, TX
46, joined Jul. 2008


Our goals changed and we grew apart.
Then we quit talking.
Then the space between us filled up with all the stuff we no longer said to each other.
After the space started filling up, it was done.

So, for my next one, I won't repeat my mistake. It is good if you can learn from your mistakes.

7/14/2008 11:00:45 PM Why did any of you divorce?  

snshl2b1
Atlanta, GA
56, joined Apr. 2008


i came up with the brilliant idea of trying an open relationship, polyamory. growing up in the free love generation it seemed like a good idea at the time. long story short, she fell for someone else, and next thing you know, i was playing second fiddle. once the tide of her love turned, there was no going back. doh! what was i thinking!



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7/15/2008 1:22:50 AM Why did any of you divorce?  

chazlieb
Columbus, OH
57, joined Jul. 2008


After 24 years she said that she was tired of being married.Shortly thereafter I found out she was seeing the maintenance man at her work(which is my occupation).She moved out and gave me everything.Now she's sorry she did.BOO HOO!!

7/15/2008 1:25:11 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
tabithamarie23
Bakersfield, CA
32, joined Apr. 2008


my family would not stop getting in my bussiness and made it hell for us to

7/15/2008 12:34:50 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
hrt4u
Dundee, IL
49, joined Apr. 2008


Drugs. vs family.... picked drugs, left family high and dry most of the time,
so he wasn't there for his family. Blew paycheck after paycheck.


7/15/2008 2:24:50 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
tabithamarie23
Bakersfield, CA
32, joined Apr. 2008


Quote from econjoe:
Two different people with different goals in life.
it was that for me too
i wanted school he wanted me home all the time

7/15/2008 4:30:13 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
esa52
Summerfield, FL
65, joined May. 2008


My first husband hit and cheated on me,he wanted an open relationship-{on his side only]my second,just wanted what he could get from me and to my third,I was just a pay check and a warm body in bed,{he was an obsessive-compulsive shopper also] and he was supposed to be a Christian ???

7/15/2008 5:50:34 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
round124
Jamestown, ND
47, joined Jun. 2008


her boyfriend had a problem with me.

7/15/2008 7:06:08 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
suzie23
Little Rock, AR
45, joined May. 2008


Irreconsilable differances (we would have killed eachother if we didn't)

7/15/2008 7:23:29 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
inspectthis
Paso Robles, CA
54, joined May. 2008


She brought home the machanic to meet me.

7/15/2008 7:24:39 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
inspectthis
Paso Robles, CA
54, joined May. 2008


Talk about cold hearted

7/16/2008 7:47:26 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
suzie23
Little Rock, AR
45, joined May. 2008


Quote from inspectthis:
She brought home the machanic to meet me.


Oh honey, that's just wrong

7/16/2008 2:43:52 PM Why did any of you divorce?  

nanachar
Minneapolis, MN
61, joined Jun. 2008


First husband cheated on me. His friends made him do it. I left.
Second cheated on me and said I was, not. He threatened to leave me. I kicked him out

7/16/2008 2:55:58 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
ontherun1
Natchez, LA
54, joined Jun. 2008


Mine decided she would start co signing loans for our grown son without consulting me. Also failed to tell me many times about extra credit cards.She wanted and got everything but could not tell me to my face real reason for leaving

7/16/2008 3:31:03 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
nocoyote
Meridian, ID
47, joined Jul. 2008


Mine decided that the day after her daughter graduated, she wanted to then move south and be free and close to her family! Forget about her "real" family being her husband and step-children.. So she left for 2 weeks came back and I found out she cheated on me...I still never wanted to go thru with the divorce but she pushed for it...so sad...

7/16/2008 3:57:49 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
underthestars16
Over 1,000 Posts (1,365)
Lancaster, WI
31, joined Jul. 2008


im in the process of divorce and hes the one who wanted it, he said he wanted to better his life and he couldnt do it with me and his daughter in it, so to tell u the truth i really dont know y he wanted a divorce, to me its an excuse to go f**k whoever he wants now.

7/20/2008 2:14:35 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
ladyvirtue123
Over 1,000 Posts (1,946)
Magalia, CA
61, joined Jun. 2008


Quote from tabithamarie23:
just wondering why anybody divorced what reason did you divorce


My ex told me that he wasn't IN LOVE with me anymore, but said he did love me..he said he wasn't happy anymore..then I found out he had been cheating on me..I had so much trust and faith in him it was hard to believe..I filed for divorce two days later..

7/22/2008 7:07:07 AM Why did any of you divorce?  

imagoodone4sure
Over 2,000 Posts (3,833)
Xenia, OH
57, joined May. 2008


He hit me, that was back in 1990 and he has since past away. I have forgiven him and hope he is in heaven?

