| 3/24/2009 8:37:10 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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swifty0520
Lafayette, IN
age: 52
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Anyone out there tired of being lonely?:
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| 3/25/2009 6:05:25 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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sweetpotato3
Albion, IN
age: 59
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Yes know what you mean...
I try to do things with friends but then you feel like the odd man out.
I date but still something missing...
or is it someone missing....
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| 3/26/2009 7:37:56 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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justemma
Indianapolis, IN
age: 50
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 i am
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| 3/26/2009 8:42:40 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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john19730953
Angola, IN
age: 36
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im so tired of being lonely....trying to find the beauty from within someone!
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| 3/26/2009 8:52:27 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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john19730953
Angola, IN
age: 36
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everything in my life is coming together....but its my heart..its full and pure...but its missing the love that it wants to share...im shy but..just cant seem to find women who care or want to settle down...is there anyone out there who,can feel the sense of being alone..the thirst for a beautiful relationship...if there is anyone out...please dont hesitate...but just email...thank you!
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| 3/27/2009 2:02:38 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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sharedmercy
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 53
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I am too! But for me it will probably be a long wait. I am a Sabbath keeper [Sat worshipper, not SDA or Jewish], and I would only be happy with another Sabbath keeper.
I am ready to start dating now that my husband's been deceased for 2 yrs and 3 months.
Oh well, maybe I am meant to remain single 
GOOD FORTUNES TO ALL OF YOU!
 
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| 3/27/2009 4:03:37 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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rkl50
Elnora, IN
age: 50
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Yes I am lonely, it is the pits!!! After being married for 27 years and worked side by side most of those years, I am really lonely! I have raised my kids, but am raising a grand daughter. But this was supposed to be my time of having fun! What the hell has happened to it?????  I crave and need adult conversation and companionship!!!!!
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| 3/29/2009 1:24:18 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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dwnhmectryboy
Shelbyville, IN
age: 49
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I am too 
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| 3/29/2009 1:25:54 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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tcnurse
Scottsburg, IN
age: 55
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Ditto
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| 3/29/2009 8:50:17 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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lodown247
Indianapolis, IN
age: 39
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yes very tired of it.....
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| 3/30/2009 7:28:56 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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polefrog
Harriman, TN
age: 52
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It's better than a bad relationship!!!!!!
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| 3/30/2009 8:39:15 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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rjk254
Nappanee, IN
age: 23
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Yes I am. I have had to reevaluate what I am looking for from women and I have just decided to take more chances with women. I have realized things can't get any worse than they are now.
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| 4/3/2009 8:31:29 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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rholz
Kokomo, IN
age: 43
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Lets see... It's closing on midnight, and I am sitting on the computer typing messages to be read by total strangers in the hopes of striking up something akin to a virtual friendship, which is not to be confused with the old fashioned things called relationships where you actually saw people and spoke face to face...
Yeah, I guess that qualifies me.
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| 4/3/2009 8:32:36 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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rholz
Kokomo, IN
age: 43
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It's better than a bad relationship!!!!!!
Yeah, and Amen! Preach it, brother!
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| 4/4/2009 7:30:38 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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greyhound1815
Evansville, IN
age: 44
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A lot of my loneliness stems from nothing to do...or a lack of nerve to do it. Anyone have any ideas on what a single person can do on a weekend night and not stick out like a sore thumb?
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| 4/4/2009 8:59:53 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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paulthecamper
Bloomington, IN
age: 53
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 i have bin by myself for 2 years now and it sucks but i am happy is this good ?? i think it;s a good thing but need some one to am i crazy ????
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| 4/5/2009 4:21:26 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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1dutch1
Indianapolis, IN
age: 47
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yes ask a man out for a drink with the understanding its just a drink or dinner we dont bitte and we are glad to take you out for a evening of conversation dance or dinner
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| 4/5/2009 10:56:53 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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silvert81
Henderson, KY
age: 28
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Absolutely.
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| 4/6/2009 1:08:48 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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1inmil
Indianapolis, IN
age: 30
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YEs, I'm very tired of it but I would rather be lonely than be in the last relationship. I at least know now that I can be alone and be ok...
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| 4/6/2009 9:03:56 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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ms09rs2
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 28
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Me too. I try to be as genuine and CHivialrous as much as I can and it's like the women I talk to only want like a sugar daddy, or someone for looks. Maybe I need some pointers.
