| 10/18/2008 10:48:11 AM |
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feisty141
Lynchburg, VA
age: 39
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Would you appreciate your MAN
taking some classes on :
Learning: personal Hygene 
ettiquette and 'manners' 
personal grooming and clothing 
dating ( again ) and imagination in romance 
Just curious if these things would prompt girls to say
yes...
HELL yes..
umm WHERE do i sign him up
let me know your thoughts
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| 10/18/2008 10:49:58 AM |
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feisty141
Lynchburg, VA
age: 39
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AND...i would suggest that us 'guys' take note of the responses....
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| 10/18/2008 9:39:39 PM |
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rachelfaye03
Locust Grove, VA
age: 21
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First off...this is just my opinion....
I think a "MAN" should already know these things...
And should he decide to take a class on it, it should be for himself not to impress someone else.
And heavens knows dont tell me if you've sign up for something like that.
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| 10/19/2008 7:03:55 AM |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 48
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http://www.esquire.com/features/essential-skills-0508
Check this out gentlemen for the skills needed to qualify your self as a man
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| 10/19/2008 11:33:31 AM |
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funnygirla
Ashburn, VA
age: 58
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Well, I have to say I know a few who could use a refresher course
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| 10/19/2008 9:13:24 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 52
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Hopefully he would not need to.
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| 10/19/2008 9:46:41 PM |
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hot007
Bryant, AL
age: 49 online now!
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Would you appreciate your MAN
taking some classes on :
Learning: personal Hygene
ettiquette and 'manners'
personal grooming and clothing
dating ( again ) and imagination in romance
Just curious if these things would prompt girls to say
yes...
HELL yes..
umm WHERE do i sign him up
let me know your thoughts
No need to take notes every man should have those 4 things down pat!
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| 10/20/2008 9:53:19 AM |
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feisty141
Lynchburg, VA
age: 39
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exaclty my point... they 'should 'have it down..but 'most' dont realize HOW important those little...obvious things ..are important to their mate...and since it is something 'awkward' for their mate to bring to their attention....
i thought THIS forum lended itself to open...non threatening discussion.
If a woman IS with a man who doesnt know and practice these things... she often will not know 'how' to bring them up without fear of damaging his pride...male 'ego'.
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| 10/20/2008 1:06:15 PM |
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smiles4ualways
Colonial Beach, VA
age: 52
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I'm quite a gentleman already, class sophistication, can mingle with the best of them, and a comedian at that too? I thank my parents for the upbringing. 
Private schooling helped a tad bit too, but just a tad.
[Edited 10/20/2008 1:06:29 PM]
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| 10/22/2008 8:15:50 PM |
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rachelfaye03
Locust Grove, VA
age: 21
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exaclty my point... they 'should 'have it down..but 'most' dont realize HOW important those little...obvious things ..are important to their mate...and since it is something 'awkward' for their mate to bring to their attention....
i thought THIS forum lended itself to open...non threatening discussion.
If a woman IS with a man who doesnt know and practice these things... she often will not know 'how' to bring them up without fear of damaging his pride...male 'ego'.
Well then give us ladies a heads up...tell us what would be the best way of informing you of these things without ruining your pride? Beacuse as much as you'd like to think that we can read your minds....sorry my dear, but you men are just as much black holes as we are to you....
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| 10/23/2008 7:36:35 AM |
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feisty141
Lynchburg, VA
age: 39
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hi Rachel,
well you do have to 'know' your guy...but honestly we are sooooooo basic... 'most' guys, when you get to know them..wouldnt take offense to just being asked...
hey sweety... you know what.. i reallllllly get excited when you take shower ( now inside..your thinking my GOD what is that smell...and he expects me to get alllllll hot and bothered...and he smells like THAT>.. omg...)... i think of you.... allll wet and well..honestly it gets me kinda.....ummm moist when i think about your clean body allllll pressed up against mine... He'll be getting undressed  before you finish your sentence!!
see ...how you 'approach' a guy....is to make him see the 'product' for his efforts... we guys have been 'trained' to believe that we're supposed to WORK for it...ie..thats WHY guys do stupid things to GET the girls attention...
if you relate anything you want done or changed..or just tweeked a little, to something you know a guy is interested in... well..itll get his attention..
if he doesnt take out the trash... you appeal to his ego... ohhhh baby...when you pick up that bag... i 'watch you'... and i notice those little muscles on your arms... what are they called... ?? ( yes..playing a little ummm dumb blonde..we like that ...makes us 'feel' smart..lol) oooo its just soooo cool how they flex.. he'll be LOOOKING for trash to take out..
and then there are some guys you just 'tell' and they get it..cus we 'alllllll' at least in our own minds... 'aim to please' our women.
man..i try hard...if i even thought my woman ( when i get one ) wanted something of 'me' physically.. emotionally ... well all she'd have to do..is ask...( but yeah.. i like when a woman talks 'that way'  to me too ;o).
but this approach 'works' in allll the areas i listed..and yeah..there are actually 'classes' for guys..and girls..that take up where 'mom and dad' left off to finish the job.
i actually, in my business , regularly 'assist' guys to understand how to do 'little things' that appeal to women... manners.... grooming.. getting her flowers on a 'tuesday' instead of always when you hurt her feelings... or 'because ' of some special 'date' ie ..anniversary etc..like he's supposed to...
just 'because' to let her know you think of her ...at least in between last nights game results and the 'things' on his list to do today...
women have come TO me and said...ummm 'what  did you do to my man? can i pay you for it  ?
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| 10/29/2008 6:01:33 AM |
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sweetgirl1104
Roanoke, VA
age: 27
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Well, the guys I have dated recently really need a refresher course!!!
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| 10/29/2008 1:59:34 PM |
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oceanmimi
Leesburg, VA
age: 56
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Would you appreciate your MAN
taking some classes on :
Learning: personal Hygene
ettiquette and 'manners'
personal grooming and clothing
dating ( again ) and imagination in romance
Just curious if these things would prompt girls to say
yes...
HELL yes..
umm WHERE do i sign him up
let me know your thoughts
How about being about FOREVER?
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| 10/29/2008 2:52:04 PM |
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sweetgirl1104
Roanoke, VA
age: 27
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IDK, I just got back in the dating game! Been out for 4 years marriage sucks!!!!
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| 10/30/2008 8:03:28 AM |
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feisty141
Lynchburg, VA
age: 39
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How about being about FOREVER?
Forever would be nice... been there done that also. i HATE it that someone else can affect what i was 'COMMITED TOO' was looking fwd to that ' 50th anniversary... AT LEAST as a first goal !!!
but while together... still dating..having FUN still getting to know each other..finding alllll the little things that 'make them up' .
and...like my little survey suggests... being clean and considerate in the process !! esp us guys lol ! although i have known a few women that could use the same course !!
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