Thanks musclecar. I agree with the communication thing. The monetary issue wasn't the only clue, so I'm confident I didn't make a mistake there. However that whole experience did bring up the thought as to whether money is the issue, or is the person trying to avoid taking the relationship further?
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catieliz
Columbus, OH
age: 46
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In this economy, people being unemployed or on fixed incomes take a toll on going out, asking someone out on a date? There are creative inexpensive ways to have a date, like a picnic in the park or going to a Metro park beach or hike. You can split the check if you go out to eat. What do you all think? Has it affected you. Especially guys who were raised the old fashioned way of men being the one to pay. I myself like when a guy pays. But I do not mind picking up my own check when needed.
I did go out with a guy about a month ago who was just cheap. He drove a nice big dodge truck, bragged on his business, but when the check came, asked if I didn't mind paying my own. I had just got a salad and coffee which came to around $5. Needless to say I have not returned his phone calls.
What do you all think, is the economy effecting you?
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| 7/11/2010 5:55:26 AM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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I know that Ohio is probably one of the worst states right now and that a lot of people are unemployed, so no I have absolutely no problem of paying my share of a date. It is hard for a ton of people so I would never make a issue of it.
You know what I struggle with right now, I recently found out that I will be unemployed by probably the end of the year, so now I feel like I should quit even trying to meet someone because I don't know where I'll be or what's going to happen with me in a few months.
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| 7/11/2010 5:58:27 AM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 50
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Yes I believe it has.
I am very blessed to have a job but I make just enough money to pay my bills. Not much left over for entertainment. I am not a bar person and it would be nice if I could have a little left over to maybe go to places where I could meet people.
I have been walking with a very nice gentleman from my church which costs nothing to do.
Given this bad economy just where do you all go to meet other people?? I would love to hear your ideas.
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| 7/11/2010 6:25:59 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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Life d0esn't have t0 c0me t0 a screeching hault due t0 unempl0yment . . . it just f0rces us t0 bec0me creative.
Think ab0ut the 0ld days when we were kids . . . 0ur fun/play time was usually always free !
That same "put y0ur thinking cap 0n" mentality w0rks f0r adults t00 - 
My pers0nal percepti0n is that f0lks have bec0me accust0med t0 "being" entertained vs. searching "h0w" t0 entertain themselves.
Rally with y0ur friends - they have friends, wh0 have friends, wh0 have friends.
If they are true friends they will be by y0ur side even if unempl0yed f0r the time being !
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| 7/11/2010 7:05:18 AM |
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waitingnolonger
Elyria, OH
age: 39
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It takes its toll in another way. People who are still employed, in many cases (mine included), find themselves working longer hours to pick up the slack left by the decreased work force. The overtime pay is nice, but free time evaporates and leaves little time for dating. It's really a "can't win" situation; either you have the time but not the money, or the money but not the time. It sucks.
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| 7/11/2010 7:08:46 AM |
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lucas510
Wadsworth, OH
age: 26
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Yes it has. I find myself passing on a lot of evenings out with people including friends and family just because it gets to expensive. I do however find it funny that when you read a lot of peoples profiles, especially women who have the classic line of, " I also enjoy staying in and just watching a movie." seem to really not think that at all. Everyone in the dating world seems to look for that little bit of excitment and that short term get away from their lives. So when the idea of just sitting around in the same old environment and watching a movie comes up, it really doesn't sound like that good of an idea. 
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| 7/11/2010 8:51:26 AM |
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dunkle72
Lancaster, OH
age: 37
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Absolutely, Especially given the transition that the man picks up the check. Don't get me wrong. I'm not a cheapskate, however I have bought many free meals for women who have totally misrepresented their self in their profile. First meetings should be at a park or a coffee shop to see it there is chemistry.
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| 7/11/2010 10:52:49 AM |
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scubbydoo4ltr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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I would say mabe yes for some people. No to myself cuz it hasn't affected me to much. I'm making same if not more putting in same amount of time. An I'm old fashioned. Women never pays. That's just the way I always been.  
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| 7/11/2010 11:16:46 AM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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I am sorry but I really don't think a woman should expect to have her meal paid for if that is what you choose to do.
