2/23/2009 5:21:03 PM |
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superrayofsun
Riverside, CA
age: 29
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why does it seem that the longer ur single the harder it is to date? maybe just not use to the game.
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2/23/2009 5:44:05 PM |
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milas83
Philadelphia, PA
age: 26
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Again, welcome to the club.
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2/23/2009 5:49:13 PM |
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superrayofsun
Riverside, CA
age: 29
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why dont people reply to my posts
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2/23/2009 5:52:15 PM |
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redjulie65
Beloit, WI
age: 43
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it might because every one of us are set in are ways
[Edited 2/23/2009 5:53:23 PM PST]
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2/23/2009 5:56:23 PM |
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clownkilla
Sarasota, FL
age: 38
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No, its not that we are just ugly freaks and nobody likes us!Your I'm a ugly freak too clown.
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2/23/2009 5:58:13 PM |
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lilmissala1957
Hartselle, AL
age: 51
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Lord just wait till you get 51 and try to date! LOL. You don't know if he is gonna fall asleep first or you are! LOL
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2/23/2009 6:00:05 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 40
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No, its not that we are just ugly freaks and nobody likes us!Your I'm a ugly freak too clown.
Poor clown, quit trying to get sympathy compliments.
OP, I think regardless of what comfort zone we settle into, we often have a hard time getting out of it. If you haven't been dating, it is hard to date. If you haven't been single, it is hard to be single.
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2/23/2009 8:43:15 PM |
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superrayofsun
Riverside, CA
age: 29
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thanks for the posts.and i dont think im a ugly freak lol
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2/23/2009 8:50:34 PM |
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broken_hero
Elkton, MD
age: 39 online now!
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my best guess would be fear, it seems to keep us from getting involved because we are so afraid to get hurt again, as im sure we all have bin hurt in one way or another,and we all tend to hold what one person did to us against the next person we meet,even if that person is the nicest person on the planet lol, we become defencive to the point of hurting our selves emotionaly, in the name of self defence
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2/23/2009 9:02:32 PM |
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tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 54
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why does it seem that the longer ur single the harder it is to date? maybe just not use to the game.
like anything else, if you don't practice, don't stay in shape you loose your edge
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2/24/2009 5:42:00 AM |
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rugburns48
Fort Mohave, AZ
age: 49
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why dont people reply to my posts
Well, one reason is these questions are asked almost daily perhaps
the second is if anyone offers constructive critiuqe
they get bashed by they old timers that hang out here.....
I have a few suggestions, having lived in your area before...
You might try reading the men only forum for some insight
I know reading the Womens only forum posts have helped to provide
Some insight to me.
The type of employment you have probably gives you far better chances
At meeting people than a Dating site though.
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2/24/2009 5:46:43 AM |
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curves385
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 38
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Actually I think because we become more set in our ways. This means you know what you want and you learn not to settle for someone who can't satisfy your emotional needs and wants. Now some do get way too picky but when you are younger you do more settling and therefore make bad decisions. So the longer we are single the more we realize that we would rather be alone than with the wrong person. Just makes sense to be happy even if it means being alone.
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2/24/2009 6:55:39 AM |
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countrycharmer
Medina, OH
age: 44
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Maybe it could be that as we get older we may have a better understanding of what we are looking for whereby shrinking the availability of the dating pool.
Just a guess...
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2/24/2009 6:58:20 AM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
age: 43
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here we go again with a new set of whinny threads.
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2/24/2009 7:18:27 AM |
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edgeofsandias
Placitas, NM
age: 37
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It just seems harder. It isn't really. Are you putting yourself out there in a positive fashion? Are your expectations realistic?
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