sugrbut
Farmington, MO
age: 51
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Where is the line drawn? How do you know when you are stepping over the line? I'm confused!!  
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artangel
Saint Louis, MO
age: 27
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Flirting is fine as long as you're not taking it beyond that. I'm a fairly jealous person but both men and women have to remember that it's our human instinct to look at the opposite sex (sometime the same sex). If you don't have any intentions to go home with them or meet up with them later then there's no problem with flirting but if you are having thoughts about being with them then you need to tell your mate because even then you're cheating and if not you're going to eventually because that sort of thing is only a matter of time. When you start cheating in your mind and heart then it's bound to happen physically at some point. If your mate doesn't like your flirting then talk to them about it. I flirt without even realizing I'm flirting and sometimes it can make people uncomfortable and the best thing for any relationship is communication.
If anyone agrees or disagrees I'd like to hear opinions.
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hunter65010
Ashland, MO
age: 56
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I guess you have to know what line you are drawing. You could be over the line if you are leading on someone you have no intention of following through with. You never know how that person is taking it when you flirt with them. After being married a long time and suddenly finding myself single, I sometimes thought anyone who was just being nice to me was flirting and other times I thought people who were flirting with me was just being nice. I lost all proportion by being out of the game a long time. But flirting is generally taken as showing some kind of attraction and you best be ready for any variety of reactions, especially if you don't know the person you are flirting with very well.
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