For a first meet something inexpensive should be chosen and since I am the type that's there early if I can I will buy my beverage before my meet gets there so there is no sense of obligation.
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| 7/11/2010 12:48:25 PM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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i was raised always pay even if i'm low on money i make sure to choose something where i know i have enough money
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| 7/11/2010 3:47:46 PM |
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smilingbob63
Barberton, OH
age: 46
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 I can't believe this but Snides I agree totally, thats just how a lot of us men were raised. Ya ever been out with the guys and they say they have a little mad money put up. I wont divolge(spelling) where we usually keep it but its put back in case we meet up with a woman, and after a while of waiting we usually end up at a party with our friends spending it and procede to replentish the waiting game again.
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| 7/11/2010 3:50:41 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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I personally like to keep it simple on the first few meetings, perhaps go out for coffee or meet outside at a public place. It feels a little awkward for someone to buy me dinner when they don't even know me.
If it's decided we want to continue to see one another and money is an issue for dating that could be talked about. But I do appreciate it if the man pays. And like Phina stated you can be creative on dating, it does not have to be expensive.
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| 7/11/2010 4:02:14 PM |
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mulligan1031
Lakewood, OH
age: 52
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Absolutely, Especially given the transition that the man picks up the check. Don't get me wrong. I'm not a cheapskate, however I have bought many free meals for women who have totally misrepresented their self in their profile. First meetings should be at a park or a coffee shop to see it there is chemistry.
This guy nailed it.... I always pay cause that's how I was raised. Thankfully I can afford to do the things I enjoy. It's the search without tangible results, that I find most frustrating. It's just easier to be alone. This site does make for entertaining reading though.
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| 7/11/2010 4:09:07 PM |
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tazzerio
Dayton, OH
age: 39
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I haven't got to the point of meeting anyone from here or any other online meets for that matter. It has effected me quite a bit. I was laid off back in Dec. and am just now finally back to work. It feels great, but I still have to keep an eye on my funds until I get back in the groove.
That being said... it does cause problems when it comes to dating. As a few other men have said, I was raised to open doors and pay when I ask someone out on a date. I don't go so far as pull out the chair, but I have. It is one of those things I didn't learn so don't often think of it, but I learned to be respectful and that if I ask someone out on a date, then I pay.
The few times I've been out and the woman stated she was paying because she invited me out, I just felt uncomfortable. I probably shouldn't, but I do. Either way, I have not felt much like trying to meet someone because I wasn't working. I did use the time to find fun but inexpensive things for couples to do... so in a way the economy was good and bad. It kept me from wanting to ask anyone out, but it also made me get creative coming up with things to do on dates.
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| 7/11/2010 6:48:35 PM |
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catieliz
Columbus, OH
age: 46
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You all are great. Good answers. I myself am unemployed and doing some freelance stuff and have a small monthly stipend of which I am surviving on right now. I have been looking for work for almost 2 yrs, in my field, and about to go to the local Kroger, or Walmart to find something.
Any way, I my self don't mind picking up a check now and then. I have one guy I am close friends with in Cleveland who is disabled from a back injury, of which I go see from time to time. He is waiting on his disability settlement. I don't mind paying when we go out to do something. Mostly we go to the park, walk, or see a movie. Inexpensive stuff. One can get creative. I do enjoy when I can go out with a guy like a couple weeks ago from another site to where h took me to McCormick and Smith at Easton, a high end place and had a good meal. These are real treats. The guy is an executive at a company. But really no time for a relationship. That sucks. Yes, one has money but no time, or plenty of time but no money.
Oh well, most our grandparents courted with no money, so the economy does not have to take a toll or be an issue. Thanks for the answers so far.
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| 7/11/2010 10:33:43 PM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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i was raised always pay even if i'm low on money i make sure to choose something where i know i have enough money
no no no were not allowed to agree together these woman are going to think were sensative now lol
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| 7/11/2010 10:54:04 PM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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no no no were not allowed to agree together these woman are going to think were sensative now lol
- yep deny it and we'll still kn0w !
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| 7/11/2010 10:57:49 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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I like a sensitive man...
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| 7/11/2010 11:00:57 PM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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I like a sensitive man...