7/22/2008 10:33:17 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
snackman714
Norwalk, CT
54, joined Mar. 2008


Because her boyfriend kind of ruined it for me. funny thing is where I caught her cheatn on me,its called the Hi-Ho Motor inn LOL

7/26/2008 8:23:31 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
littlebit38
Austin, TX
79, joined Jun. 2008


He met a 19 year old topless dancer he couldn't live without. He was a Full Gospel Christian. He told me his girlfriend was pregnant on New Years Day (a Sunday) after we got home from church. He divorced me!!!She filled out the papers!!!! 5 years later she left him for another man who had gotten her pregnant!!! He called 2 years ago, crying and telling me he had made the biggest mistake in his life by divorcing me. I forgave him. ------and told him if he ever called me again I would have him arrested. I haven't heard from him since. P. S. I was told by a friend of his he is now living with another topless dancer/cocaine user.

7/28/2008 8:40:10 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
mtn_man_vail
Over 1,000 Posts (1,334)
Eagle, CO
54, joined May. 2008


She said if i ever got arrested she would leave me. 15 yrs later i got pulled over, got arrested for a guy who has the same name and has warrants...Yes a real true mistaken identity. Yes she kicked me out!

7/28/2008 11:58:54 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
deni56
Tampa, FL
65, joined Jul. 2008


He had a girl friend and I do not share well!

7/29/2008 12:08:02 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
navigator2
Bismarck, ND
65, joined Jun. 2008


Career's took us to different locations,,

Nav,

7/29/2008 3:56:05 PM Why did any of you divorce?  

rojamami
Over 2,000 Posts (2,395)
Brunswick, GA
55, joined Feb. 2008


He had 1 wife, and who
know's how many girlfriend's.

7/29/2008 9:51:54 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
reall_bored
Las Vegas, NV
39, joined Jul. 2008


Mine just woke up one day after 3 years and decided he didnt want responsibility. I was hurt by his decision but hes a great guy and everyone deserves to be happy even asses like him.

7/31/2008 5:06:25 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
monarchian
Wrens, GA
50, joined Jul. 2008


Both of mine were unfaithful.Are there anymore faithful women out there?I am a man that believes in the vows that i took. For richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, till death do us part.Any women want a faithul man like me.
Shalom

8/2/2008 1:49:30 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
markinmt
Billings, MT
45, joined Mar. 2007


Told me i wasnt doing my share and then married someone else a couple months after the divorce was final. So am thinking that she found someone else.

8/2/2008 5:07:05 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
greeneyedgirl52
Savannah, GA
65, joined May. 2008


After 30 years he just got tired of trying, I just wonder what he was tired of. He didn't work, didn't stay home, did't cook,clean house,wash dishes,wash, dry or put up laundry. He left and once the shock wore off, I divorced him. I knew he had another woman,won't be nasty about it just say he failed the taste test.

8/2/2008 11:59:05 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
canufi6my
Lawrenceville, GA
67, joined Jun. 2007


Kept waking up with too many legs in bed!

8/3/2008 12:30:33 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
musicandsmiles
Salem, OR
62, joined Jan. 2008


He left me for another woman ... plain and simple. After cleaning me out financially of course. And now, he's on wife #6 ... isn't that impressive!

8/3/2008 12:55:34 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
kingkamo
Highland, IL
33, joined Mar. 2008


my wife left me durring the superbowl no less........now that's just heartless. after a week or so we talked about it and decided to divorce because we wanted different things out of life and couldn't get along to save our lives. we didn't want to put our daughter through the childhood i had of my parents constantly at each others throats........... oh and for the record ladies don't force your husbands to give up there friends it only makes them miserable.

8/3/2008 3:08:54 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
blessedlady48
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Largo, FL
58, joined Aug. 2007


i came to the lord and he left me for a stripper,,,can u believe that?
church,,,i went to ,,,and he went to a stripper,,\\\\\\\\\\\\

8/3/2008 7:52:18 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
web_rose
Phillipsburg, NJ
57, joined Aug. 2008


My husband decided he wanted to spend the rest of his life with someone else, and I decided to let him. Funny thing is, she left him after I moved out and a short time before the divorce. In the four years since, he has had 5 different girlfriends and is now remarried. And I thought I was dependent.

8/3/2008 11:59:50 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
32ford
Smyrna, GA
62, joined Apr. 2008


Grew apart after 29 years. She's a great lady...I could have done more,treated her better....easy to just say it failed.

8/3/2008 12:56:11 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
sensuousmagic
Grand Prairie, TX
65, joined Feb. 2008


She had to many boyfriends going to see her when I was at work. She got caught one night.

8/5/2008 7:19:44 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
iambegonia
Brownsville, TX
46, joined Aug. 2008


He cheated on me with a woman he met in a bar.

