11/24/2007 5:58:49 AM |
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geo13
Hanover, PA
age: 46
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if a man works a mon-fri job that pays well, has his own home is willing to travel to meet the right women, does not have baggage, is not over weight, and is willing to explore any thing as a first date. why does this scare women off or intimidate then to the point they only wink and not return emails such as : hello,
How are you? I have read your profile and we share some common interests. My name is George.
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11/24/2007 6:11:54 AM |
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eyes4u63
Dixon, IL
age: 44
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hang in there . The same is true for women I am a ditto mom single parent widowed no exex not overwieght own my own business home . I have found that most men & women our age are either in same boat or done with the kid thing & want to be free . I have taken a break from the dating wanting to meet people thing just enjoying time w my son . But I will admit the fwb thing is very very old .
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11/24/2007 6:53:23 AM |
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sparkyjo
Cheyenne, WY
age: 43
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My guess is that security, which is what you're offering, is not what everyone wants. I also think sometimes insecure people feel inferior when they meet someone who has it together. I've had the same experience with men who put themselves down in my presence. I've also had men try to take advantage of me because of my success and hard work, which is very scary. Just keep looking. Maybe you need to change your criteria of what/who you're looking for.
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11/24/2007 8:00:15 AM |
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riogirl
Charlotte, NC
age: 43
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For me is the smoke occasionally fact. I thought you were so amazingly sweet and would love to talk to you, but when I read the smoking part it stopped me from going forward.
Do not give up tough, you are a very attractive guy.
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11/24/2007 10:21:00 AM |
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geo13
Hanover, PA
age: 46
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occasionally means I smoke a cigar on occasion but i do not smoke when other people do not i respect there feelings I only smoke cigars when i am home in my back yard relaxing with a glass of wine.
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11/25/2007 1:34:56 PM |
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oldfashionedgrl
Sumner, WA
age: 45
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I think most of us here are in the same situation. I'd like to find a good, honest, hard-working man who is responsible, has strong character and wants a "real" relationship, not just the physical aspect of a relationship. For me, that's a bonus, once we've found we're compatible and might be able to have a relationship together. It doesn't start there (or in my opinion, shouldn't start there). Can't seem to find him...anywhere, but I keep persevering.
Hang in there.
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11/25/2007 2:32:40 PM |
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snowbuddy7860
Mankato, MN
age: 47
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There are some of us out there that would truly be happy to meet a man like you. Honesty is always the best and you are open and truthful. Your mate will appear.
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11/25/2007 3:51:49 PM |
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shycowgirl
Oak Run, CA
age: 49
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well, since i can't read your profile.... i don't know what the problem is. sometimes, i might pass on a man if he lives on the other side of north america. LOL. i have traveled on the west coast to meet some men but don't want to go across the whole country to meet someone. and, for the first time meeting, i don't want the man to come to my town because i don't want to expose my daughters to him, or have him know where i live, if it doesn't work out. this dating thing is not all it's cracked up to be. sometimes it sucks!
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11/26/2007 11:16:47 AM |
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julyredruby
Normal, IL
age: 40
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I agree with the last comment and truth be know I am about ready to give up on dating
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11/26/2007 9:49:55 PM |
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lovely5
Red Deer, AB
age: 49
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Hey George you sound like an awsome guy. The occassional smoking thing gets to me too, though you have explained yourself, I usually just skip over these guys. Distance makes a difference for me as well as I have a large family to which I am very connected and I am not too willing to make a major move! I am always willing to be conversation friends and it would be great to meet some day too! But i know most people are not on this sight for that reason!
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