Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??

3/31/2009 5:41:03 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
omaharick Omaha, NE age: 50	Where does one go for a casual hookup anyway? I cant even find that. LOL Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
4/1/2009 3:35:46 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
nperez2681 Columbus, NE age: 29	I totally agree that most men on here are just lookin for a lay, what the hell is up with that? i really would like to find someone that likes me for who i am not what kind of kinky tricks i can do in the sack oh well if all else fails become a nun! lol no not really
4/1/2009 6:49:50 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
kermit32 York, NE age: 54	I hear the nuns are getting lucky all the time....oh no...that was finding husbands.
4/2/2009 3:59:05 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
italianlady05 Omaha, NE age: 55	well duh...sometimes the guy just has to ask the gal OUT and see what happens! Too many sit back and do nothing!
4/3/2009 12:43:59 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
foxy_woman_49 Omaha, NE age: 52	looks like many from this thread up and Deleted! I'm still around ..just meet and see..no harm in that Doesnt take more than that to decide either way
4/18/2009 8:56:51 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
kermit32 York, NE age: 54	nperez2681 ....we all like you and we really don't want you to become a nun....nothing wrong with that.don't get me wrong! I am sure they do well. Don't sweat the small stuff and just weed through the bineweed and find the peaches. little fuzzy guys! [Edited 4/18/2009 8:57:51 AM ]
4/22/2009 9:46:12 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
t_momma Omaha, NE age: 30	People STOP looking for relationship or hookups!!!!! START looking for friendships that may eventually lead to realationships over time not over night or next week! A friend is less stress to impress. Havent you heard that friendships may lead to a beautiful relationship that may lead to a marriage or commitment. Then u grow old to look back and relize that you two were friends and built a wounderful life together!
4/27/2009 7:35:24 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
rgmiller456 Omaha, NE age: 24	Been looking for a relationship here, I have no desire to look in the bar crowd or else where for one night stands. I like companionship and being with someone who enjoys the time together just as much no matter what the situation. I guess I'll keep on looking till my search finally ends.
4/29/2009 1:30:01 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
tailgatevnvmc Lincoln, NE age: 60	I have been looking also but seems no one wants to talk with a disabled vet. I am looking for a long term relationship and am free to travel
5/1/2009 1:54:24 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
kd8hho Anderson, IN age: 28	interesting... a relationship would be nice. but wont happen. and i never get laid, im not that lucky.... all i got is the internet. now if i could only hit the lotto it be just awesome... what was the question again?
5/14/2009 1:32:32 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
hillery06 Oneill, NE age: 22	i think people put to much stress on a relationship, just have fun, and if your tired of guys looking at you thinking hes going to get laid maybe you should just relax guys are guys and they have needs to. im not makeing excuses for them but hey ive enjoyed flings myself and its the dumb girls that dont protect there hearts and just expect to find love everywhere that get hurt the worst ive been there! stop looking and relax it will find you when you least expect it!
5/14/2009 7:14:11 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
alan272 East Helena, MT age: 52	What is a casual hookup?
5/29/2009 11:20:49 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
a2609 Omaha, NE age: 27	Some guys are like that. . . Some guys aren't. Some of us actually want a decent long lasting relationship that actually means something. Girls play games too don't get me wrong. For me , if something good comes along and things start to click and there's a connection then lets go for it and hopefully see where things go. All you got to do is be yourself and play your cards right and not be fake.
5/30/2009 1:19:06 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
lonecruiser Omaha, NE age: 55	Its sad to say but alot of the guys here are only looking for that quicky one nighter, and they belive that really useing thier head to get it, they are only its the wrong head that they are useing
5/31/2009 2:31:14 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
kermit32 York, NE age: 54	I didn't know anyone could be that talented to type with THAT head??
6/14/2009 5:32:58 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
billfsg Lincoln, NE age: 41	P wish women were out there for something real is there any?
