| 1/6/2008 5:06:12 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
truthfulheart
Clarksville, TN
age: 54
|
there seems to be some issues on this and I would think this would keep the fighting and judgements and moral issues down
Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
|
| 1/6/2008 5:50:58 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
shezakeepher
Columbia, SC
age: 56
|
Not a bad idea.
|
| 1/6/2008 6:27:02 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
txlisa
Quitman, TX
age: 53
|
morning... works for me
|
| 1/6/2008 6:27:45 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
cardsfan2
Springfield, MO
age: 56
|
I vote yes but I doubt it will stop people from misposting. 
|
| 1/6/2008 6:34:26 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
texangelfire
Krum, TX
age: 67
|
OK remember I'm new. Do I understand everyone can say what they want just in the appropriate place. It Gives us warning about the content before we enter. I like that.
|
| 1/6/2008 6:46:24 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
agent05949
Greenville, MI
age: 60
|
I agree 100% the lack of having this category is tearing at the fabric of the 50+ forum !!
|
| 1/6/2008 6:49:40 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
anne654
Springfield, MO
age: 56
|
I agree - with all the trouble with that "penis" post last night, keep it separate
|
| 1/6/2008 6:59:27 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 58
|
It is needed, and it will make the 50+ all the better.
|
| 1/6/2008 7:56:54 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
deedeekine1
Irwin, PA
age: 58
|
Should be a seperate thread.
|
| 1/6/2008 8:01:49 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
wvpenni
Granville, WV
age: 58
|
I agree with texas and ann,,I don't need to talk about sex, learned all that early in life, what I like on here is Joe's coffee thread and a couple of the others, I was also offended by the penis remarks. Seen one seen 'em all. (questions and comments) no wonder men think that that's all women care about. That seems to be the topic in many chat rooms and even on here , depending on where we choose to enter.
I'm for good conversation and humor, helping folks if they have a problem ...but please, we are adults here. That kind of talk is offensive.Wouldn't want my mother reading that garbage. 
|
| 1/6/2008 8:16:40 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
herself
Mohawk, NY
age: 67
|
who is going to stand in judgement of what goes where, frankly there are comments made that are "IN JEST offensive...it is a real problem that needs to be sorted out before adding yet another place to carry on much of the same stuff
believe
Lynne
[Edited 1/6/2008 9:05:40 AM ]
|
| 1/6/2008 9:28:08 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
truthfulheart
Clarksville, TN
age: 54
|
dustin will make the change if it happens.
|
| 1/6/2008 9:57:36 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
herself
Mohawk, NY
age: 67
|
That would be a good thing...would you have posted "rules" then that would be followed????
|
| 1/6/2008 3:23:28 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
sugahsouth
Lake City, TN
age: 62
|
Well....If I want to talk serious sex capabilities, I'll do it privately. It wasn't in jest....it was more like from a child. Ridiculous. Personally, I don't care to have point blank sex topics on general 50+ forum. Innuendos will always be there....we are adults. Point blank questions(especially vulgar ones such as that)need to go elsewhere. Therefore, I do think we need a sex site for seniors. Dustin can make the call on what he thinks should be under sex site, Herself, and what shouldn't. Voila', no more bickering. No more childish name calling, no more silly click(as the smart people spell it) calling, no more moral police being used. After all, we are adults. All good again. Save us Dustin!!!!
|
| 1/7/2008 12:22:27 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
judi35
Madisonville, KY
age: 61
|
I agree
|
| 1/7/2008 4:40:50 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
morles
San Antonio, TX
age: 66
|
I certainly agree....
Maybe elimate the so call Prudes (not name calling...
look it up in your dictionary) that only show Prudence of
Igonants when sex is brought up...They know who they are..
Myself I would like to see 50+ "Sex with Humor" because
sexual issues can be more easy address with humor (my opinion only)
"IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE SHOW...TURN CHANNELS NOW"
|
| 1/7/2008 6:33:28 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
dannachanna
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 60
|
There's always going to be an interest in this topic.
|
| 1/8/2008 3:34:48 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
richard66214
Overland Park, KS
age: 55
|
|
| 1/8/2008 3:44:13 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
sunnyx56
Rochester, NH
age: 59
|
I think it's a wonderful idea.
|
| 1/8/2008 4:20:03 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
goldangel
Hickory, NC
age: 58
|
I for one can and will talk about sex' with the one which wants to be mine.
