12/21/2007 8:21:48 PM |
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wonderfull5357
Johnstown, PA
age: 48
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I have tried contacting numerous men on this site. I have had of plenty replies. Within one week,of talking the sex word comes up. I cannot and will not have sex with a man until I have strong feelings for them. Next word that comes up? Bye This has been very discouraging. Have you found this to be true with your experiences?
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12/21/2007 8:38:35 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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No I can't say that has happened...not with the ones I actually talk to. Now the young ones will email and want "the experience of an older woman". One even sent me a photo, you can guess what that was of. I just consider the source and move on. The men I've had the pleasure of talking to have been nice with the exception of one. Sex did not come into the conversation though...he and I just were not on the same page of life. I'm sorry you've had a bad experience...I wouldn't give up.
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12/21/2007 9:59:43 PM |
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crazygal7
Victoria
Australia
age: 40
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I've chatted 2 a few men online & sex always seems 2 be the subject they seem 2 hit on the most & until they get off as 2 how u like it or what u like they'll keep trying 2 bring it up
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12/21/2007 10:58:24 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 47 online now!
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One guy emailed me the other day and the only thing he wrote was--Are those dd's?
Now no where in my profile does it say I wanted that kind of comment.
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12/22/2007 3:40:31 AM |
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crazygal7
Victoria
Australia
age: 40
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Some men not all but some seem 2 think sex is all there is in a relationship the men I've come accross start of really good then b4 yah know it we're onto the sex subject its crazy...u get all these men online who say they wanna chat & 2 send them a email, txt,wink or whatever yah wanna call it & then they either dont answer u or the reject u or u end up chatting 2 urself now come on guys WTF lmao
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12/22/2007 5:02:32 AM |
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ariescast
Brockton, MA
age: 47
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It is what there looking for, but some of these guys have been alone for a long time and just need it. Don't look at them all as pigs or take it personally they will change once they have released everything that is built up.
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12/22/2007 5:32:56 AM |
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houston300
Houston, TX
age: 47
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OK... lets get one thing straight... men think about sex a lot!
It doesn't mean anything if a man brings up the subject in a mail within a week, it's more like a trial balloon to see what a woman's response will be. If a woman replies in an uptight manner, then regardless how long it takes to get there, most men are not going to want to try.
Every man is different, just like every woman. Some are very open about sex, to others it's very private. The one thing that is certain is that men consider it important. Therefore how a women responds to the very mention of it will tell volumes. We are looking for compatibility, sex is just part of that.
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12/23/2007 9:32:17 PM |
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mfpc58
Woodlyn, PA
age: 48
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Here we go again with that sex thing. Friends always 1st..
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12/24/2007 4:19:00 AM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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And what makes one think women don't think about sex alot? Being without for a long while is no excuse to me to bring it up. I'm not about to talk with just anyone about my likes/dislikes etc...it is a private matter. Get to know me and if we click and sex becomes part of a relationship then he'll know my preferences etc. It is just something I don't discuss openly with every man that wants to...sorry about his luck, if that is what it's all about then he can move on. Sex is a very important aspect of a relationship, just not the only reason to have one.
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12/24/2007 6:40:30 AM |
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a_keeper
Elizabethtown, KY
age: 45
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I have got email's from a few guy's that have nothing on their mind's but sex.
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12/24/2007 10:40:02 AM |
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bus2blue
Jefferson, OH
age: 48
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so have I, and even worse. i've picked women up on a first date and before we even got to the restaurant she had her hand in my pantsI'm no prude, but thats not what most men are all about ( not that we don't like it). we, i should say the sincere men ,like to take it slow to and see if our date is compatible with us and see if we are compatible for a ltr.
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1/1/2008 1:14:21 PM |
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m1chael
Shelbyville, IN
age: 40 online now!
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I myself am looking for a respectful relationship...respect is a 2-way street, if I want you to respect me then I have to give you at least an equal amount in return.
Personally, I prefer (for the most part) to let the lady decide how far they will allow me to go, and more importantly at what point in time I get to go there.
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1/1/2008 1:31:43 PM |
Respectful is not what a man is looking for. |
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rdd40
Huntington, WV
age: 40
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Man Bashing..
I would like to say for some of us, is that woman ask for sex on here just as much as men.
Look at all the enticing photo's woman post on here.
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