6/16/2009 8:05:30 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
midniteraven Omaha, NE age: 58	Ok, I am coming out of my 'lurking' position here...almost relieved. I was beginning to think I was the only one experiencing too many of the same complaints. Even with my direct profile, that can be construed as 'snooty' ...still I get a higher thinking caliber 'fool'. That is minus Mr. Bob, who has been building a friendship without all the 'trouble hooks'...that is refreshing. In all fairness, friendship is all I have to offer at this time. So ladies, Mr. Bob gets my vote for being 'real'...so how come you all are not flooding his email box? We are going to have to join forces here and work out some kind of questionnaire or list of 'signs' to weed out the bloviaters...for both women and men...by the way, will have to work on a get together, I like that idea...Have a great evening folks
6/20/2009 10:43:10 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
cronos420 Lincoln, NE age: 32	hi my name is jay and im looking for more then a hook up im looking for a relationship
6/28/2009 11:00:56 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
huskerben Bellevue, NE age: 30	hi im new to here i have just moved back to bellevue and looking to meet fun new people i dont have a picture up yet because i dont have my computer running hopefully this comming week
7/14/2009 4:56:44 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
rebekahs1969 Lincoln, NE age: 41	me to jay so read your blog replys and call me already. Rebekahs1969
7/18/2009 6:34:40 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
annie7777777 Seward, NE age: 54	Hi..Ok I am getting nosey..what do you mean, "they like getting hurt"? I am lost on that one.
7/19/2009 5:49:22 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
fun4life42 Plattsmouth, NE age: 43	Yes it is hard to sort the good ones from the bad ones. I know somone, somwhere is out there. I've hit it off really good with a guy and yes he lives in another state. Finding a way to meet is very hard. But not only the intown can be pricks but watch out for the out of state ones also.
7/19/2009 5:54:33 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
fun4life42 Plattsmouth, NE age: 43	A second reply to the first one. Although there are great men that I have come across out of state, it would be easier to find one close to home...but who knows the out of state one may and could be the one.
7/29/2009 9:14:43 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
aspiring4love Lincoln, NE age: 45	Keep looking, and be grateful that you are getting responses. I tried the wink thing and got nothing. So now I’m emailing women welcoming them to datehookup or asking them what movies (or what ever is in their profile) they like and still I get nothing. I’m not sure what it is I’m doing wrong. I guess it’s hard to separate the women who are looking for relationships and or friendships (that are in my age range) and the cougars that are on the prowl. [Edited 7/29/2009 9:16:07 PM ]
9/9/2009 10:05:56 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
bm3w_serpent Lincoln, NE age: 21	psh.... it is not just the cougers on the prowl yo.... Dont get me wrong with this sex on the first night / date = absolute NO NO, but the reason you wanted to talk to the ppl that you sending messages to is because they caught your eye with there profile pic!!! then you went on to read there profile, and decided to send them an email / wink. I am not dogging on anyone here, i am just saying that we as sexual beigns are all out on the prowl (one way or another) I think the reason ppl dont find what they are looking for here is cuz they make it a bit to picky for other ppl to respond to it. Me personally i am looking for friends, hookups, relationships, and just ppl to talk to. If i decide that i like one of my friends, hookups, more then just a friend or hookup then i will try to get to know them a bit better for sure I think being more open will make more ppl happy. But yes no to Sex on first date = failed relationship's (sorry for gramatical and spelling errors LMAO)
11/11/2009 5:18:17 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
sagitarias Omaha, NE age: 19	hey are u on the computer at this moment
11/13/2009 5:19:20 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
specialk5347 La Vista, NE age: 63	Definitely looking for a relationship but it is all about meeting the right person. It is tough, and more so when you are more "mature". I am sure there are guys out there who are looking for same but if they meet someone and even though that person may not be someone they think could be long-term, many (I am not saying ALL) are still going to try to get laid as long as they have made the effort/expense to meet. jmo
11/19/2009 1:36:06 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
bignewk Springfield, NE age: 22	is anybody real on this website cuz i never hear from nebody in my area
11/20/2009 9:45:41 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
driftracers Valentine, NE age: 24	hi i'm a single guy i'm from a little town called pine ridge south dakota i go down that way every so months and i know what you mean if you like to talk send a line its the same over here to but with the girls its hard to find some one these days thay all wont to play games
11/20/2009 9:50:41 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
driftracers Valentine, NE age: 24	hi r u on
11/22/2009 4:51:57 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
kingofnothing Stella, NE age: 20	Yea i am at least. i just can't find anyone near me which to date?
11/23/2009 4:27:04 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
kermit32 York, NE age: 54	hey king...welcome to Dh. you do have your hands full in that area, I was there for 20 years and found lots of great people.....It takes time and you get to do some travelling to meet people outside of the first 20 miles around you. Keep the head up..they are out there.
