jer1906
Indianapolis, IN
age: 24 online now!
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i need a women to be with...give me a chance, what do u say?
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chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 60 online now!
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Way to desperate...relax and be more yourself. Give them a chance to get to know you.
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jer1906
Indianapolis, IN
age: 24 online now!
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no one will even write me...what am i to do...im tired of being alone
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notblonde
Franklin, IN
age: 43
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Hi;
Just a heads up; you might try to take out the stuff about what you don't want---once you are talking to someone you can decide if that's her or not---and instead tell us about YOU, what do you like, to eat? to do on your time off? Something that makes you laugh, that you have done recently that you'd like to share with a woman friend....
Knowing for example, that I'm not a little girl and that you have specified that and not much more, really doesn't make me want ot talk to you instead of another guy.
try reading some other guy's profiles to get an idea of what to write.
It is about telling us what's special about YOU. What do you bring to the table that none of the other guys have? Smarts? Humor? Love animals?
Just something to think about.
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sixstrings2play
Richmond, IN
age: 32
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Hi;
Just a heads up; you might try to take out the stuff about what you don't want---once you are talking to someone you can decide if that's her or not---and instead tell us about YOU, what do you like, to eat? to do on your time off? Something that makes you laugh, that you have done recently that you'd like to share with a woman friend....
Knowing for example, that I'm not a little girl and that you have specified that and not much more, really doesn't make me want ot talk to you instead of another guy.
try reading some other guy's profiles to get an idea of what to write.
It is about telling us what's special about YOU. What do you bring to the table that none of the other guys have? Smarts? Humor? Love animals?
Just something to think about.
Well said. Also get out & mingle somehow/where. Clear your mind of anything negative, & think positive. Even if you aren't happy, keep atleast a grin on your face (a positive), you'll build yourself a bit better. Probably catch a few looks, make conversation if you feel something.
Often we pass up good people because of their problems they are working on. Later you will see them & wonder why you never talked to em, then you realize it was bad judgment. I'm not sure how else to help ya other than combine the 2 replies, & make the best of it here! I try to keep positive, there's always too much negative out in the world already! Not saying turn weird on us, but it's easier to talk about positives than negatives when starting a conversation. Confidence is a strange aphrodisiac! Couple that with positive energy & you will be on the right path. For the ladies, sexy is an attitude (you already knew that)!
Don't build up a load of negative, & dump it all at once on someone. Rather let out a little at a time. If you flood the gates with shit, you're gonna watch people scatter!
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