| 8/16/2008 3:04:14 AM |
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brilovesu
Eugene, OR
age: 19
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tell me is it bad when a girl goes down on a guy?
or its not bad to do it when you get it in return?
tell me your opinion.
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| 8/16/2008 5:19:39 AM |
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lovingmanhere
Costa Mesa, CA
age: 42
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For one, as the guy, I always thought of her first, because she needs time to build up to the passion that leads to the more active part of the Love making process. I always feel if you make her climax first by going down on her first, then she will be so much more excited when it comes to my needs.
Yes, sometimes it would be nice for the woman in the guys life to just attack him all of a sudden and just go at him, it is extremely exciting for the guy...but it does not have to be that way everytime...the point is to balance it. By being sensitive to each others needs for wanting to be spontanious and loving both directions....if both are always willing to bring the other first to that climax, maybe even alternating each time by pre-agreeing to that being the case. Then both can feel the amazing passion and sensation that comes from letting the other person in their life feel how much you want to please them as much as they want to please you.
Then of course you can always also do each other at the same time.....either way...the whole point is to do it with someone you Love, otherwise the passion and the fulfillment that comes from it is not the same. Deep passion only comes from Love, anyone can be physical, but the sensations are many times more intense if the passion is being felt from really loving the other person your with. For when you love each other, just being in each others arms is a overwelming experience, and just adds to all that comes from making love with someone.
I am being as honest as I can be,
LovingManHere
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| 8/16/2008 5:21:34 AM |
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alicekathleen
Fresno, CA
age: 63
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There is a sex and relationship forum where you might get tons of replies for this... to answer your question, though,
it's a matter of taste, no pun intended.
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| 8/16/2008 9:08:36 AM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 55
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tell me is it bad when a girl goes down on a guy?
or its not bad to do it when you get it in return?
tell me your opinion.
Definately the wrong forum, and naive to boot!
Wrong? Oral sex is wrong???
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| 8/16/2008 12:34:28 PM |
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sweet_taurus
Laytonville, CA
age: 57
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Well, she's ONLY 18, so we'll give her a chance to find the SEX forums on her own...
And to answer her question directly, reciprocity is very good, unless one of the persons has cooties or the gal is having her period...and I'd be offended if she didn't at least TRY...
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| 8/16/2008 2:58:01 PM |
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alicekathleen
Fresno, CA
age: 63
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Oh Taurus, at 18, I would hope she is in the LIBRARY (maybe she is!) or taking a class or swimming, not on DH
with the jaded. Speaking of which, I hear absinthe is now legal again, want to try it.
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| 8/16/2008 3:52:34 PM |
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spuninpalms
Indio, CA
age: 45
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No it's not bad to go down on a guy.... but if the guy knows how to please a woman than he would already be down on you before you could even think about going down on him... and its always best when both parties are down on each other/... thats just my way of thinking
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| 8/16/2008 4:04:06 PM |
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brilovesu
Eugene, OR
age: 19
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thanks guys.. and yes iam a very smart girl. never tryed any of this in my life.. and i just wanted a heads up. but thanks.
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| 8/16/2008 7:44:34 PM |
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sweet_taurus
Laytonville, CA
age: 57
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You just wanted a "heads up"...???
That's the spirit..!!!
You'll probably get your wish ...
Keep a positive frame of mind & I'm sure something will "pop up"...
(pun intended)...
The secret to oral sex is the same for kissing...know when to come up for air...
[Edited 8/16/2008 7:47:49 PM]
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| 8/17/2008 11:49:42 PM |
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robdub
Gerber, CA
age: 21
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na it feels bomb
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| 8/29/2008 1:34:27 AM |
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dogwhisperer05
Redding, CA
age: 35
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LOL funny question.... But if you do it good its gonna be wanted and expected more... All up to you if its good or bad....
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| 8/29/2008 2:24:31 AM |
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strongart
Granada Hills, CA
age: 54
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its only bad if you feel compelled to do it or forced to. either way to do without wanting to do makes it wrong. you should never go down on a guy unless you enjoy it or want to learn to enjoy it. it is an aquired taste just like going down on a women is. you should learn to love the act not just for the pleasure it brings but for the art as well. as with anything the better you can do it the more pleasure is brought to everyone. so do it for him but better yet do it because you have the ability to rock both your worlds. his getting off should be the spring that sets yours in motion as well. enjoy!
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| 8/29/2008 9:27:27 AM |
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crazygroupie
Murrieta, CA
age: 54
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its only bad if you feel compelled to do it or forced to. either way to do without wanting to do makes it wrong. you should never go down on a guy unless you enjoy it or want to learn to enjoy it. it is an aquired taste just like going down on a women is. you should learn to love the act not just for the pleasure it brings but for the art as well. as with anything the better you can do it the more pleasure is brought to everyone. so do it for him but better yet do it because you have the ability to rock both your worlds. his getting off should be the spring that sets yours in motion as well. enjoy!
Very well said!!!
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| 8/29/2008 12:26:02 PM |
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sweet_taurus
Laytonville, CA
age: 57
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na it feels bomb
Now what on earth doea THAT mean..???
Lets try REAL english
(or else you might be wasting your time speaking phrases folks don't understand)..
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| 8/31/2008 9:20:18 AM |
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ifuwntme2
Fresno, CA
age: 23
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f**k no its not bad unless the girl doesnt know whats she s doing lol
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