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| 7/12/2010 1:56:05 AM |
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derby420
West College Corner, IN
age: 43
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I'm a sensitive guy....
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| 7/12/2010 2:51:01 AM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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Sensitive is not a bad thing... you can cry when old yeller dies
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| 7/12/2010 3:11:35 AM |
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captainjul1
Columbus, OH
age: 51 online now!
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i agree
great answers from you all, i was raised when you went on a first date the man pays for it, if you decide to date further then its ok to treat each other, from time to time.maybe im old fashion some morals you never forget, and this is one so many dont have a clue as to how it works.espically the young ones.in any case i dont understand they were raised in the same area i was, how did it get pushed so far back . its like they have no clue, well this is just my opinion. please dont take any of it personal.
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| 7/12/2010 8:21:34 AM |
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catieliz
Columbus, OH
age: 46
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I think you are OK in your opinion. Young people need to gain wisdom from us older ones otherwise how are they supposed to know and learn. I helped raise my sister 3 boys who are adults now, they know how to treat women well. One is married now for 5 yrs. 2 are looking. They are handsome bright and intelligent. They will do well. They have good manners. I love a guy with good, manners.
Sensitive, Manners, raised right, financially secure, is he out there?
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| 7/12/2010 8:30:21 AM |
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deema56
Youngstown, OH
age: 52
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It certainly does!! It's not just the men, I find myself not asking anyone out or pursuing a guy that I am interested in because I know that I can't help him in any way because my needs take all of my income.
I have held conversations with a lot of men my age and the situations were just about the same. Most of them are out of work, on disability, or just don't have enough to support their own lifestyle.
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| 7/12/2010 8:34:32 AM |
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deema56
Youngstown, OH
age: 52
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What do you mean by "I'm a sensitive guy" and then you put a devil icon after? Are you being a little sarcastic?
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| 7/12/2010 9:27:37 AM |
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derby420
West College Corner, IN
age: 43
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What do you mean by "I'm a sensitive guy" and then you put a devil icon after? Are you being a little sarcastic?
Yes ma'am, I was being sarcastic. Just my nature. But if you read my posts, my attitude is to try and keep things light and airy. Try to at least make one person smile a day.
But once you get to know me, you will change your mind about me. I am a sensitive guy, who has manners and self respect. But I am a man, and I hide my true feelings often. Just the way I was raised.But I also open doors, and pull out chairs, and carry packages for the elderly. Not for recognition, but for being the man I am.
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| 7/12/2010 9:41:12 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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I am a sensitive guy, who has manners and self respect.
But I am a man, and I hide my true feelings often.
Just the way I was raised.But I also open doors, and pull out chairs, and carry packages for the elderly.
Not for recognition, but for being the man I am.
- we're getting t0 see the real y0u !
All th0se qualities are rarely seen anym0re and IMH0 sh0uld be adv0cated.
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| 7/12/2010 12:21:08 PM |
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dpd1998
Elyria, OH
age: 53
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Some of the statistics I've been reading over the past year that have stuck in my mind,
1. 1 out of 5 men are are unemployed due to the economic downturn that began in 2008. That's 20% of all men.
2. The best guess economics can come up with, 17% - 25% of Americans are unemployed.
3. Of those who are employed 40% of all Americans are now under employed.
Yes, the economic downturn has had to had an effect on dating. Dating cost money. People, men, have less discretionary money available.
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| 7/12/2010 1:20:15 PM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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dpd thats why I say a woman should really not expect the man to pay every time. In this day and age it really is unrealistic. Yes I understand that a lot of men were raised that way, heck I was raised that a man pays but that doesn't mean I haven't had a reality check. I go so far that when I get the impression the guy will insist to pay, I will look for a very VERY inexpensive meal, or pick up the check when he goes to the restroom. But that's just me
Derby it's nice to see the real you come through. It is very nice to see the different sides of the posters here.
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| 7/12/2010 1:31:28 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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yes, men were raised that way and consider it part of a mans' role. It is very hard for some to be flexible or to suggest going to a park or something. I would never pick up a check when the man excused himself to the restroom, I know some that would be horribly embarrassed. I would always make sure I talked to him about it before I did anything.