I am not a prude, I just have self respect for myself and I don't think its anyone bussness but mine and his.
|
| 1/8/2008 5:22:07 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
morles
San Antonio, TX
age: 66
|
|
| 1/8/2008 5:42:26 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
explorer11
Saint Robert, MO
age: 64
|
I agree... its obvious that the so called adults can't get along... 
|
| 1/8/2008 6:56:27 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
hma2
Chico, CA
age: 71
|
I vote yes but I am only one person and I doubt that it will change a lot
|
| 1/8/2008 6:59:44 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
mrsmiles4444
Culpeper, VA
age: 54
|
I vote all for it. 10000000000%
|
| 1/8/2008 7:06:15 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
thepkk
Ash Grove, MO
age: 55
|
I don't want to read about somebody's penis. If I did I would go to the sex threads.
|
| 1/8/2008 7:46:04 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
blueshortcake
Stanford, KY
age: 60
|
Yes, I agree.
While we are at it, can we also list that into catagories so we won't accidentally make a mistake.Like: Medical issues-performance issues-serious sexual issues-funny sexual issues-abusive sexual issues-expliciate sexual issues-suggestive sexual issues.
This should include remarks and words. Such as touching,feeling,hugging, caressing, cuddling, snuggling and kissing. As we all know these are all a form of foreplay. Wouldn't want to misunderstand the intent in which it was meant to be.
Also,since the P___ word is out, so is a whole list of others. This includes the slang versions. And any body part that is used in the act os sex. The eyes, mouth, breast, butt, leggs, fingers, toes and the almighty tongue I have heard so much about on here.
Now, since we are all in agreement. The matter is finally settled. Now children---behave.
|
| 1/8/2008 8:42:54 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 58
|
i think people have the right to post anything as i have here with this post --as well as you have the right to your viewpoints or bypass the thread period--sometimes these forums are about kissing each others butts, just a little bit noticeable as these forums keep us from lonliness and people living too far as it is already from each other--there are not enough fresh topics and threads as there is as they go right to page 2 or beyond as history only to be revived by the threads author ...I admit being quilty of that as so should others too--since no one ever goes to page 2 once it gets there or beyond.... some people post a thread about ham and eggs being served--when the host is never there---lol...so stop the BS guys--that is what gets old here--all of us...the world is about any topic and everyone has opinions--pro or con--i spoke my peace and if you hate me more--or love me less I have spoken...  again if you vote yes then the forum becomes 2 sided--the closed minded vs open-minded threads-funny vs boring threads, kiss my butt threads vs never posting on them because you hate the author shows lack of respect too and so on---and for the ones thinking young and under 50 there is already a Sex and dating forum...
PS some people don't even know how to use these forums/groups for their advantages either
[Edited 1/8/2008 8:45:42 PM ]
|
| 1/8/2008 8:59:47 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
thepkk
Ash Grove, MO
age: 55
|
Some people have sour grapes just because alot of us would prefer it to be a clean place to go where we don't have that thrown in our faces and have fights. That is the whole reason we asked Dustin for a 50+ thread.
And talk about new subjects all one can do is post jokes. How about giving him his own room.
|
| 1/9/2008 12:18:51 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
sugahsouth
Lake City, TN
age: 62
|
As usual.......going overboard because someone has an opinon against something, name calling always, and the usual being called closed minded. Seems to me a few protestest too much. Why are you condemning a vote. No need for all the derisive comments. Just vote.....duh
ANd if you protest this subject being brought up and voted on.....hey it is the USA!!!!!
|
| 1/9/2008 4:47:59 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
morles
San Antonio, TX
age: 66
|
This is a non vote posting...