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| 4/11/2009 4:06:39 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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tallcountry
Evansville, IN
age: 47
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I do things with single friends. I have a couple of guy friends (just friends nothing romantic there) I go out with or gal friends to the movies or dinner. I also enjoy some free time at home myself. Hopefully, we'll all meet some new friends at the Southern Indiana Meet and Greet posted on the Indiana Chat forum. We'll have plenty of new friends and things to do.
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| 4/11/2009 9:22:50 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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nickitabananna
Indianapolis, IN
age: 25
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I've been alone 3 years now, longer if you count my meaningless marriage.
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| 4/11/2009 10:21:06 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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29fan
Evansville, IN
age: 50
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i would guess everyone here is tired of being lonely or we wouldnt be here. not desperate tho. theres lots of good people on here so just give it time and be patient. you dont wanna jump into a relationship and it be the wrong one.
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| 4/13/2009 10:07:11 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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lin59s
Ellettsville, IN
age: 60
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Yes I am tired of being lonely .........my husband passed last year and I think the nights are the worse............. just having someone to talk to means a lot. Life is to short to live it by yourself.
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| 4/13/2009 5:14:37 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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jason3246224
Indianapolis, IN
age: 32
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i hate being alone its depressing
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| 4/13/2009 7:54:46 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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augustmoon62
Lafayette, IN
age: 63
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Just think about this. A friend told me IT'S BEST TO BE ALONE THAN TO WISH YOU WERE ALONE. So if it gets to bad buy yourself a horse they take up alot of your time.
You meet alot of nice people that way.
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| 5/28/2009 9:38:10 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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max1261
Evansville, IN
age: 47
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i am tired of being alone also, but i'm not going to jump right into a relationship in order to avoid being lonely. you can be just as lonely in a relationship as not being in one. i just wanna be happy!
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| 5/28/2009 3:59:24 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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angels_71
Columbus, IN
age: 38
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yes yes yes and did i mention yes .....anyways i am tired of being alone even though i have a 18 yr old daughter i am very alone and also tired of the guys that say one thing but when you meet its a booty call for them so im alone again...its not like im ugly or unattractive by no means but geez come on guys.....good luck to all.....Lisa
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| 5/28/2009 8:36:48 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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sixstrings2play
Richmond, IN
age: 33
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Lets see... It's closing on midnight, and I am sitting on the computer typing messages to be read by total strangers in the hopes of striking up something akin to a virtual friendship, which is not to be confused with the old fashioned things called relationships where you actually saw people and spoke face to face...
Yeah, I guess that qualifies me.
We're all looking for something, 1 way or another. Some want to be friends, some wanna be in love. Usually the 2 that meet, usually they have opposing thoughts. Even though they are great together, they are completely incompatible for 1 moment, so they walk away!
Love has lost it's luster. People get together for sex, or money now days. There is no real feelings outside of Sex or Money... Sadly that's becoming more so true each day. If you hold any kind of religion, you already have a better place to look for happiness. No I'm not trying to preach lol, nor am I saying look to Jesus (which that maybe what some need), yet I'm saying sometimes you will find a more open mind in someone that is attending church. Then again, you may run into someone just as lost as you, looking as well... Either way, oddly... I guess church wouldn't hurt if you are already searching online. May as well look for love in church too!
Best of luck to ya all!
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| 5/29/2009 8:27:52 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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freddystribe
Bedford, IN
age: 45
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For sure...At this age its so hard to actually meet anyone.When I was younger there were the clubs,college,and other social events...but that stuff is all for folks in that age group...at my age,where do you go to actually meet any women any more.I am not the "barfly" type,and the only time I am really in a club now is when I am playing with the band...and,believe it or not,that is not really the time to meet women.
Oh well...as Jimi fondly said,"...I still got my guitar...look out now!"
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| 5/29/2009 9:08:57 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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bamabikerchic
Higdon, AL
age: 57
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| 5/29/2009 5:39:00 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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patsy09
Whiting, IN
age: 55
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Lets see... It's closing on midnight, and I am sitting on the computer typing messages to be read by total strangers in the hopes of striking up something akin to a virtual friendship, which is not to be confused with the old fashioned things called relationships where you actually saw people and spoke face to face...
