9/4/2008 9:16:34 PM |
single dad with custody trying to get back into dating any pointers? |
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bigmike28
Griffin, GA
age: 28
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ok im a single dad with custody and now divorced. mother not an issue disappeared 7 months ago.trying to start dating again slowly any pointers?
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9/4/2008 9:28:02 PM |
single dad with custody trying to get back into dating any pointers? |
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stan_the_man
Downers Grove, IL
age: 38
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Sorry, not much pointers on "how" to hook-up. Its awfully hard around here. I'm lost as far as how to get a good woman, most of them around here are psycos or looking for "what you've GOT". The best advice I can give you is do not compromise you and the child(ren) and just always be yourself. If you are taking youre job as a single parent seriously (like I have) and YOU obviously have, then any "real/good" WOMAN will take that as knoble at least and accept "ALL" of what you offer.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
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9/4/2008 9:33:43 PM |
single dad with custody trying to get back into dating any pointers? |
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bigmike28
Griffin, GA
age: 28
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i appreciate that stan.
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9/4/2008 9:41:39 PM |
single dad with custody trying to get back into dating any pointers? |
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stan_the_man
Downers Grove, IL
age: 38
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No problem bigmike its only what i know!
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9/4/2008 10:52:52 PM |
single dad with custody trying to get back into dating any pointers? |
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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I guess all I want to say is to keep your dating seperate from your children, and if you introduce a woman, do so only as a friend. Depending on their ages, they will get attached quickly, and you don't want more people leaving them - they won't understand why people come and go from their lives. Also some parents make the mistake of giving their children power they neither should have nor are capable of dealing with, such as telling them they have a say in your relationships.
Good luck to you in finding female companionship.
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9/5/2008 6:34:18 PM |
single dad with custody trying to get back into dating any pointers? |
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marlakw6
Owensboro, KY
age: 41
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I don't think anybody can get a date around here. I've only met 2 people that actually hooked up on here. Seems everyone wants to post on the topics but it doesn't spark much conversation.
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9/5/2008 7:21:15 PM |
single dad with custody trying to get back into dating any pointers? |
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owensborogirl2
Owensboro, KY
age: 44 online now!
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bigmike the only pointers that I can give is don't let your children meet the person your dating until you know that you are serious about that person....Don't put your children through an emontional roller costal..
I have never been married and never have I taken any man home, when my children where little.I would not put them through the heart ache if things didn't work out...I guess what I am saying always put them first even when they aren't there with you.Use your judgement, only you can decide what is best for them and no one else....and yes I hate to say this but not all women will understand that your children come first no matter what. Good Luck to you.
JMO
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