| 1/23/2010 7:36:10 AM |
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aspateer
Middletown, OH
age: 32
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chase off the real men... the sweet and loving and caring ones? i am soooooo tired of being an "option" and getting hurt in the end.... sick of waiting around, putting time and effort into things only to fail because some f**king douchebag looks better, or has a better job, or more money.... or what the f**k ever.
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| 1/23/2010 7:43:11 AM |
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lookingforluv84
New London, OH
age: 44
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 Well I have been on here since 08 and I have only found one and we went out a few times and then never seen or heard from him again. I have sice then been told if I didnt look like I have ate the whole pizza shop maybe I would find someone. So it is not just us women it is men as well. You are a nice looking guy so hang on like I have been and you will find her. I wish you the best 
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| 1/23/2010 8:00:41 AM |
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cclay33
Fredericktown, OH
age: 33
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chase off the real men... the sweet and loving and caring ones? i am soooooo tired of being an "option" and getting hurt in the end.... sick of waiting around, putting time and effort into things only to fail because some f**king douchebag looks better, or has a better job, or more money.... or what the f**k ever.
Well u can only date one at a time. Maybe on the same day even. lol anyway. don't u dare go blaming her for keeping her options open. You guys do it too. She is keeping her heart safe and she is looking for the ONE. You are not gonna find THE ONE with out keeping ur options open.
otherwise ur just taking the next guy that rolls in. but i should be taking my own advice right there.
but i am just saying do not force her to say she just wants you and when u meet it doesn't work out. cuz it a dating website the feeling got to be mutual or it will be fake the whooooolle time. She may get a lot of emails. so give her you as one of the options. you know what i am saying. I am telling you though if u don't become one of those options you will risk not meeting her.
i know what i am trying to say and i totally get what she is doing. I think u already know it too. MR.
i hope some of this at least made some sense. lol
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| 1/23/2010 8:43:24 AM |
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nobs4u
Mansfield, OH
age: 49
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I feel for ya bro.(no,I am NOT gay!)Been there done that,learn to enjoy whatever happens.Shoot,some of 'em dont even give you a chance to meet with 'em.Some you meet,feel the tension,KNOW it would be damn good,they do too,then you hear nothing?Afraid they wont be able to get rid of ya when they're done or they KNOW you could be "THE ONE"and it just scares the hell out of em.(me too,but dont tell anybody!)At my age we ALL got baggage,leave it at the curb,and dont carry it to the next stop.Really,bro,learn to enjoy,I KNOW I am.(it's my only option!)And ,SOMETIMES,they come back.You cannot MAKE somebody love you,treat them with respect and dignity and love,and they wont forget it!
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| 1/23/2010 9:38:57 AM |
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tontoo
Winchester, OH
age: 38
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i do not,it is hard to find a good guy,with car,job
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| 1/23/2010 10:52:28 AM |
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candyandy77
Hamilton, OH
age: 32 online now!
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chase off the real men... the sweet and loving and caring ones? i am soooooo tired of being an "option" and getting hurt in the end.... sick of waiting around, putting time and effort into things only to fail because some f**king douchebag looks better, or has a better job, or more money.... or what the f**k ever.
If aa woman drops you because someone is better looking she's crazy. Have you really looked at yourself?your a good looking guy. As for the part about a better job, and more money. Women that do that make me sick.
I'm kind of new at this online dating, so I'm talking to a few different guys. I want to start off as friends, hangout and all that kind of stuff.
I don't want anyone to think they are an option, but isn't that part of online dating? Weigh your options and see what works best.
You'll find someone, just hang in there, and don't give up.
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| 1/23/2010 11:51:38 PM |
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sammie31
Warsaw, KY
age: 31
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Well, it sounds to me as if you haven't found "the right one" yet. When you find that woman, she will love you for you and nothing else. Then there will be no "keeping her options open" because her option will be you. Hang in there, believe it or not, there are still good women out there waiting for their knight in shining armor to sweep her off her feet.