8/5/2008 8:54:31 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
zero1944
Tullahoma, TN
73, joined Jul. 2008


she got pregnant when i went to nam the first time i got a letter from my uncles wife (she was german so is my wife)right after the 68 tet offensive said she maid a mistake got pregnant i told her she needed to adopt the kid out and i would let it go...she did...i went back to nam 69 she told me she was pregnant thought it was mine found out march 2007 she got knocked up by my dad...both times ...i raised his bastard son!!!the divorce will be started in october...have to be here 6 month for residency.the old man is dead ...lucky for him ....she is still kicking...ain't much ican do....screwed up 40 years of my life.....stuff happens...i was mad for 3 or 4 days then experienced peace beyond all understanding.....Jesus works!!!!peace

8/5/2008 8:57:07 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
zero1944
Tullahoma, TN
73, joined Jul. 2008


she got pregnant when i went to nam the first time i got a letter from my uncles wife (she was german so is my wife)right after the 68 tet offensive said she maid a mistake got pregnant i told her she needed to adopt the kid out and i would let it go...she did...i went back to nam 69 she told me she was pregnant thought it was mine found out march 2007 she got knocked up by my dad...both times ...i raised his bastard son!!!the divorce will be started in october...have to be here 6 month for residency.the old man is dead ...lucky for him ....she is still kicking...ain't much i can do....screwed up 40 years of my life.....stuff happens...i was mad for 3 or 4 days then experienced peace beyond all understanding.....Jesus works!!!!peace

8/6/2008 11:57:56 AM Why did any of you divorce?  

m1chael
Columbus, IN
50, joined Dec. 2007


Her infidelity...

8/6/2008 12:24:16 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
sinatra877
Edgewater, FL
48, joined Aug. 2008


My short marriage ended due to all my overseas deployments. She and I agreed together that it was a great career opportunity but long deployments overseas will eventually drive marriages apart. She just expected a local Cop I guess.

8/7/2008 9:43:11 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
tobydean
Carroll, IA
52, joined Jul. 2008


My Ex, was a control freak. I could not stand the fighting any longer. I was married for 8 years. I have been divorced for 17.

8/10/2008 11:12:57 AM Why did any of you divorce?  

twinmomnurse
Mount Laurel, NJ
61, joined Jul. 2008


He slept in another room.... Lack of affection, need I say more?

8/10/2008 6:55:19 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
transplant_rose
Texarkana, AR
66, joined Jul. 2008


He was a narcissist.

8/10/2008 10:24:33 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
woundedwolfman
Lawrenceville, GA
42, joined Aug. 2008


She had an affair, walked out, moved in with an 18 year old (She was 32 at the time) and filed for divorce and told me there was no turning back.

I had two choices, take the uncontested divorce that she filed asking for nothing but her car and her belongings - or - Fight it out, pay legal fees and wind up losing half my house and paying alimoney.

I was heartbroken, but not stupid.

8/13/2008 6:26:13 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
harleyrider71
Powell, TN
45, joined Aug. 2008


I didn't like that piece of paper hanging over my head. also he spent check after check with no money help me pay the bills. and i don't need a man that shows me no repect after i give him everthing that i can. why would marry men stay out all night at times other than a drug problem or women? is there any good guys left out there

8/14/2008 12:54:01 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
justme1122
Middletown, DE
52, joined Sep. 2007


He cheated..

8/15/2008 2:46:53 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
radarlove28
Florence, AL
37, joined Jan. 2008


cheated on me for some crack head off the street and still wants me back(gold figure)

8/15/2008 8:14:06 PM Why did any of you divorce?  

lizzard1966
Reinbeck, IA
50, joined Jul. 2008


She cared more for the drugs than she did for us.

8/16/2008 2:48:29 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
badmonkey247
Woodstock, GA
42, joined Jun. 2008


She left me for her boss after she moved me and my two boys 750 miles from home in Delaware they had slept together for a year and a half before I even moved here. A she filed not me I still ...I'm stupid k

8/16/2008 1:01:59 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
spectrre
Shawnee, OK
46, joined Aug. 2008


My ex cheated with an under aged guy,was mentaly and emotionaly abusive towards me and finaly I had enough and ended the 11 year nightmare that was my marriage.

8/16/2008 4:32:51 PM Why did any of you divorce?  
ziggy16010
Gold Bar, WA
71, joined Aug. 2008


Well just to name a few reasons..........infidelity, physical abuse, verbal abuse, lack of physical relations

8/20/2008 2:53:44 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
sweeteepye669
Biloxi, MS
38, joined Feb. 2008


he cheated and moved in with his newly found **ore...and abusive

8/20/2008 3:03:16 AM Why did any of you divorce?  
big_papi1973
Hesperia, CA
43, joined Mar. 2008


i told her it wasnt working out i didnt feel the same for her and she didnt feel the same for me so we said we would divorce . little do you know she was cheating on me so it made thingns a little easier for both of us . o well






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