Yeah, I guess that qualifies me.
I will validate that feeling!!
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| 5/31/2009 3:16:24 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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crazylost09
North Vernon, IN
age: 26
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I don't know if I can be considered lonely physically, but mentally. I'm in a relationship that feels like it is going nowhere and we don't really have alot in common anymore. I'm not a person to be mean and push her out the door on her a** with no one to really go to either.
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| 6/13/2009 10:53:24 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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leslie29
Greentown, IN
age: 29
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I am but I'd rather be lonely than be in a bad relationship or be with the wrong person...been there, done that, not worth any bit of it.I think part of my problem is I need a life LOL
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| 6/14/2009 8:01:58 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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avonin
Avon, IN
age: 41
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Sometimes
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| 6/14/2009 5:43:28 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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bigtruckinmama
Seymour, IN
age: 42
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I am but I'd rather be lonely than be in a bad relationship or be with the wrong person...been there, done that, not worth any bit of it.I think part of my problem is I need a life LOL
Well put.
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| 6/14/2009 10:56:21 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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kendall1988
Linton, IN
age: 21
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i am bore out of my mined any females bored and want to get to know a man halla at me
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| 6/15/2009 1:04:42 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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jeremymoore8286
North Manchester, IN
age: 27
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we're all lonely one way or another or we wouldn't be here?
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| 6/15/2009 1:43:51 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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zander1111
Mishawaka, IN
age: 46
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I guess the old cliche` is true. When your with someone , people knock your door down . When your alone , no one comes to your rescue . I dont know if its a vibe we give off or a six sense but it does seem to happen all to often . I suggest , be yourself , be polite , try to strike up a conversation that doesnt seem to weird ,lol . Just be a good person and hopefully this will work for you . Just trying to help .
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| 6/15/2009 9:17:01 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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sharedmercy
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 53
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Yes I am, but I don't like the 'newness' in meeting a man. So I guess I will just go on missing my hubby [I am a widow] and let the 'meeting men' thing go.
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| 6/15/2009 9:38:47 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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mrd1965
Thorntown, IN
age: 43
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So now that we are all feeling sorry for ourselves because we have been hurt, abused, or cheated on, why isn't anyone using this site to find that one and only love? Don't get me wrong, I have been single for the last 4 years and have felt every emotional downfall that is possible. I miss being married, but that was 15 years ago. Times have changed, people have changed. I have noticed more women now are reverting back to the ways of the 50's and 60's when the men were the bread winners. And men, me included, have finally given into the fact that women want equallity, therefore.... we want them to have a good career so they aren't being a burden to our paychecks. This is not true for everyone, and I speak for myself and the experiences I have gone through for the past 14 years. Ladies, men love you, we just need you to let go of the past and trust us. Not ALL of us are bad. Guys, put down the beer and munchies and step away from the computer for a night. Go to the local grocery store, Mall, or nearest retail business that women shop at. If you see someone you like, TALK to her!! She just may be the best thing that ever happened to you. I am not trying to pusuade anyone to stop being themselves, just change your habits, you just may be suprized at the treasures you find. Oh, and as far as the money situation goes.... Unless you already own your home and bring in a 6 figure income, it's going to take both paychecks to live comfortable.
Ladies, we do want you..........and from the posted messages on here, you want us too. So let's meet somewhere in the middle and beat this loneliness we are feeling. If you don't take a chance at something, you may never find that diamond sitting in the pile of coal we call life.
P.s. I have a feeling I will get mixed responses from this post, but before we critisize, look into your hearts and prove me wrong. As far as I am concerned, I am not giving up on that search for my one and only. I would suggest you do that same thing, unless you like being single and alone. Best wishes to all of you, Sincerely.  