I went on a date and there were two sets of doors at the entrance, he opened the first set for me so I opened the second door for him, he was totally embarrassed. I know all men are different but I learned not to force things.
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| 7/12/2010 1:42:24 PM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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I went on a date and there were two sets of doors at the entrance, he opened the first set for me so I opened the second door for him, he was totally embarrassed. I know all men are different but I learned not to force things.
- excellent p0int
Pers0nally speaking, I w0uld have d0ne the same as t0 me it = mutual respect.
I will never be able t0 be a "cater t0 me" all the time type . . . I'd g0 nuts and l00se my sense 0f independence.
Then again, I'm a firm believer that everything can be 50/50, change t0 60/40, 0r even in desperate times bec0me 75/25.
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| 7/12/2010 3:49:51 PM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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i agree
great answers from you all, i was raised when you went on a first date the man pays for it, if you decide to date further then its ok to treat each other, from time to time.maybe im old fashion some morals you never forget, and this is one so many dont have a clue as to how it works.espically the young ones.in any case i dont understand they were raised in the same area i was, how did it get pushed so far back . its like they have no clue, well this is just my opinion. please dont take any of it personal.
hey leave us young bucs alone that's making my sensitive side cry lol kidding
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| 7/12/2010 4:51:31 PM |
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mulligan1031
Lakewood, OH
age: 52
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At the risk of offering another thread topic, I will serve up this thought: I have read a couple of other post here regarding women paying on dates. My experience is that I always pay, regardless of the circumstances. However, after being completely comfortable with a woman and she offers to pay, (3-4 or more dates later), or suggests that she pay "her way", I become a little uncomfortable....It kinda makes me think perhaps she's showing me that she has no interest, other than as friends. . . . .as if sharing finances is the way to keep me in the dreaded "friend zone".
I'm writing about this because I've experienced it. Like she was afraid I would think she "owed" me something. So she would always want to pay, or at least say something like "oh honey, you shouldn't do that". Did she realize I was paying because that's just who I am, and I just happen to be very interested? Or am I just really out of touch with the times?
The end result? I got the sense that she just wasn't "into me", and I moved on.
Yea, dating at 50+ ain't like it used to be.
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| 7/12/2010 5:00:29 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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At the risk of offering another thread topic, I will serve up this thought: I have read a couple of other post here regarding women paying on dates. My experience is that I always pay, regardless of the circumstances. However, after being completely comfortable with a woman and she offers to pay, (3-4 or more dates later), or suggests that she pay "her way", I become a little uncomfortable....It kinda makes me think perhaps she's showing me that she has no interest, other than as friends. . . . .as if sharing finances is the way to keep me in the dreaded "friend zone".
I'm writing about this because I've experienced it. Like she was afraid I would think she "owed" me something. So she would always want to pay, or at least say something like "oh honey, you shouldn't do that". Did she realize I was paying because that's just who I am, and I just happen to be very interested? Or am I just really out of touch with the times?
The end result? I got the sense that she just wasn't "into me", and I moved on.
Yea, dating at 50+ ain't like it used to be.
Good post...I believe you have to talk to each other, let each other know where you stand and why..its probably the only way to come to some sort of balance...actually I think its called communication...
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| 7/12/2010 5:15:14 PM |
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mulligan1031
Lakewood, OH
age: 52
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Good post...I believe you have to talk to each other, let each other know where you stand and why..its probably the only way to come to some sort of balance...actually I think its called communication... |
| 7/12/2010 5:18:28 PM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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That is very interesting mulligan and honestly I never thought about that part, I usually offer to pay because I don't want my date to think I am taking advantage of him, or we have discussed divorce and the support that comes with it and I know it takes a chunk out of his pay. Maybe I should rethink my actions but man I keep thinking of several women that do use guys to get a freebie meal and I just never ever want to fall into that category of woman....what to do what to do
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| 7/12/2010 5:29:28 PM |
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mulligan1031
Lakewood, OH
age: 52
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That is very interesting mulligan and honestly I never thought about that part, I usually offer to pay because I don't want my date to think I am taking advantage of him, or we have discussed divorce and the support that comes with it and I know it takes a chunk out of his pay. Maybe I should rethink my actions but man I keep thinking of several women that do use guys to get a freebie meal and I just never ever want to fall into that category of woman....what to do what to do
And another very valid point goods. How is one to know? My instinct says pay and refuse her offer. After all, if she's truly interested, wouldn't money be a bridge crossed later?
