10/8/2008 2:11:29 PM |
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topherb
Seaside Heights, NJ
age: 41
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I'm older... I'm gay... and I'm into younger guys. Oh, and I'm over weight thanks to sleep apnea complications, but recovering from that thanks to the Lap Band they stuck in me, so that will at least get better. I can't help being attracted cute, younger guys... I just am. Anything else just doesn't... rock my boat. I mean, it's one thing to be gay... but it's another to be attracted young guys. Not kids, young guys. But even THAT is looked at by many as perversion even in the GAY community! Talk about socially maladjusted! I've had a few relationships that might have worked if not for relocating, and sometimes because they were straight... well, mostly. Anyway, what do I do? Settle, close my eyes and think of someone else???
Chris
[Edited 10/8/2008 2:12:55 PM]
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10/8/2008 3:14:58 PM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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Well Chris.......I have to say that I wouldn't settle for something that wasnt going to make me happy. I do want to say that you are looking at these cute young men and only thinking sexually? What could they possibly do to stimulate your mind? It is one thing is you just want to have one night stands. Another entirely when u think of relationship in the long term. A real relationship is not all about sex. Think about it.... do u really want to put time into a relationship with a young cutie that will eventaully dump you to go out with someone younger? I am not saying to settle but maybe you need to take a look at what is really going on with yourself first.
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10/12/2008 8:14:35 AM |
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sincerity
Woodbridge, NJ
age: 48
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Well Chris.......I have to say that I wouldn't settle for something that wasnt going to make me happy. I do want to say that you are looking at these cute young men and only thinking sexually? What could they possibly do to stimulate your mind? It is one thing is you just want to have one night stands. Another entirely when u think of relationship in the long term. A real relationship is not all about sex. Think about it.... do u really want to put time into a relationship with a young cutie that will eventaully dump you to go out with someone younger? I am not saying to settle but maybe you need to take a look at what is really going on with yourself first.
nab5055: Very well said and most agreeable...Sincerity
Chris:Good Luck in finding someone, but what she said to you is so true and it works in straight or gay this way also, it dosen't matter. Don't think of what you want for the moment think of what you want for the rest of your life..Sincerity
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10/13/2008 11:38:32 AM |
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philliegurl
Barrington, NJ
age: 27 online now!
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I also agree...
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10/14/2008 11:42:42 PM |
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brock1946
Oaklyn, NJ
age: 62
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Hey Chris, I'm a Straight Up truck driver. Tell ya what, I've been online 11 years now, and on "dating sites" for about 3 years now.
It doesn't matter if you are straight or gay...this Internet thing can be a nightmare most days. However, i have been lucky enough to meet maybe 5 ladies from teh local internet and find them very nice people.
Hang in dude, just watch your P's and Q's maybe its just time to mark time for now???
That's kinda what I'm doing.....sucks some days, but....life goes on.
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10/15/2008 12:46:45 AM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 61
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You are no different than anyone else--you have your preferences--just like we all have our preferences. We all have to look and so do you. It takes time to be happy--so spend the time and good luck on your search.
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10/15/2008 5:57:56 AM |
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jimmyroma
Westfield, NJ
age: 37
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Do you have a three legged, one eye dog named lucky too?
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10/17/2008 2:45:48 PM |
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janekprefect
Mays Landing, NJ
age: 48
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Chris,
Read the novel or check out the movie "Death In Venice". You are not alone.
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