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| 6/16/2009 12:04:14 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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dartfool
Griffith, IN
age: 50
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I am tired of being lonely
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| 7/1/2009 6:20:14 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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rkl50
Elnora, IN
age: 50
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So now that we are all feeling sorry for ourselves because we have been hurt, abused, or cheated on, why isn't anyone using this site to find that one and only love? Don't get me wrong, I have been single for the last 4 years and have felt every emotional downfall that is possible. I miss being married, but that was 15 years ago. Times have changed, people have changed. I have noticed more women now are reverting back to the ways of the 50's and 60's when the men were the bread winners. And men, me included, have finally given into the fact that women want equallity, therefore.... we want them to have a good career so they aren't being a burden to our paychecks. This is not true for everyone, and I speak for myself and the experiences I have gone through for the past 14 years. Ladies, men love you, we just need you to let go of the past and trust us. Not ALL of us are bad. Guys, put down the beer and munchies and step away from the computer for a night. Go to the local grocery store, Mall, or nearest retail business that women shop at. If you see someone you like, TALK to her!! She just may be the best thing that ever happened to you. I am not trying to pusuade anyone to stop being themselves, just change your habits, you just may be suprized at the treasures you find. Oh, and as far as the money situation goes.... Unless you already own your home and bring in a 6 figure income, it's going to take both paychecks to live comfortable.
Ladies, we do want you..........and from the posted messages on here, you want us too. So let's meet somewhere in the middle and beat this loneliness we are feeling. If you don't take a chance at something, you may never find that diamond sitting in the pile of coal we call life.
P.s. I have a feeling I will get mixed responses from this post, but before we critisize, look into your hearts and prove me wrong. As far as I am concerned, I am not giving up on that search for my one and only. I would suggest you do that same thing, unless you like being single and alone. Best wishes to all of you, Sincerely.
Very well said!
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| 7/2/2009 9:57:56 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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gigi1968
Owensboro, KY
age: 41
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So now that we are all feeling sorry for ourselves because we have been hurt, abused, or cheated on, why isn't anyone using this site to find that one and only love? Don't get me wrong, I have been single for the last 4 years and have felt every emotional downfall that is possible. I miss being married, but that was 15 years ago. Times have changed, people have changed. I have noticed more women now are reverting back to the ways of the 50's and 60's when the men were the bread winners. And men, me included, have finally given into the fact that women want equallity, therefore.... we want them to have a good career so they aren't being a burden to our paychecks. This is not true for everyone, and I speak for myself and the experiences I have gone through for the past 14 years. Ladies, men love you, we just need you to let go of the past and trust us. Not ALL of us are bad. Guys, put down the beer and munchies and step away from the computer for a night. Go to the local grocery store, Mall, or nearest retail business that women shop at. If you see someone you like, TALK to her!! She just may be the best thing that ever happened to you. I am not trying to pusuade anyone to stop being themselves, just change your habits, you just may be suprized at the treasures you find. Oh, and as far as the money situation goes.... Unless you already own your home and bring in a 6 figure income, it's going to take both paychecks to live comfortable.
Ladies, we do want you..........and from the posted messages on here, you want us too. So let's meet somewhere in the middle and beat this loneliness we are feeling. If you don't take a chance at something, you may never find that diamond sitting in the pile of coal we call life.
Sincerely.
Very GOOD advice...it took me a couple of years to finish licking my wounds after my divorce, but now I am going out, meeting new people and remembered how much I enjoyed shooting pool. I shoot pool a few times a week now, and even joined a poker league. I finally realized I can not stay home forever and expect to meet anyone...Good Luck!
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| 7/14/2009 1:42:40 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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el_tee
Veedersburg, IN
age: 18
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man ive been single since spring break (and havent dont ANYTHING since) and man im happy.... crap i enjoy life... i talk to freinds make new ones, and best time of my life working 50 hours a week and hanging wt friend the rest of the time lol
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| 7/14/2009 8:33:37 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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grimnard_69
Anderson, IN
age: 31
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man ive been single since spring break (and havent dont ANYTHING since) and man im happy.... crap i enjoy life... i talk to freinds make new ones, and best time of my life working 50 hours a week and hanging wt friend the rest of the time lol
Then why are you on a singles site..... LOL sorry always thought it was funny people saying they enjoy being single on a singles site...
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| 7/16/2009 12:03:20 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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el_tee
Veedersburg, IN
age: 18
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ok ya got me lol
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| 7/28/2009 10:57:18 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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jd_1982
Mishawaka, IN
age: 27
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Hell, yeah I'm tired of being lonely.... but I recently met somebody here, and she's making me really happy again.. (and she knows who she is)..  so I think the lonelyness is about over, the long distance gap is the only thing that eats at me though.... but, there's always a greyhound bus in my area.. lol..  but we're still getting to know each other better with each day we chat online.. and she know's i'm patient, ..so there it is.