11/23/2009 12:54:08 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
agathon Omaha, NE age: 36	I look at it this way: I am personally very libertine in my values. I have no issues with people looking for casual sex. Most healthy people want sex. A healthy sex-life is important to most of us. And I will admit it: I love sex. It feels wonderful, and is one of my favorite pass-times. I will also say that I have had very brief, sexual relationships. I don't call them "one night stands" because that demeans them somewhat. An example: One of the most beautiful experiences of my life was making a strong spiritual connection with a woman shortly before I moved from the Los Angeles area. I knew I wasn't staying in the area, and told her as much on our first date. I also told her that I was really enjoying our connection, and wanted to explore it with her. I asked her if she was willing to go back to her place so we could enjoy each other. She agreed and we went and enjoyed a glass of wine together, read original poetry to each other (we both write poetry), and then took it to her bedroom. The next day, we met after she got off work at a pier on the ocean, and just cuddled as we cast rose petals into the surf, bearing wishes we had for our (independent) futures. I emailed her a year later, telling her that I still think of that night and following day fondly, and hoped she was doing well. She replied that she, too, had fond memories of it, and was grateful for the experience. What I have never done is pretend that I am wanting a relationship when I really just want sex. Nor do I pretend to just want sex, when I really want a relationship. Those, to me, are terribly dishonest ways to get what you want. In our culture, many men do the former... pretending to want a relationship to 'hook' a woman into giving him sex. Many women frankly do the latter, offering sex to 'hook' a man in hopes of seducing him into a relationship. So I don't play those games... I like sex, and will take it if offered. I like relationships, and will work toward that, too. I am simply always honest and genuine about who I am, what I want, what I'm willing to do to get it, and where I draw my limits and boundaries. So yes, I have had "brief, sexual relationships" that have lasted a day, or a weekend, or a week. I have also had several relationships last over a year. I was married for 8 years before we went our separate ways, and the separation was done in love, with some sadness, but very little regret. She and I still communicate, and have a fondness for each other (though we will never be a couple again). I have only ever had one relationship end badly, and I believe that was due to mental illness on her part. Other than that one, I am on speaking terms with every woman I have ever been intimately involved with (about 15). K (edited for grammar) [Edited 11/23/2009 12:55:38 PM ]
11/23/2009 9:33:43 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
kitty_foo_foo Lincoln, NE age: 19	I am looking for a serious relationship if anyone cares to know. I am tired of being alone. I find the single life to be on the suckie side.
11/24/2009 1:59:50 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
stargazzer Creighton, NE age: 61 online now!	suckie is forever or single you will be
11/28/2009 9:45:24 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
scttrex33 Omaha, NE age: 29	hi.
11/29/2009 1:41:59 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
catflea12 Hastings, NE age: 57	I personally am looking for either a deep and spiritual expression of physical intimancy or tawdry and demeaning sex, as long as it is on an ongoing basis.
12/15/2009 7:53:53 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
radar37 Bellevue, NE age: 38	Any one here from bellevue?
12/15/2009 9:08:27 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
scttrex33 Omaha, NE age: 29	Look only dudes have posted on this page. The reason is that American females have been dumbed down. Not one female posts here because they are all cheating on there boyfriends. Look... All females ( i wont call them ladies because they are not ladies) have a boyfriend, a text message boyfriend and a boy that they are "just friends" with. American women are demonic sub humans with substandard intellect. There demons include fashion, trends, clown make-up, clown shoes, clown hair, cars, money, pride and narcissism. Our generation of women are socio-paths. There is no saving them. They are mean spirited and cruel. Its like Miss havishhams wet dream. I am going to buy myself a wife. If she wants to run off after she gets her citizenship i say dont let the door hit ya. I will just buy another one. Ladies, we cant keep getting all attached to you and then catching you whoring around. Men are loosing respect for you. I hope you die alone and your kids hate you for destroying the family.
12/21/2009 4:19:38 PM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
breanpo La Vista, NE age: 40	I hear ya sweetbrunette2, I get the same crap don't even want to take you out just want you to come over their place is all I get, It's very irritating shivelry is so dead! Considering just giving up and learn to enjoy being by myself.
12/27/2009 7:46:59 AM	Anyone Actually looking for a relationship and not a casual hook up??
redrum225 Lincoln, NE age: 35	yes i am i was with some one for nine years and you are right sex is not every thing,if its going to happen it will i want to get to no some body first.any way check my profile

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