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| 1/24/2010 12:39:20 AM |
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pipebandit
Lakewood, OH
age: 52
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"Chasing off" someone isn't exclusive to the female gender. I do believe everyone has a line, a point of no return, a "standard", so to speak. It is extremely difficult to meet someone you are physically attracted to, mentally attracted to, and then want to explore the possibility of being emotionally attracted.
It is seemingly easy to meet women that meet perhaps any two of the three I mentioned
(and that offers it's own challenges)...only to find they fail your standard on the third.
And when one or more of the three come up missing, what do we do? We "chase" them away.
Sure, there may be more palatable ways to say it, but the truth remains. No-one, except the desperate, will spend much time with someone that does not meet their own natural desires.
This is normal, it is natural, it is truth. To be or do otherwise, will result in a relationship full of frustration.
So yes, my answer after all these words, is that we as men, do the same thing as women....we want what we want. Anything less will get "chased" away.
My constant reminder to myself in the pursuit of a mate, is to remember that being alone is WAY better than being with the "wrong" one.
Yet the pursuit, is most amusing!!! Relax Aspateer, and enjoy the hunt.
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| 1/24/2010 3:11:48 AM |
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easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 40 online now!
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Another person looking for a magical potion to fix your problems. Build the friendships and let everything else just happen. Dont worry about love or having a partner. Your best friend cant be made to like you through any means other than by being your friend first.
Just food for thought.
Chuck
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| 1/24/2010 4:22:39 AM |
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lucas510
Wadsworth, OH
age: 25
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Another person looking for a magical potion to fix your problems. Build the friendships and let everything else just happen. Dont worry about love or having a partner. Your best friend cant be made to like you through any means other than by being your friend first.
Just food for thought.
Chuck
I'm going with this one. 
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| 1/24/2010 10:21:00 AM |
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aspateer
Middletown, OH
age: 32
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more often than not... i find that women are just superficial f**king b*tches that are ready to bigger better deal you the moment they lay eyes on you....
its all a game, which might be compared, from the perspective of any of the other players, to being involved in an obscure and complex version of poker in a pitch dark room, with blank cards, for infinite stakes, with a dealer who won't tell you the rules, and who smiles all the time.
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| 1/24/2010 10:27:03 AM |
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nobs4u
Mansfield, OH
age: 49
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 HIT ME! Hell,Yeah! 21!!!!!!
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| 1/24/2010 10:37:07 AM |
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chaotica
Newbury, OH
age: 45
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the couple ladies i have met obviously got over the looks dept.
and being laid off for so long ... money wasnt what she was looking at either
(thankfully im back to work ... so that shouldnt be an issue)
so i guess what she was looking at was me as a whole person
what im like as a person ...
talk honestly ... dont lie to her ...
treat her with respect
its amazing what a little respect will do for you
maybe ive been fortunate in that all the ladies ive met i still talk to
again i think that is because im honest with them
it can be a curse or a blessing
JMHO
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| 1/24/2010 10:04:16 PM |
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ohiosunshine48
Akron, OH
age: 48
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Frank you are one in a mill honey, honest, you are who you are... a true man!! love you to death
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| 1/24/2010 10:40:41 PM |
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enigmaco
Columbus, OH
age: 28 online now!
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chase off the real men... the sweet and loving and caring ones? i am soooooo tired of being an "option" and getting hurt in the end.... sick of waiting around, putting time and effort into things only to fail because some f**king douchebag looks better, or has a better job, or more money.... or what the f**k ever.
Boy did you just open the floodgates with this one, wow run forrest run.  
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| 1/26/2010 6:27:02 PM |
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onewhiteduck
Huntsburg, OH
age: 27
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this kind of thing happens to everybody. happens to me sometimes. I don't take it personally, obviously people who act that way aren't worth the time. just dust yourself off and wait for the pain from that kick in the gonads to go away, and put a big handsome smile on for the next one, knowing you learned what you could from the last heartache.
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