9/12/2008 1:01:02 PM |
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jessh1981
Fond du Lac, WI
age: 27
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I am average looking at least that is what I think. I have three kids that scares most guys away already. Either that or the guys that I do meet on sites like this are from to far away and it's just a friendship thing which I totally don't mind, but when seriously does a girl get a chance with a guy because she has a great personality and not such great Assetts??? Every guy I talk to says wow, you're so nice, and funny and blah blah blah...then it gets down to the where's your picture question...which I can understand that look are important because you don't want to chew your arm off the next morning after you wake up next to someone but what are qualities of "good looks" nowdays...just curious....
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9/12/2008 1:28:57 PM |
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wifluffy
Hartland, WI
age: 43
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I think thats a great question...can't wait to see how the guys respond to this!
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9/14/2008 8:48:07 AM |
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redjulie65
Beloit, WI
age: 42
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yes thats a very good?
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9/14/2008 9:58:30 AM |
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juggaloscrub
Mequon, WI
age: 31
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Ok I'll brave this one. First off everyone knows it's different for everyone. I can say for me my fav is long hair, nice eyes, average body size, and something that makes her well her! The real things come out when I get to know a girl and that either enhances her pyscial beauty or takes from it.
Sometimes I have noticed online that people get a fantisy going in there head the when the pic dosen't match what they think...well poof they are gone. I don't know if that helps but I figured I'd try.
p.s. I hear you on the kids thing. I have three myself and sometimes that sends the women running!
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9/14/2008 10:23:51 AM |
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sailorbarbie
Nashotah, WI
age: 29
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I think you are not giving yourself enough credit. Who told you are "average" looking? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your personality is your beauty. We can all change our looks day to day but your soul is your true self. I can put extensions in my hair, whiten my teeth, wear acrylic nails, fake eye lashes, go tanning, get lyposcution, or a boob job, and guess what it is all fake!!! Don't let any man tell you you are "average" and definitely don't believe it yourself. Meeting people on-line is a great way to base a relationship on your personality. You can talk back and forth and not let sexual tension get in the way.
P.S. I think physical beauty can be a hinder in meeting people too. I want to know that someone likes me for whats on the inside and not my looks.
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9/14/2008 2:06:39 PM |
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carnut1968
Fond du Lac, WI
age: 49
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I would rather have an average looking women with a great persoality, Than someone who is a knockout that is a B*TCH!! In my book average and a great personality is a knockout
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9/14/2008 3:41:27 PM |
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meadowlady
Verona, WI
age: 62
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Thank you Carnut. What's happening in Fond du Lac? I lived there a long time ago and kind of miss it.
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9/14/2008 4:08:11 PM |
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hhrchevyman
Sun Prairie, WI
age: 64
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A great personality is a great asset to have. Would like to find a lady that has that.
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9/14/2008 5:15:24 PM |
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carnut1968
Fond du Lac, WI
age: 49
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Thank you Carnut. What's happening in Fond du Lac? I lived there a long time ago and kind of miss it.
Hi
Not much going on here, There redoing alot of the roads and it's a mess
My road is all mud, kind of hard to keep the car clean
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9/17/2008 11:21:27 AM |
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kevin_d_m
Fond du Lac, WI
age: 33
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I know a lot of attractive women that I wouldn't want anything to do with just because their personalities make them EXTREMELY unattractive.
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9/17/2008 6:25:57 PM |
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emt854again
Appleton, WI
age: 54
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If your happy with your life it shows from the inside out and you usually attract the same. Personality is a definate YES
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9/18/2008 10:20:05 AM |
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2tallmoose
Poplar, WI
age: 44
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Average... A word that has almost as many definitions as there are people.
Beauty... Another word with as many definitions.
This is a world of 'Different strokes for different folks'. Don't allow only a few people to define what type of person you are. If you find someone that is OK with you having 3 kids, and you 'click' with them in conversation, don't string things along for a great deal of time without them knowing what you look like. Put it all out there to quickly sort out the ones that just won't work out, so that you can move on to find the one that is right for you.
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9/18/2008 4:49:18 PM |
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mrq423
Racine, WI
age: 55
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"...you don't want to chew your arm off the next morning after you wake up next to someone..." - I just heard this saying in the last few days. I had to laugh.
But I guess it isn't funny, to some people.
I never considered myself good-looking, or pretty. Maybe not even average...
From the people that really know me though, my personality outshines/outweighs more
than anything. Like EMT said, if you are happy, it shows from within.
I have been beaming for months. I can't stop smiling. And people think I am crazy
for being so positive and upbeat; even at 7 in the morning.
Jessh, what you "offer" to others, of yourself, as far as positive assets, will be a bonus. Your looks, if someone truly cares about YOU, will make no difference.
Be happy. Open and honest.... and things will fall into place !
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9/20/2008 10:12:34 PM |
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annie74
Appleton, WI
age: 51
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I know a lot of attractive women that I wouldn't want anything to do with just because their personalities make them EXTREMELY unattractive.
Hmmmmm, I've been told I have a great personality. Not to boast but I think so too. I love to laugh and have fun and I'm a very compassionate, passionate, affectionate person.
So why can't I find a nice tall man? SHEEEEEEESH! I get emails from short guys. No offense but I do NOT want someone shorter than me.
Oh well.....on to stalking some more tall men in my area. lol
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9/21/2008 11:34:59 PM |
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endmytragity
Tomah, WI
age: 23
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ok ill try my hand at this some good points have been made already that beauty is in the eye of the beholder .......
but a good personality is a damn good thing to have becuse you could be hott and come off as a bi**h and no one will even touch you so all you have to do is
1. be confident
2. present your self how you want to be treated ie if you want respect give it.
3.if you see some one you are intrested in go for it whats the worst that will happen they say no woopdy do evendently they wernt worth the time
4. dont try to type at 130 in the morning becuse your message will look as bad as mine my fingers wont work lol good luck all and have fun ttyl
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