8/18/2008 9:49:25 PM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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mrmarvel
Camden, NJ
age: 24
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I really like to know why?
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8/19/2008 3:57:46 PM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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unclefunkey
Teaneck, NJ
age: 50
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Marv,
The short answer is because they let themselves get screwed over!
The longer part of that is you have to have respect for yourself first if you expect others to respect you. NO ONE wants a DOORMAT! You can meet people half way, but when you lay down everything for someone you are a doormat!
Just be YOURSELF! If they are interested in you they will meet you half way!!If not it wouldn't have worked anyway!
Funkey
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8/20/2008 10:59:03 AM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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shannonleigh25
Egg Harbor Township, NJ
age: 25
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ur not the only one who gets screwed over girls get it too i know i have over & over again !!! & im sick of it !!!
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9/1/2008 12:59:32 PM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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mrmarvel
Camden, NJ
age: 24
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i really like to meet that right woman
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9/2/2008 7:39:35 PM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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I really like to know why?
I would like to know why any kind hearted person gets screwed over. It doesn't just happen to the guys.
Some people are too nice and too trusting. I have been learning my lessons on that area but it can be hard.
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9/2/2008 9:41:16 PM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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johnny_be_goode
Cedar Knolls, NJ
age: 22
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that's a mystery that will never be solved I feel, one girl told me nice guys are boring and I feel as though that's the most arrogant statement I've ever heard in my life but anyways I think the answer is just that real women want the nice guys but silly little girls want the d-bags, so I say let em have it, because I know I'm not perfect but i know how to treat a lady and someone out there will appreciate it so no worries man
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9/3/2008 10:09:43 AM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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amyh123
Toms River, NJ
age: 25
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Its not just the nice guys that get screwed over but its the girls also. I use to allow myself to get used by men but not anymore. You shouldn't allow yourself to get used either. That doesn't mean that you have to be rude or nasty. All that it means is that you should want to get what you give. If you are nice, loving, honest, respectful, kindhearted with your significant other then, you should want your significant other to be the same way. If not then go out and find someone else, there are plenty of women out that want someone who is a gentlmen, trust me I know. I am one of them.
Good luck to you. And have fun.
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9/3/2008 11:03:22 PM |
why all nice kind hearted guys get screw over? |
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angelboy2099
Ridgewood, NJ
age: 25
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Some people are cruel. I mean they think nice people as either pushovers or idiots. I'm a nice guy but I lay down the ground rules with people, I tell them I am nobody's fool! I think thats one of the main problems with nice people getting owned its because these messed up people think nice people will take their shit! Sadly I have been played because I gave some of these women the benefit of the doubt. I agree with Amy. The door swings both ways and women have issues with guys too. Take things easy and slow. Get to know them as much as possible and if you feel safe then take it to the next level.
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