2/26/2009 3:15:38 PM |
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smitty4980
Fort White, FL
age: 57
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Do you contact people that don't you don't seem to have a lot in common with?
I'm talking about people within reasonable dating distance. I do. A dinner out with someone new is always an eye opening experience, even if you never see that person again.
There is always the possibility that you will meet someone that you can have some fun with without any kind of commitment. It doesn't have to be all or nothing with me. If you're going to limit yourself to a date with the perfect match then there will be too many nights sitting home alone.
Smitty
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2/26/2009 3:37:09 PM |
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bry11ca
Irving, TX
age: 45
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There has to be some attraction and common ground.
I'll talk to anybody as a friend.
I don;t take this site too seriously, but I have had some nice dates and some pretty decent women contact me.
[Edited 2/26/2009 3:37:48 PM PST]
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2/26/2009 7:01:37 PM |
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prettylady47
Valrico, FL
age: 48
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Do you contact people that don't you don't seem to have a lot in common with?
I'm talking about people within reasonable dating distance. I do. A dinner out with someone new is always an eye opening experience, even if you never see that person again.
There is always the possibility that you will meet someone that you can have some fun with without any kind of commitment. It doesn't have to be all or nothing with me. If you're going to limit yourself to a date with the perfect match then there will be too many nights sitting home alone.
Smitty
You have to meet all kinds of people...if you don't how will you find the right one...that is what bothers me most about some I have met here on this site...it appears with them it is all or nothing...personally I find each person has the potential to be a friend...even if there is no life long soul mate connection...so I enjoy everyone that wants to meet me...Each new friend opens doors to other worlds that may not have been noticed by you in the past!Each new person can show you a place you have never been before...just today I was asked to go to Daytona for a day for Bike week...wow I have never done that before but it sounds like fun and a way to make a new friend....as well as have a new experience...nothing wrong with that....and if I find Mr. right while I make new friends that is great if not at least I will have a bunch of new friends.
PL47
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2/26/2009 7:06:55 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41
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I don't seek anyone out, but I have gone on dates with men who I knew were not the man for me. I figure you don't know for sure until you meet them. But then it just gets messy if they want to keep dating, so I am thinking not to do that anymore. I need to go with my gut instincts more often I think.
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2/26/2009 8:07:20 PM |
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musicdesign
Rocky Hill, CT
age: 47
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Do not want to waste time if my instinct says he isn't for me. Would rather stay home than hurt someone or be hurt.
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2/26/2009 9:22:32 PM |
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pawee
Waco, TX
age: 43
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I try to give dating a chance.I don't want to miss Mr. Right.I am very honest.I try not to hurt anyones feelings.I usually am the one who gets hurt.Yet I don't regret that I gave the date a shot.I know there is a nice man out there for me.I just have to keep trying.I have emailed some men,and they have emailed me.So far I have not met anyone.I will keep an open mind and heart.
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2/26/2009 9:24:54 PM |
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pike_co_rfd
Clayton, IL
age: 54
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I'll try and give the person a chance if I feel they might be a good person, even if I dont think I might be all that into them... Some I have been pelasantly suprised, and others, well lets just say I should have said no thanks and left it at that...
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2/26/2009 9:24:56 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 46
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Naw...Most of us contact people that are a million miles away.
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2/26/2009 9:31:38 PM |
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goodcatch33
Aberdeen, NC
age: 34
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You have to meet all kinds of people...if you don't how will you find the right one...that is what bothers me most about some I have met here on this site...it appears with them it is all or nothing...personally I find each person has the potential to be a friend...even if there is no life long soul mate connection...so I enjoy everyone that wants to meet me...Each new friend opens doors to other worlds that may not have been noticed by you in the past! Each new person can show you a place you have never been before...just today I was asked to go to Daytona for a day for Bike week...wow I have never done that before but it sounds like fun and a way to make a new friend....as well as have a new experience...nothing wrong with that....and if I find Mr. right while I make new friends that is great if not at least I will have a bunch of new friends.
PL47
finding a friend is better than having nothing at all, very well put!
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2/26/2009 10:02:50 PM |
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ryn1
Cobourg, ON
age: 49
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Do you contact people that don't you don't seem to have a lot in common with? I'm talking about people within reasonable dating distance.
No. Just as well, nobody's within a "reasonable distance".
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2/26/2009 10:07:12 PM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
age: 48
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I don't contact, and I don't go out with someone I have nothing in common with.
In other words... I don't date for the sake of dating.
I have my friends for "fun without commitment" (and no, I'm not talking FWB's) between "potentials"... that works for me.
I'll take quality over quantity any day.
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2/26/2009 10:38:11 PM |
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all4u_23321
Chesapeake, VA
age: 53
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Pike and ryn1 my photography friends
I contact people I have something in common with (photography) to just be friends, most are along ways away, but it is nice to talk to people who have the same interest.
Robert
www.knbphotos.com
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2/26/2009 10:42:26 PM |
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moraldk325
State College, PA
age: 45
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I don't "go out with" or "date" anyone I am not interested in having a relationship with. But I have no issue with "hanging out with" or "playing 'hide the salami' with" someone who is vaguely interesting.
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2/26/2009 11:05:36 PM |
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uglybeast
Spokane, WA
age: 53
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Variety is the spice of life and the more friends you have the better your variety. Who knows maybe one of your friends will even like you so much and you them that you never have to be alone again.
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2/26/2009 11:57:00 PM |
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smitty4980
Fort White, FL
age: 57
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No. Just as well, nobody's within a "reasonable distance".
You need to move to Florida. It's too cold up there!
Smitty
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2/27/2009 4:32:40 AM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 53
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I was kinda hoping Mr. Right would find ME
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2/27/2009 4:45:42 AM |
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all4u_23321
Chesapeake, VA
age: 53
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Maybe Mr. Right for you has found you and you just don't know it yet
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2/27/2009 5:45:41 AM |
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al400
Niles, MI
age: 45
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Yep, I can sense people in how they write their profile and from their picture.
I recently had lunch with someone that had a different profile that I probably
would have never contacted. I sensed that she was more than she was putting
in her profile and we had a great time and had more in common than her profile
let on. Not sure where it is headded but we are friends for now.
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2/27/2009 5:57:22 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
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I've let HIM find me...
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2/27/2009 6:23:12 AM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 39
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we dont have to have the exact common interests and i wouldnt want s/o too. s/o shud complement also what and who u r. problem there is not enuf that i see im interested in or not enuf in the general area. patience is a virtue i say!
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2/27/2009 5:59:56 PM |
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prettylady47
Valrico, FL
age: 48
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Naw...Most of us contact people that are a million miles away.
Yep I've been know to do that sometimes the distance feels better less threatening....
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2/27/2009 11:19:23 PM |
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sunnygrl09
Redlands, CA
age: 45
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Maybe Mr. Right for you has found you and you just don't know it yet
wow!! that's a new twist - i like it!!!
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