I agree with you Sorprano and thepkk and everyones posted views
I haven't seen anybody criticize the theatre (thread)
with the Coffee Shop Fantasy ...Go for it...My daughters
played this game between ages 4 and 8 yrs old and I still
LOVE them for it...
Realm of reality is that there is a real world out there with
all different types of personalities encountering their lives in different
ways rather in a serious..humorious or fanciful..manner....Yes and
this includes the 50+ group...these people are entitled their threatre (thread)
just like all others...you don't go there just to criticize their theatre (thread)
just stay away from it if your offended and don't like it...
I think most are thinking about the Penis issue....Lets forget it for a second...Lets use another example I recall a gentleman from Florida I don't remember exactly appox 3 to 4 weeks ago submitting a thread for wanting a Lady date/mate ..call it what you like...In his thread and he stated he smoked and if it bothered you don't bother him....Well all these non-smokers jump on him like flies on horseshit...the gentleman was just being honest with himself in his postings...but there it went again a big arguement over smoking or not smoking not even pertaining to the essence of his thread....For all you who remembered this do you think it was fair to jump on him this way...????
Come-on lets get real and this is what the debate is really all about is the circle of people in here wants to control things to there likings on their terms....and if the shoe fit where it...
Now lets go back to the Penis issue another classic example of jumping in a thread I shouldn't even been in..but I did it myself...It got so out of hand yes I jumped in there and redirected into humor hoping it will have a positive outcome and even Pink the host said she laugh so hard her sides ache..so I feel the mission was acccomplished...Now some are even indicating maybe I was trying the embarrass the host WRONG the bottom line is the host should have indicated what answers she really needed and control the postings as they came...and there are places right now called THREADS on 50+ for all issues MAKE A STRONG TITILE AS YOU SEE FIT..so then the ones that may feel offended just stay away from it...its not required you have to read or participate in every Thread...Get that in your heads the site is for everybody...
I further would like to add ... Right here on this thread the host should indicate that only the open posted votes will count so every one has a chance to Tally the votes for a fair vote count...its the only way it can be fair and seen by all...I know there will be more misconsumption and take it personally and this is not the intent what so ever...its to get a fair count...repeat a fair count...So post your votes openly stating how you voted....
I see so many of the same people OVER and OVER again on every thread or posting a thread...is it that you like to see your name or show your picture...why is this...???
Myself(My opinion only) I do not think the way this thread is posted will resolve anything...We already have the right to discuss sex and dating...Yes I pass my vote and think everybody should...There is nobody that I know of on this site that is qualified to pass serious sexual issues along to another...I will agree with Sugar and few others that serious sex issues should be discuss between them and their mate and I further might add...seek professional help....But if I for example posted a sexual thread stating; Hey folks I had this problem last night I couldn't get my Penis up any suggestions????....Whew look out because I am open game...Hey join in or stay away your choice...it then becomes a game of Toss and Catch....If you Toss you better be able to Catch and the time of the games are unlimited in these instances....If you don't know how to play the game stay out and watch if you wish and don't particpate..or better yet just stay away...
This is my voice (my voice only) I do think the host that has sponsored this should take responsibly and take over and indicated what does he thinks this thread
will or should prove and express a fair vote count etc etc....or maybe this another blatant example of somebody wanting just to see their name and picture not really wanting or capable to host the Thread...I see it as just a TITLE that we already have the right to excercise....I think even with the few votes it has drawn its overwhelmingly in favor and I certainly voted in favor of it...OK now what...????
What we need is a educational class on this 50+ site teaching everybody it is not designed just for few and only on their terms..ITS FOR ALL MEMBERS.PERIOD The End..
[Edited 1/9/2008 5:55:38 AM ]
|
| 1/9/2008 5:46:18 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
loveisarose
Port Richey, FL
age: 52
|
Great idea. I vote yes.
|
| 1/9/2008 6:04:59 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
exlaw
Sneads Ferry, NC
age: 54
|
If at this age, I am so blunt as to discuss my personal matters in an open forum where others may view, and feel I need to discuss body parts, I would think, I needed psychiatric advice, and not advice from non medically certified persons of random personalities.
