10/26/2008 8:15:20 AM |
Why do guys misunderstand excited?? |
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dt820
Saddle Brook, NJ
age: 54
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Why is it if your excited and a little impatient to meet someone you've talked to, the guy thinks your high maintenance???
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10/26/2008 8:27:03 AM |
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monster77
Fair Lawn, NJ
age: 37
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Well i am not sure but excited may meen shoping
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10/26/2008 8:34:00 AM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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I guess it depends on how u communicate that excitement. Sometimes it makes u seem desperate. Men don't care for woman that seem desperate because they are clingy and needy.
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10/26/2008 12:40:23 PM |
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dt820
Saddle Brook, NJ
age: 54
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What i mean is, its so hard to meet anyone you might have something in comon with or that just the site of them can excite you. But if you get impatient to meet them, theres something wrong with you. I don't think thats needy. If I met you in a dentist office adn then bothered you, that would be needy. This a is a dating site, are we not here to meet people? Why do there always have to be games attached to meeting someone? Why do you have to be something your not to get someone interested in you? GAMES!!!!!!
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10/26/2008 1:34:03 PM |
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monster77
Fair Lawn, NJ
age: 37
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ya the games are old just tell it like it is and all should be cool
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10/26/2008 2:36:18 PM |
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dt820
Saddle Brook, NJ
age: 54
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Thanks Monster, thats what I mean. If you don't wanns play the game, your needy??
Why can't it just be this is me , who are you, lets talk.
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10/26/2008 3:24:20 PM |
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monster77
Fair Lawn, NJ
age: 37
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cool hit me up so we can talk.
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10/26/2008 3:51:11 PM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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I don't want to play games and I am not saying that you are needy. I have just heard men say this in the past and trying to think like a man........ I am not good at that but.....
For me.......I like to meet sooner than later because why waste your time if nothing is going to come out of it or there is not chemistry.
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10/26/2008 4:49:34 PM |
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dt820
Saddle Brook, NJ
age: 54
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Yes Nab ur right. Why not meet and see. If you've e-mailed the person, why the prolonged e-mails and the waiting game. Meet, if theres something there you'll both know. Thats what I mean about guys misunderstanding excited. You want to meet right away instead of waiting for the timeless e-mails, she must be needy.
I know you weren't calling me needy. Its just what I've heard from guys.
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10/26/2008 5:35:15 PM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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My opinion........I think men hesitate sometimes because they are afraid to meet for the first time. JMO
I am not nervous. I look at it this way... how bad could it be to meet a new friend? If there is chemistry then it is even better.
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10/27/2008 8:12:58 AM |
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tspofhugs
Trenton, NJ
age: 64
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Yes Nab ur right. Why not meet and see. If you've e-mailed the person, why the prolonged e-mails and the waiting game. Meet, if theres something there you'll both know. Thats what I mean about guys misunderstanding excited. You want to meet right away instead of waiting for the timeless e-mails, she must be needy.
I know you weren't calling me needy. Its just what I've heard from guys.
I like to prolong e-mail's for as long as possible. I have found that an e-mail become's more personal. They need to really think about what they write. This in the passed has pissed off some ladies. But I don't care. I'm not about to rush into anything. I might be old, but I'm also wise. In the long run it has paid off. I own the world.
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10/28/2008 12:47:31 PM |
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dt820
Saddle Brook, NJ
age: 54
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Okay, then this is where I get confussed. Rush into what, a Date?? And when your e-mailing, you have all the time in the world to correct it, make sure you say the right things, etc. When you meet, your meeting the real person. Just my opinion.
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10/28/2008 12:52:03 PM |
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fdman911
Mount Holly, NJ
age: 47
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WOW...words of wisdom Nab...just blew me away..true story
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10/28/2008 3:25:31 PM |
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leelin
Bergenfield, NJ
age: 59
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LOL LOL yes I have been accused of needy, but of course I was great when he was taking, I would say he was needy wouldnt you
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