[Edited 7/28/2009 10:59:25 PM PST]
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| 7/29/2009 7:29:47 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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jordon12
Decatur, IN
age: 36
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Yes I think alot of us are.Atleast those of us looking for a serious relationship.I have been here for about 2 years now and still havent found the right person.But I am sure we all will find what we are looking for.Good luck to all.
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| 8/4/2009 1:36:33 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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jd_1982
Mishawaka, IN
age: 27
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m-kay.. lonely again.. so, i'm open again.. heh..
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| 8/4/2009 4:10:14 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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anie80918
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 50
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checking in.... Indiana bound in 8 more days....
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| 8/4/2009 5:13:02 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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mzbunnylady
Dyer, IN
age: 46
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I don't get lonely, I get bored!
But some kissing sure would be nice!
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| 8/9/2009 3:07:00 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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sweezy33
Kokomo, IN
age: 36
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I know what you mean about not counting your marriage. I was married for 12 years when she had an affair. Tore my world upside down, even more since she dont want much to do with our son. If you would like to chat contact me.
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| 8/9/2009 4:45:24 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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destynea
Indianapolis, IN
age: 68
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I'm on a singles site and I enjoy being single. I guess some find that funny, but I am single by choice. I like dating, which I do pretty regularly. I like being in a great relationship. But I love living alone. I was married for many years and I enjoy my freedom.
I consider this to be a dating site. Not everyone here is looking for marriage. I've ended relationships because I was the one who didn't want to get married. Being single does not have to mean being lonely. I don't have time to be lonely.
I'm happy within myself, and I do things I like to do, with or without a man in my life, when that is the case.
I hope that all who are lonely will find peace and happiness within themselves and what they have.
Or get out and about and do something about your loneliness!!Meet people. Have fun!
Loneliness is a state of mind!
[Edited 8/9/2009 4:52:31 PM PST]
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| 8/11/2009 4:25:52 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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chubz69
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 22
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All you old people should get together and have one BIG A** SHINDIG yall hear
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| 8/12/2009 9:27:26 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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sweetpotato3
Albion, IN
age: 59
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No matter what your age the message is the same... Be happy doing your thing....
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| 8/13/2009 3:39:56 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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marv1953
Boswell, IN
age: 56
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I am tired of being lonely but the worst thing is woman not even replying to a message and/or not even writing to guys that are seriously looking.
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| 8/28/2009 6:58:21 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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justmekimp
Spiceland, IN
age: 45
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I'm on a singles site and I enjoy being single. I guess some find that funny, but I am single by choice. I like dating, which I do pretty regularly. I like being in a great relationship. But I love living alone. I was married for many years and I enjoy my freedom.
I consider this to be a dating site. Not everyone here is looking for marriage. I've ended relationships because I was the one who didn't want to get married. Being single does not have to mean being lonely. I don't have time to be lonely.
I'm happy within myself, and I do things I like to do, with or without a man in my life, when that is the case.
I hope that all who are lonely will find peace and happiness within themselves and what they have.
Or get out and about and do something about your loneliness!!Meet people. Have fun!
Loneliness is a state of mind!
FINALLY!!!!! Someone else who feels like I do. I thought I was the odd person for not wanting to marry, live with a man or be bound to one in some other way. I was also married very young, married for a lot of years then married (badly) again for a very short time and I truly LOVE living alone. I do enjoy being in a relationship, having someone to spend time with, do things with and yes, wake up with from time to time, but to do that on a daily basis, its not for me.
Soo.... with that said, anyone looking to hang out and be best buddies with a funny and fun to be with BBW? If so, drop me a line.
Kim
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| 8/31/2009 12:07:57 PM |
Tired of being lonely |
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realyreal1
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 47
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I reallly cant say im loney, but i would be nyce too hav a partner do go out and do thnigs wit...
Im da ntype of guy dat wiil get up and go to the movies or too dinner by myself and still enjoy myself.
Cuz it's about me enjoying life to it's fullest and i've found if u wait for sum one to cum along and sho u a good tyme u might be waiting a long tyme.
So instead i enjoy life NOT OTHER PEOPLE...::signlol
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| 9/5/2009 9:26:12 AM |
Tired of being lonely |
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kristofer54
Vincennes, IN
age: 20
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very tired of it
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