Privacy is a part of intimacy and should be respected between active partners of a relationship....
My opinion
[Edited 1/9/2008 6:06:05 AM ]
|
| 1/9/2008 6:20:04 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
dannachanna
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 60
|
Oh, Oh, the p..word police have arrived..
|
| 1/9/2008 11:41:35 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
libraryliz
Martinsville, VA
age: 60
|
I agree with sugahsouth. Liz
|
| 1/9/2008 2:38:30 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
winesong
Bend, OR
age: 62
|
Oh oh....
On Monday Dr. Oz was on Oprah....and guess what??
They discussed many topics related to the human body, and information.
THE *P* word was used on NATIONAL DAYTIME TV AGAIN.... yes sur eee. 3:00PM.
...I did not see the audience gasping, or rolling their eyes. they were there for information as only Dr. Oz does on the Oprah Show. Factual, and you can learn something.
Oh it was well accepted that the *male anatomy*..plumbing system was an accepted subject.
It is not dirty, or something women cannot say. Sure sounds better than a pee pee, or schlong, or willie, or what ever name we learned to call it as children....or slang talk.
If I want to talk about church, I will go to my place of Faith. I will not assume everyone around me wants to talk about my belieifs.
Wine
|
| 1/9/2008 2:52:28 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 55
|
I don't have any problem with someone using the word penis at all. It is when someone asks to VOTE on their size which annoys me.....
|
| 1/9/2008 3:45:46 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
pylgram
Checotah, OK
age: 61
|
If it means we can talk about spanking butts and pulling hair, I'm for it. Just don't try to punish me for my comments here when I'm in the other forums.
|
| 1/9/2008 7:41:03 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
bamabob
Crane Hill, AL
age: 58
|
I think people over 50 still have sex....so I voted yes....
|
| 1/9/2008 11:54:21 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
thepkk
Ash Grove, MO
age: 55
|
Let them have their sex threads and we won't have it slammed in our faces all the time. today there was a serious one and the penis people lashed out like the immature adults they are and there was some others making like of it and I wasn't wild about that either.
It is just going to run some really good people if you don't lay down the law and tell them where they can go with the sex threads they want so bad.
|
| 1/10/2008 3:45:24 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
wvpenni
Granville, WV
age: 58
|
Morals, I guess you could find humor in your sexual activities. You are pretty funny !
If you were half the man you claim to be you could run for office.
|
| 1/10/2008 5:33:02 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
purrrfomihoney
Philadelphia, PA
age: 56
|
|
| 1/10/2008 5:45:12 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
purrrfomihoney
Philadelphia, PA
age: 56
|
Are we that old we can't talk about any subject under the sun, even S E X. O MY . I feel that I have gotten to the place in life that I can and will talk about anything that interest me.
|
| 1/10/2008 5:50:37 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
purrrfomihoney
Philadelphia, PA
age: 56
|
Like what you are saying Winesong It's not that serious people.
|
| 1/10/2008 7:50:34 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 55
|
LOL@penis people pkk.....I am waiting to hear from the "boob" people!
|
| 1/10/2008 8:25:03 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 44
|
I've got 9 years til i qualify to post in the 50's section..but I do have freedom of speech..so I'm gonna say what's on my mind..
My Dad was living in sin at age 79 ..lol..his live-in girlfriend once answered the phone..they asked is she was his wife..she replied ..' No , I'm his live in lover '
If you dont want to read about sex..I suggest you stay off the forums. We are a sexual society..the media blasts it in our face constantly.. And yeah..I watch Oprah from time to time..Dr. Oz has some good stuff..and I think someone told me they said I can gain an inch if I lose some weight..so bring on the diet plan..
( I just hope its not an inch taller..doorways already hurt)
As the song says..Sex is natural..sex is good..
its what makes this life more enjoyable..although I look forward to just holding my lady as well..
THere is more to life than sex..but it's still going to pop up ( pun intended) from time to time.
Peace and happiness to all who seek it..
|
| 1/10/2008 8:39:40 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
winesong
Bend, OR
age: 62
|
Yes, you are correct...Dr. Oz stated last month that if an overweight man looses 30 or 35# he will gain an inch....oh ....another TV fact.
