| 7/13/2009 10:37:04 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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palaman01
Everett, WA
age: 20
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i just dont get it. like i just wanna have fun and not be in a relationship. this is why i think goin for a older woman is better. u both know what u want and what u r gettin out of it(sex). i mean i can understand if someone is lying and stuff but i mean if ur honest and straight foward what so bad about it?
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| 7/13/2009 10:39:47 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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briarrose66
Tacoma, WA
age: 43
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Some women are that way, all they want is casual sex. Speaking from my point of view, I attach a lot of emotion to a sexual connection, and have expectations of my sex partner such as respect, companionship, phone calls, communication: that sort of thing.
My opinion is if you just wanna get your rocks off, just pay for a hooker. That way you're assured it's only a one night thing.
Your opinion may differ, but I'll defend your right to have it.
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| 7/13/2009 10:54:49 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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palaman01
Everett, WA
age: 20
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no its not even like that. i mean i dont want a one night stand and i do give respect and like i mean we could go see a movie or somethin i just dont want a relatioship with them.
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| 7/13/2009 10:58:37 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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briarrose66
Tacoma, WA
age: 43
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There are some girls who want Players..... I don't know any personally.
Good luck with that.
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| 7/13/2009 11:01:15 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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lifetimeskier
Olympia, WA
age: 48
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you are looking for friends with benefits...In my opinion that is tough to do as one or the other of you will form feelings and a connection...If you find a partne for that just be sure to keep it honest and let her know all you want is a booty call...Let her know totally up front you are just wanting sex...I myself cant do that...I need the emotional connection and want love....
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| 7/13/2009 12:32:10 PM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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sandgirl51
Lacey, WA
age: 51
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you are looking for friends with benefits...In my opinion that is tough to do as one or the other of you will form feelings and a connection...If you find a partne for that just be sure to keep it honest and let her know all you want is a booty call...Let her know totally up front you are just wanting sex...I myself cant do that...I need the emotional connection and want love....
Ditto!
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| 7/14/2009 8:41:46 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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2002redbird
Tacoma, WA
age: 45
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I would have to agree with the rest of the women here...I too would like to have the Love and a connection/relationship Im a one man woman
Hes only 20 years old I dont even think he knows what he wants???
Alot of the older women want the affection, love, phone calls Etc...I have a Ex boyfriend that thought the idea of thats all I was (booty call) I hated that...Thats why hes an Ex!!!!!!!
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| 7/14/2009 8:43:11 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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briarrose66
Tacoma, WA
age: 43
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just found out I was the 2nd string booty call, the booty call on reserve....the insurance booty call ....the backup booty call.
Players.
Yeah...
I'm done.
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| 7/14/2009 9:24:57 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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wish2bagain
Rochester, WA
age: 59
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The bottom line....this goes on every day. It takes two to make it happen. There are women out there who are searching for the this very thing, so you can't blame just the guy. If it is put in front of you, you can say no.
If you have ever poked around on some of the yahoo group sites, there are many many FWB groups. To me I see nothing wrong if two consenting people choose to romp down that path.
You can only be used if you allow it to happen
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| 7/14/2009 7:43:39 PM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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rodneyg668
Seattle, WA
age: 36
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i just dont get it. like i just wanna have fun and not be in a relationship. this is why i think goin for a older woman is better. u both know what u want and what u r gettin out of it(sex). i mean i can understand if someone is lying and stuff but i mean if ur honest and straight foward what so bad about it?
There isn't anything bad about it, sex is a way for us to grow closer to others. As long as it's honest, straight forward and completely up front there is nothing wrong with a little casual lovin'.
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| 7/14/2009 9:32:56 PM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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knowswhathewant
Renton, WA
age: 26
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I think its pointless to have sex but not try to be anything with that person. If you need it that bad but dont want a relationship from someone. You might want to see and check what is important to you in you life as well. Sex to me means nothing with out the caring and the love of a real relationship. Just empty poke and goes and might make you go grey haired. Who wants to be known for sleeping with every tail that comes along that says there cool and clean but just want sex. Someone always catches feeling and gets left in the dust most the time. Someone always starts liking someone more or wanting more. Ands its not fair less thats was was agreed from the beginning and left that way no ties.
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| 7/14/2009 9:37:27 PM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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greenhorse
Cinebar, WA
age: 59
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 '' it's honest, straight forward and completely up front there is nothing wrong with a little casual lovin'.
'' and ''.....u can only be used if u allow it.....""..OK ture staements..and easy to say..maybe...but darn hard to live through/sad to say.......... 
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| 7/15/2009 7:09:41 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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jellosong
Vancouver, WA
age: 32
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The problem you're probably experiencing is a biological one. By nature, the act of sex releases a hormone call oxytocin. This is meant to spur an emotional attachment to your partner. Both men and women release this hormone but women generally release higher quantities/are more affected by it. This is why the ratio of men to women that prefer friends with benefits is stacked high to the male side.
The women are out there, the numbers just aren't as plentiful. Good luck.
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| 7/15/2009 2:12:47 PM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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blazerbuster
Spokane, WA
age: 51
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i was, at a time expected to be a sex toy. a married woman i befriended, even house sat for the couple. i liked the husband too. friends. then they divorced. and who calls? the ex. help her move. ok. then the come ons. and THEN the talk. NEVER a kiss or affection, just a sex buddy.
not my scene.
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| 8/2/2009 2:10:16 PM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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myrib
Gig Harbor, WA
age: 64
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Promiscuity reduces sex to a mere bodily function and a guy to the moral equivalent of a public toilet brush and a gal to the equivalent of a public toilet.
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| 8/3/2009 10:01:17 PM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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cavemankevin
Bremerton, WA
age: 41
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ha,ha,ha! great description! 
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| 8/7/2009 1:57:14 AM |
why is it so bad to want to have sex with a girl and not be with her? |
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luckyone2112
Tacoma, WA
age: 46
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Dude, there is nothing wrong with it. Your up front and that is all you want, so be it. Dont fall for that toilet brush crap. Wear a condom, and enjoy. Make love to the woman, flesh burns some times, and i rember 20 yr old. Be smart, have fun, and rember where you come from. One day your mind will change, and you will want just one lady. There is no need to bring a box of toilet brushes with you, and if she got a box of crap with her, let it go. Trust me it aint worth it, more fish in the sea. Respect and love, and if its physical; dont see nothing wrong. Just dont expect a lot of it. Its hit and miss at best.And like the other guy said, not to many woman willing. Keep it real man.
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