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| 7/12/2010 5:31:38 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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That is very interesting mulligan and honestly I never thought about that part, I usually offer to pay because I don't want my date to think I am taking advantage of him, or we have discussed divorce and the support that comes with it and I know it takes a chunk out of his pay. Maybe I should rethink my actions but man I keep thinking of several women that do use guys to get a freebie meal and I just never ever want to fall into that category of woman....what to do what to do
that's why I would rather keep it simple until we get a feel for each other because I don't want anyone to think I am just looking for a freebie meal, that is soooooooo not who I am
Hey Mulligan, I think we are communicating... and with you money would be a bridge to cross later...ask her what she thinks?
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| 7/12/2010 5:41:53 PM |
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mulligan1031
Lakewood, OH
age: 52
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that's why I would rather keep it simple until we get a feel for each other because I don't want anyone to think I am just looking for a freebie meal, that is soooooooo not who I am
Hey Mulligan, I think we are communicating... and with you money would be a bridge to cross later...ask her what she thinks?
And so we are communicating, aren't we?
Believe it or not, I did ask. Her answer was that she didn't feel like I should pay every time.... If I invite you, I'm paying. That's just never gonna change for me.
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| 7/12/2010 7:00:01 PM |
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smilingbob63
Barberton, OH
age: 46
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At the risk of offering another thread topic, I will serve up this thought: I have read a couple of other post here regarding women paying on dates. My experience is that I always pay, regardless of the circumstances. However, after being completely comfortable with a woman and she offers to pay, (3-4 or more dates later), or suggests that she pay "her way", I become a little uncomfortable....It kinda makes me think perhaps she's showing me that she has no interest, other than as friends. . . . .as if sharing finances is the way to keep me in the dreaded "friend zone".
I'm writing about this because I've experienced it. Like she was afraid I would think she "owed" me something. So she would always want to pay, or at least say something like "oh honey, you shouldn't do that". Did she realize I was paying because that's just who I am, and I just happen to be very interested? Or am I just really out of touch with the times?
The end result? I got the sense that she just wasn't "into me", and I moved on.
Yea, dating at 50+ ain't like it used to be.
WOW...........very well put, I'm jealous...wish I'd have wrote it but couldnt think of how to say it. My hats off to you, Thank You.....my sediments exactly, been there done that. Except the 50+ dating still working on that one 
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| 7/12/2010 7:36:10 PM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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I am glad we have this discussion, it definitely opened my eyes. From now on I will pay more attention because last thing I'd want to do is make it uncomfortable for either of us.
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| 7/12/2010 7:55:22 PM |
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nobs4u
Mansfield, OH
age: 49
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To answer the OP ,no,doesnt bother me a bit! I didnt have money before the economy tanked and I dont have any now!For whatever reason,(just the way I think ),I dont really ask for,in my correspondence with a lady,a DATE,more like a "meeting",THEN we can go on a date ..or not.Public places are the best,I have met a lady at Walmart,at a park in the square,at a McDonalds,(we both agreed it would be a MEETING,not a date,so no financial pressure at all),then we either go to a park nearby,or my place or hers,or I go home( more often than NOT!),and she never speaks to me again!
My reason for a meeting is this,in this day and age MOST of us have to watch our $,so why spend $ ya dont have,(most likely,one or the both of you have to put gas in the car to get to said meeting),on something that may not go beyond a meeting?For some reason,maybe because we talk and agree to these things before we meet,I have always had the most pleasant experiences with the INITIAL meetings.Some ladies I have dated after that,some I have not,their choice and mine,I have found all to be learning experiences,(c'mon you cougars,TEACH me.. and I LOVE to learn new things all you,uh,what's the word for opposite of cougars?Sweet young things? I am VERY equal opportunity!),I learn more about what I want/need in MY life,they learn the same,(that's when they tell me "get lost")and off I go again into the land of the lost!Honestly,I have made some VERY good friends from here,both in person and just phone/e-mail supportand I hope to make more,maybe meet the ever elusive,"ONE"!I would LOVE to be able to attend a 'generic'meeting of people from here I have interacted with,no rhyme or reason ,just a cool mini meet or two,like we did at Bob Evans in Wooster not too long ago,it was REALLY freakin cool,and I loved it!
