| 3/1/2010 10:31:58 AM |
I probably should let it go. Shouldn’t I? |
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niceguynodrama1
Carnegie, PA
age: 53
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I probably should let it go. Shouldn’t I?
Hi, I went out with someone who I met from here. When I first saw her I was surprised because she was quite a bit heavier than I expected. Her profile only had one picture which was a head shot and it said her body type was average. Now for me it’s more important what’s on the inside so I can let that little fib go but I wish she would have honest.
As the evening went on I found myself beginning to more and more not to like her too much as a person. That main reason being that a number of little white lies kept popping up based from what she had previously told me in emails. At the end of the date I was glad to go.
What’s bothering me is this. Recently she removed her old photo from her profile and replaced it with a number of new photos. The new photos appear to be somewhere in the vicinity of 20 to 25 years ago and approximately 40 to 50 pounds lighter.
I thought about writing a letter to her but I’m not the type to try to make someone feel bad. I mean who knows how lonely she might be in her heart. But this seems very unfair to me. If her intent is to go on a lot of dates it probably will work but its not being very upfront and truthful to the guys she’ll be meeting.
Any thoughts on this?
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| 3/1/2010 11:03:24 AM |
I probably should let it go. Shouldn’t I? |
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mowboss54
Springdale, PA
age: 63 online now!
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Yes you should. You are whining about her being decieving by her pictures, what about you. I dont see any of you on yours. Provided upon request. Might as well not have any if they have to be a big secret. I only have head shots on mine because I havent figured out how to get a full size of me off the cd its on and get it posted. I also state in my profile that Im not a Barbie nor am I the fat lady in the circus. I for one see no point in trying to make myself look like something Im not. Im gonna get caught on it in the end. If everyone would be as truthful as you think they should it would certainly be a lot easier 
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| 3/1/2010 11:36:40 AM |
I probably should let it go. Shouldn’t I? |
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gem4gent
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 42 online now!
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i would let it go and move on, and ,mow you are barbie you look great for your age a lot younger then you age says,mow is so out going she gets all the dates thats why i stuck home on the weekend, i hate to say as i got older my hips have got wider.o well you will have this in life. yea dude where your pic.
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| 3/1/2010 11:55:24 AM |
I probably should let it go. Shouldn’t I? |
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jdeso1
Willow Grove, PA
age: 50 online now!
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Checking profiles has become a favorite pastime of mine, on this and other sites. I have no issue whatsoever with a lady who's a bit large, or small or whatever. What tells me a lot about the person is how accurately they see themselves. I wonder if it's an attempt to deceive, or are they deceiving themselves. It's a red flag to me when the description is off in either direction. I prefer my woman firmly based in reality. As for what you should do about the situation you described, nothing. Seems like it's her problem, not yours.
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| 3/1/2010 12:52:59 PM |
I probably should let it go. Shouldn’t I? |
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1056ad
Ellwood City, PA
age: 58
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let it go. eventually she will find what she wants and so will you. don't let things discourage you. honesty is the best policy but for some it is hard to be honest cause they may not be happy wiht themselves.
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| 3/1/2010 1:45:07 PM |
I probably should let it go. Shouldn’t I? |
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niceguynodrama1
Carnegie, PA
age: 53
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Those who responded so far are right. Of course I will let it go. I'm not one to judge someone since I'm not walking in their shoes. As I mentioned I have no idea what is in her heart or mind that makes her feel she needs to do that.
To mowboss54, I realize why you say that about having pictures to send but not posted. I have nothing to hide but I’m looking to know someone from the inside first. I’ve tried it the other way, just going with what was physically attractive to me. As I’ve gotten older I realize that the biggest part of attraction comes from within. I know that I might not get emails that maybe I would have but I don’t need the world to like me, just one special one.
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