I have several of the Dr. Oz CD's. #1 New York Times best seller, YOU..The Owner's Manual is very informative. It is an insider's guide to the body that will make you healthier and YOUNGER.
I am going to purchase his newest YOU ON A DIET..as soon asI see it at Costco again.
Be Well,
Wine
|
| 1/10/2008 1:06:35 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
elfiegirl
Port Charlotte, FL
age: 56
|
Oh hell Dustin...give 'em thread...who cares? I just can't
stand any type of bashing for whatever reason. If it will
help to keep the peace...I am all for it!
I like happy people with no conflicts....otherwise it
messes with my good kharma.....bad....not good!
I say...."Give peas <---(intended) a chance."
|
| 1/10/2008 3:46:20 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
drln1947
Republic, MO
age: 63
|
Most sites do have another thread for sexual content.
|
| 1/10/2008 6:20:31 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
winesong
Bend, OR
age: 62
|
THIS WEBSITE HAS ANOTHER space already established...
again, if people would look around and see what is already in place.
That one is very easy to spot.
...The super bowl of sexual questions, the other group is for all the people...of course.
It gets very off color and vulgar. Most or many of us in this age group just avoid
looking at any subject that starts off in poor taste via the subject line.
It was hoped that the 50+ group could be segregated and not subject to the
degrading questions some of the younger group posts....or the comments they make.
Some in this group had actually hoped to add some humor to the subject of
physical relations...there is that better than sex???
oh this subject...has a life of it's own....
Wine
|
| 1/10/2008 7:59:18 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 55
|
There is a sex forum........not hard to find either!
|
| 1/10/2008 8:10:04 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 55
|
The 50's people certainly are demanding.............
|
| 1/11/2008 7:12:50 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
adil1856
Bronx, NY
age: 31
|
what about if with younger
|
| 1/12/2008 3:35:19 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
truthfulheart
Clarksville, TN
age: 54
|
what do you think about this Dustin
|
| 1/13/2008 12:56:44 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
barbb6042
Bolivar, NY
age: 68
|
I voted yes. Many people want to discuss sex in DETAIL..At least if they have the forum sex for 50s maybe it wont be done in the other 50s forums...
|
| 1/13/2008 6:45:31 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
thepkk
Ash Grove, MO
age: 55
|
Dr. Oz may talk about the penis but I don't see him talking about it rudely. I don't mind talking about sex as long as it is done with some kind of class. Dr. Oz does not make a long list of jokes about it. He doesn't make polls of the people there at Oprah's show.
I sm not wanting to kick them out. Just give them a locked thread maybe at the top where people who want to talk gross about it can go and others don't have to see come up all the time. Also another one at the top for SORPRANO (hope I spelled that right) and others can go for just jokes.
|
| 1/13/2008 7:53:26 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
hodag
Williston, ND
age: 57
|
For those of you calling some of us the "morality police", please read this v-e-r-y
s-l-o-w-l-y so it sinks in.
No one is suggesting that certain topics be off limits. We are requesting a seperate area for sexual issues.
Some have suggested "changing the channel".....duh!....THAT IS WHAT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT!
Prior to the famous penis question, the 50+ forum was a lot of fun. Now everyone is arguing. THAT is why I am voting YES, for a new forum.
|
| 1/13/2008 5:05:30 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 55
|
LOL.........that infamous penis poll!
I have to agree for a separate 50's sex forum.....to which you will never see me in the regular 50's forum again if a 50's sex forum is started....
[Edited 1/13/2008 7:30:44 PM ]
|
| 1/13/2008 8:39:33 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
healthologist
Page, AZ
age: 63
|
Count me in, although it is kind of fun educating the children.
They think they know it all.
|
| 1/14/2008 7:13:33 PM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 55
|
i vote yes
|
| 1/16/2008 9:29:12 AM |
Sex and dating 50+ forum space |
|
healthologist
Page, AZ
age: 63
|
Can I bring my toys?
|