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| 7/12/2010 8:00:06 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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I also learned from another woman on here that she used to feel like she owed the guy something if he bought her dinner, it felt like a control thing to her, but her date explained to her that men like to do things for women. She learned from him that dinner was a (manly) gesture from him that he wanted to spend some time with her not a means to make her feel obligated. If offered in this respect I can see why a man would be offended if you offer to pay.
Nobs
I think you have the right idea on first meetings...I agree
I would like a meet and greet too but everyone lives up northern ohio and I am way down at the bottom of ohio
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| 7/12/2010 8:06:57 PM |
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tallblueeye69
Cleveland, OH
age: 51
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simply put YES
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| 7/13/2010 1:26:21 AM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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WOW this conversation is getting to deep for my intellectual comprehension look everyone two big words now i'll just fall down and get owie lol
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| 7/13/2010 3:09:21 AM |
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smilingbob63
Barberton, OH
age: 46
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I would like a meet and greet too but everyone lives up northern ohio and I am way down at the bottom of ohio
Nothin wrong with the bottom
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| 7/13/2010 4:40:41 AM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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...pats snides hands...now now darlin don't let big words intimidate you.
I really am glad we are having this discussion, good way to learn from other perspectives.
Yes a meet would be awesome and I for one wouldn't be opposed to drive down yonder to meet ya misfits.
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| 7/13/2010 4:48:21 AM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 50
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I too am at the bottom and all the meet n greets I have heard about all seem to be more than 2 hours away - just a tad too far to go. If anyone puts one together for the Dayton - Cincy area would be awesome.
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| 7/13/2010 4:53:43 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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I would like a meet and greet too but everyone lives up northern ohio and I am way down at the bottom of ohio
Ya I understand way d0wn I'm just past Cincinnati -
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| 7/13/2010 11:50:03 AM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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well maybe we could carpool and meet halfway
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| 7/13/2010 12:17:13 PM |
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scubbydoo4ltr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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A meet an greet who's buyin. just kiddin. Never been to one of those. If it's on a weekend day I'm game.. Can't make a weekday. I can give anyone a ride from my area or pick someone up on the way...
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| 7/13/2010 12:19:52 PM |
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scubbydoo4ltr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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.  know ur right
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| 7/13/2010 1:37:04 PM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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ahmmmm
=========[== zips lips again
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| 7/13/2010 1:43:58 PM |
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lookingforluv84
New London, OH
age: 44
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I would love to go to a meet and great. Make sure if you do let me know. Do we get to ride in the big truck . But on topic here I think the economy has alot to do with everything. Maybe for the date people might stay home and make a nice dinner and rent a movie and then vist or if it has been longer maybe some  might be good.
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| 7/13/2010 2:15:13 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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ahmmmm
=========[== zips lips again
Man it was hard not to comment on that one, wasn't it
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| 7/13/2010 3:13:08 PM |
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scubbydoo4ltr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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Man it was hard not to comment on that one, wasn't it
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| 7/13/2010 3:26:29 PM |
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goods61
Buckhead, GA
age: 49
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ooooooooooooooo nothing scubby....nothing wrong with bottom....or well nevah mind
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| 7/13/2010 3:39:07 PM |
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smilingbob63
Barberton, OH
age: 46
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you go girl aint nothin wrong with the top either..........there I said it
or aint nothin wrong with her bottom
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| 7/13/2010 3:51:11 PM |
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scubbydoo4ltr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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ooooooooooooooo nothing scubby....nothing wrong with bottom....or well nevah mind
======[== zips lips back up
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| 7/13/2010 5:02:57 PM |
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musclecarmania
Franklin, OH
age: 51
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ooooooooooooooo nothing scubby....nothing wrong with bottom....or well nevah mind
======[== zips lips back up
I just got it....
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