10/4/2008 3:53:05 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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rach08
Lakeville, MN
age: 18
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is it wrong to have only guy friends? cuz that for some reason causes trust problems guys? like they think im gonna cheat with EVERY single one of them... its not like i have even a single history of cheating to begin with i kno how much that hurts and i wouldnt do that to someone... but i cant stand girls... to much monthly drama and blah i cant even exsplain it i just like bein around guys more but wut is it about having so many guy friends that scares the boyfriend away?
-Rach
[Edited 10/4/2008 4:18:26 PM]
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10/4/2008 4:40:48 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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yus
Rochester, MN
age: 22
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no idea, maybe its just the thought of the guy losing what they love most...personally, i was sorta kinda cheated on....my gf or ex now, kissed another guy, and within 1 day decided to be with him instead of me...how does someone do that? seriously...i'm not a jealous type though...my ex had plunty of guy friends..doesn't really bother me..unless they are trying to make a move..but other then that im fine with everyone having any kind of friends they want.. if you trust the other person, you should never have thoughts of cheating..but thats just me... i know your skeptical of guys, but give some of the good guys a chance, were out there...just have to be patient really...ya don't know what you found until its to late...but i hear what your saying
keep your head high!
YuS
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10/4/2008 5:03:37 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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akog77
Minneapolis, MN
age: 20
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Face it, most guys are horn dogs, and a lot of girls are sluts as well. If a boyfriend is worried about you cheating with your guys friends, take it like this, it just shows that you mean something to him and he doesn't want to loose you. Hell, when my ex was worried about me being around my girlfriends, I immediately took it as her just caring about me and our relationship. I also urged he if she was worried to just tell me up front. It makes me happy to hear stuff like that, because it shows that she truly cared. DO NOT take it as a bad thing.
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10/4/2008 5:11:24 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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yus
Rochester, MN
age: 22
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Face it, most guys are horn dogs, and a lot of girls are sluts as well. If a boyfriend is worried about you cheating with your guys friends, take it like this, it just shows that you mean something to him and he doesn't want to loose you. Hell, when my ex was worried about me being around my girlfriends, I immediately took it as her just caring about me and our relationship. I also urged he if she was worried to just tell me up front. It makes me happy to hear stuff like that, because it shows that she truly cared. DO NOT take it as a bad thing.
sorry but im not one of "most guys".... i look for someone i can have a good time with..and i highly doubt "most girls" are sluts... idk..i guess i'm just not like "most guys" I look for someone i can have a good time with not just think about sex and crap..that comes later when 2 people talk about it and are ready.... so idk..i get what you mean though..im just not most guys...
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10/4/2008 5:12:52 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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akog77
Minneapolis, MN
age: 20
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who said anything about sex??? I just said ATTRACTION
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10/4/2008 5:22:43 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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rach08
Lakeville, MN
age: 18
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Face it, most guys are horn dogs, and a lot of girls are sluts as well. If a boyfriend is worried about you cheating with your guys friends, take it like this, it just shows that you mean something to him and he doesn't want to loose you. Hell, when my ex was worried about me being around my girlfriends, I immediately took it as her just caring about me and our relationship. I also urged he if she was worried to just tell me up front. It makes me happy to hear stuff like that, because it shows that she truly cared. DO NOT take it as a bad thing.
most girls are sluts...
ur one of those guys...
ur like those guys who have f**ked with my mind so bad that ive given up on relationships and thats why im on f**kin secondchancemaybe.com... pathetic
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10/4/2008 5:24:35 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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yus
Rochester, MN
age: 22
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i know man..lol..i just got off on a ramble and i know sorry about that..i just hate people who treat women like objects and stuff, i know your not like that or anything..its just i respect women alot..thats all...sorry if i came off weird there...
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10/4/2008 5:35:45 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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akog77
Minneapolis, MN
age: 20
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YUS its all good...... Rach, wow so quick to start pointing your finger and calling people things they arent. WOW. You dont even know me.
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10/4/2008 5:36:43 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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yus
Rochester, MN
age: 22
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thanks for saying that, i couldn't have said it better then that...
- this is to Rach response
[Edited 10/4/2008 5:37:56 PM]
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10/4/2008 5:37:08 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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akog77
Minneapolis, MN
age: 20
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and YUS, i completely agree with you on the whole respecting women to the most. Its a must. Too many people are jerks and a s s h o l e s to women
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10/4/2008 5:41:28 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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akog77
Minneapolis, MN
age: 20
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Rach you need to put that blame on the real a s s h o l e that dumped you for 'his' personal reasons or for his messed up reasons. I've was in a serious relationship for 2 years, yes two years, she wasn't a BARBIE DOLL!!! She was pretty and unique to me, and that was all that mattered.
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10/4/2008 10:42:14 PM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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rach08
Lakeville, MN
age: 18
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im just assuming ur kinda shallow judging on ur responses to everything saying u like somone whos thin and looks mater... and they all come before personallity who wouldnt assume kinda the worst in someone with those aspects on the table?
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10/5/2008 11:11:04 AM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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pooq
Saint Paul, MN
age: 26
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back to the issue...
Your boyfriend is jealous of you hangin with doods... its normal. its expected.
HOW he handles it is the question.
also, not only is it normal its CORRECT. your guy friends DO want to have sex... with you or anyone. With almost any guy, if the situation turns that way hes not likely gonna say no unless hes in a relationship and only then just not to gamble on regular booty getting options.
Sounds bad and everyone can deny it but thats what it comes down to when you been dating less that a few years. After that the rules change.
So don't argue or put it in his face but do what you gotta do and show him that he can trust YOU and doesn't have to trust your guy friends.... Got it? Do I make sense or just sound jaded and d*ckish?
Im a serious type dude myself and come on too strong, making me less desirable, but then if I don't, I miss the boat.
Good luck and stay relaxed,
*Nothing is f u c k e d here dude,
Pooq
*big lebowski
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10/13/2008 9:03:21 AM |
boy-friends are different then boyfriends.we all understand this. |
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kennylingus
Windom, MN
age: 46
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It's probably got more to do with insecurity with guys your age. They wont admit it and don't know how to deal with it.
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