it depends entirely on the woman. some are keepers, some are sleepers. now, before everyone gets up in arms and calls me a sexest pig, let me qualify that phrase. i am not speaking merely of looks or body type. personality goes a lonnnnnnggggg way in that determination. i have dated some stunning women, with absolutely no iq. they were sleepers. after the sex, there was absolutely no hope of intelligent conversation. there is no way i could keep someone that wandered around all day staring at clouds and wondering "why is there air?". conversely, i have been with some women that fell far short of the supermodel appeal that were absolutely amazing in the brains department, that had a huge heart, nice smile, and a personality that knew no end. i am no longer with them, so evidently they thought i was a sleeper, not a keeper. it works both ways, for both sexes. the trick is to keep searching, and have a hell of a lot of fun while you do.