9/15/2008 8:06:31 AM |
Why Do the Woman ALWAYS Back Out or Disappear At Date Time? |
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hardthunder
Fenton, MO
age: 54
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1. Because They're Too Scared To Enjoy A Date! |
2. Because They Never Wanted A Date! |
3. Because They Like To Mess With Us Men! |
4. Because They Just Don't Care! |
5. Becaue Their Momma Never Taught Them Proper! |
6. Because of Past Experiences! (Which shouldn't even happen!) |
I posed this question, only because I am getting tired of being dumped all the time, on the day of event. Events are only planned AFTER a first meet has been made and both feel comfortable about going up the ladder to the next step. I spend good money on tickets, work my magic to get good seats, location. Only on the day of the show find out the date is a no-show, no-go. That just plain sticks (emergencies excepted - but never isthe excuse.)
I have given many tickets away so I could go enjoy the event anyway.. Since I got tired of spending 60 to 100 bucks a ticket, and wasting some of them, I just stopped asking friends to do things with me. (Which was one of the reasons I was searching for a friend: to enjoy the events.) So, even with the friends I have made, I am back to only getting one ticket and going to the venues myself. At least I know I'm going to have a good time. Doesn't matter if it's the cesspool at [blocked site],(got tired of fishing in that pond really quick!), the crap at Singlesnet (More like Single Scam), or the many others, singles in the St. Louis area are all players. Doesn't matter if it's a date site, a hookup site, or a friend site. Seems the Web just brings all the crap together.
I know I am an odd one, I love to have fun, ride my harley, explore old towns, go to museums, botanical gardens, butterfly house, and the arch and boats on the river and am also pretty wild in other areas, but I am a fun one to hang with, and have a fun time with. I work hard and do a damn good job, and when I play, I like to play hard, and have a damn good time when I do.
So, why do people disappear, never to be heard from again? Or come back with a story only to do it again. Don't do forums much as I am always working, but found a few minutes and thought I would rattle some cages...
Peace
Crazy in St. Louis Area
Hope the flooding over the weekend did not affect many of you..
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9/15/2008 9:04:31 AM |
Why Do the Woman ALWAYS Back Out or Disappear At Date Time? |
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anne654
Springfield, MO
age: 54
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It happens to women too Crazy, we also get stood up, and never hear from the guy again. It works both ways
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9/15/2008 1:33:55 PM |
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bowlingpat
West Chester, PA
age: 57
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Hello Crazy,
Awwww man what a bummer sadden to hear that.
Sad to say it has happened to me
too Crazy believe me I know what you are
going through.
Men do it to women cause I believe they
have cold feet.
They can be just as scared as a woman can.
I hope your next date turns out better
for you, cause you are an awesome man.
Pat
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9/15/2008 5:43:49 PM |
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sugrbut
Farmington, MO
age: 51
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You just haven't ask the right woman yet. I am assuming you have got to know them a bit first.
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9/18/2008 7:21:31 PM |
Why Do the Woman ALWAYS Back Out or Disappear At Date Time? |
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polymorph
Poplar Bluff, MO
age: 56
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My guess is none of the above.
Add answer 7: Because they will have to reveal that all is not as it seems on their profile.
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9/18/2008 10:44:48 PM |
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dtak
Jackson, MO
age: 51
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do what I do crazy.
when you first meet hold her hand,
Look deep into her eyes.
then get down on all 4's and start sniffin her butt...
if shes not running for the car by the sniffing part...she will defenatly be there for the date
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9/21/2008 6:14:02 PM |
Why Do the Woman ALWAYS Back Out or Disappear At Date Time? |
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dreamweaver0033
Houston, MO
age: 63
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Maybe that play hard scares the crap out of them. When they see you, do they see someone who looks crazy? Like you know you tell people your crazy, maybe they see you and thhink maybe he is not lying. Just a thought. I met this realy nice looking guy, He asks me are you hungry, lets take my car . Then heads out of town. I ask him if he is an ax murder. He looks me strate in the eyes and says "Yes and so far I have gotten away with it, and I will get away with it this time."HELLO.. My cell rings. saved by the bell . I say in the phone Well if you saw me get in that black car with that nice looking guy, then you know I am busy.What do you mean look in the rear view mirror, why are you following us. we are just going to lunch. he takes me 50 iles away to a restraunt, theres several in my town. Then took me back to the restraunt that we met at.Needless to say i wrote him an email saying i enjoyed myself, hope he did too. BUT he just was not what i was looking for.
I was told by a pro that anytime a man looks you in the eye and tells you something like I am a bad man beleave him,then he will laugh and say he was joking. ( This one never said he was joking and he did not laugh.) Later they will tell you. Don't you remember i told you i was bad. I warned you , you did not listen. Moral to true story. do not tell people you are crazy, they will think about this and start to worry about it.
If you realy want a woman we all like that little extra effort that say's hey I want you. take the hat off , trim the beard, show some of that face and smile.a little effort goes along ways.And at the age brackett of past 30 theres not too many looking for a wild man,
This has all been writen for your understanding, not too hurt your feelings. from what i have read both of us have been down that road one too many times. And I have had advice given to me. Take from it what you want, throw the rest away go your way, and I wish you the best of luck and GOD's speed
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9/23/2008 2:28:17 PM |
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weltystocker
Licking, MO
age: 26
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becuse some may don't know what they what in a person and is trying see if your that one being.don't go on a date just go out for coffie or something basic.
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9/23/2008 5:33:19 PM |
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sweethooth47
Kansas City, MO
age: 60
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this does happen to women too! i have met men and they say they want to see me again and never call. if they don't want to see me again i wish they would not say anything because i feel they r lieing to me so now i got where i can't believe them. that's what happens and it's not good!!!!!
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9/28/2008 1:47:09 PM |
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andrew81
Joplin, MO
age: 27
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not enough confidence or she has too many guys to count!!
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9/30/2008 3:13:04 PM |
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manda99
Bloomfield, MO
age: 27
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PLEASE Y do men back out on dates at the last moment? I have had the worst luck with this. I am starting to think there is a mix up. Men need to own up to having the balls or just give em to us ladies and u all can have the p*ssys.
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