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1/27/2008 10:18:21 AM	Custodial accountability?
easygoin68 Crawford, NE age: 39	Is there any state that holds the custodial parent accountable for how child support is spent? My x spent the first check on weekend party and $200 worth of tatoes. I don't have my head in the sand, there are bad people. Most states already have a debit card with hhs. Put the money on the state debit card. Then it can't be spent in the bar. If the childrens best interest are in mind make sure that the money gets to them!
1/28/2008 8:05:15 PM	Custodial accountability?
anniebug Tulsa, OK age: 50	That sounds like a good idea to me. Suggest it to your state legislature.. I don't know of any state that regulates how child support is spent.
1/28/2008 9:16:46 PM	Custodial accountability?
kathrynm Roscommon, MI age: 36	Good luck! All courts care about is justifying their jobs. So why should they care? Yes, I'm bitter, I have my own story. Justice maybe blind, but it sure as hell ain't fair. Document everything you can, prove her unfit and fight for your children.
1/28/2008 11:24:50 PM	Custodial accountability?
easygoin68 Crawford, NE age: 39	My situation has turned out for the better, She's doing a great job now. I did suggest it to my state senator, he didn't want any part of it! I was only asking because I know several people in a worse situation, their lawyers want 4500 to go back to court.
1/28/2008 11:55:06 PM	Custodial accountability?
anniebug Tulsa, OK age: 50	No offense to Lawyers, but that's their game...$$$. Senators and Representatives.... How many votes would they lose if they did support such an action?
1/31/2008 5:03:38 PM	Custodial accountability?
adelinesmother Fremont, NE age: 37	Sounds like a good idea to me. I feel that this was a very good idea for a thread. Gets people thinking.
2/5/2008 4:11:44 PM	Custodial accountability?
jan113 Downingtown, PA age: 51	As long as the kids are not being neglected, ie, food, housing, clothes etc there is not a lot that can be done. If the kids are being neglected that is another story that CAN be dealt with. The support goes towards housing, electric, food, heat and therefore accountabilty would be difficult and not something legislation would even think about getting into.
2/5/2008 5:06:53 PM	Custodial accountability?
easygoin68 Crawford, NE age: 39	I was surprised by the number of replies to this thread. Not 1 guy responded. I did get a lot of direct emails by women that agreed, but didn't want to post. Most seemed to think putting the child support on a debit card was a good idea, because they could show where it went. The ex wouldn't be able to whine about how the money was spent. Thanks to all that responded. We should be able to exchange ideas, without fear of being attacked.
2/6/2008 7:33:07 PM	Custodial accountability?
jayem Hay Springs, NE age: 64	Hi friend! If you put 1500 dollar bills in a paper bag and $500 is from child support, then you reach into the bag and pull out $300 for a weekend fling, did you take child support money from the bag, or was it money from your paycheck? Should a single parent have enough money from wages and child support to have a fling? My ex was receiving child support when we married.
2/6/2008 8:53:36 PM	Custodial accountability?
easygoin68 Crawford, NE age: 39	Hi jayem. My point was, that if the money is for the children shouldn't we make sure it gets to them. Not everyone is responsible. For about 2 yrs my ex was 1 that was not responsible. Besides, the U.S. supreme court ruled that how you spend your money is constitutionally protected free speech.
2/6/2008 9:20:43 PM	Custodial accountability?
jayem Hay Springs, NE age: 64	Should the court appoint a trustee (or custodian) for child support monies? The trustee would only be allowed to give out money for purchases of which the children were the sole beneficiaries.
2/6/2008 9:33:03 PM	Custodial accountability?
easygoin68 Crawford, NE age: 39	hhs already has a debit card for state services. If the noncustodial provides x amount, and the custodial contributes x amount, combine both amounts on the debit card. then it can be used for food, rent, utilities etc. My first child support payment wentfor a weekend party, and $200 worth of tatoes. I asked for a refund, barely escaped with my life!
2/7/2008 7:45:40 PM	Custodial accountability?
gutthans Deland, FL age: 56	Depends...Some courts/states like to follow their procedures, which as you know, do place raw $$$ into potentially irresponsible hands. If it's not set into stone, you can word your divorce in such a way that you can bypass sending money through the Clerk's office, and write checks out directly to (daycare, grocery store, insurance company, etc.). As long as the total equals the required payout, you're golden. It may take a savvy lawyer to do that in your area though...I like Ja's example of money in the bag, BUT he overlooks the simple fact that the choice to splurge is only made possible by the excess money...so his example is faulty even though it seems correct.
2/7/2008 8:13:29 PM	Custodial accountability?
easygoin68 Crawford, NE age: 39	Gutthans, well said. I know of a case where the ex husband won custody, and receives support. He uses that for his fun money. Worst of all he rubs it in her face, goes on weekend trips while she has visitation. And brags about it to her. The way it's administrated disgusts me! [Edited 2/7/2008 8:14:02 PM]
2/7/2008 9:42:11 PM	Custodial accountability?
jayem Hay Springs, NE age: 64	Gutthans, having the non-custodial parent write out the checks for needed services for his children sounds like a good idea. However, my first child support check cost me interest because the State had not sent me the coupons declaring the amount. My lawyer had indicated that was the procedure. I was self-employed at the time. They could not withhold it from may "paycheck." I'm not sure your idea would work in Nebraska. P.S. I am holding a check from the State for one cent overpayment of interst. It is a souvenior (sp?)

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