| 2/7/2008 6:30:31 PM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 40
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I have a story for "ALL" of those, "where are the good/nice guy", questions on this site made by the women. Just recently I started e-mailing with a woman I met on this site. Suddenly I did not hear from her for a short time, recently she sent me an e-mail. In the e-mail she explains how she met a guy on this site and they just started to really communicate, but now suddenly he has been sent to jail. She complains to me she has somehow become responsible for storing his vehicle and personal items and she doesn't understand how she got herself into this situation yet again.  
The only thing I could think of to tell her was that she should go back and read up on some of the posts about this subject and read the responses. In fact, some of her own. Here again, the good guy a woman turns to even on line. I am sure she will stay loyal into almost bankruptcy, this time this nice guy will not go along for the ride. 
Feel free to chime in and comment guys.
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| 2/7/2008 7:55:49 PM |
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420northernbred
Burnsville, NC
age: 32
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Yeah I see alot of what you speak of and how we as men are gonna have to stop posting in our profiles how we are nice down to earth guys and that we have too spice up our profiles because they are saying were all fakes or some shit.
What about when a gal writes in her profile no games or drama, then BAM soon after you start emailing em start playing mind games and creating drama I dont understand.
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| 2/8/2008 4:24:27 PM |
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liferator
Statesville, NC
age: 27
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good for you stay out of it we get suckered into this shit all the time I thing we might all be better of to forget about finding women to ruin our lives and be single scince I have done this I have been much happier however I still miss the compaionship so it might not be pratical to stay single forever what do we do
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| 2/9/2008 7:41:35 AM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 40
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I understand what you are saying. At 27 I felt the same way, as if I had forever to change my relationship status. I am telling you now at 40, I regret letting some of the women in my life go. I was always very fit, athletic, out going and had for the most part my pick of the ladies. Now after 24 years of heavy labor jobs, knee surgery, back surgery, another recent back injury, a lack of mobility and excess weight(which feels like I'll never get rid of)I regret choosing to be alone and/or play the field. I am hopeful my condition will soon change and I will try everything I can to make it happen, but things would be much easier with someone to help motivate me and to turn to on those bad days.
The bottom line is if you have someone decent near you, give her another look. Take it from a lonely older guy who knows, you may regret later in life for letting her go. Given a choice between a free shiny coin and one that is a bit tarnished, most will choose the shiny one. Get while the getting is good, but do not settle.
Good Luck. 
[Edited 2/9/2008 7:43:57 AM]
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| 2/9/2008 8:25:19 AM |
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liferator
Statesville, NC
age: 27
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thanks for the advice I will heeed it well I have thought the same thing before so thanks for conferming it
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| 2/13/2008 7:46:18 AM |
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piedmontdad
Cherryville, NC
age: 49
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Hey Grizz I know of whom you speak. I stopped e-mailing her for the same reason. Have learned quickly that what is written is not always true. I must admit though i have met some wonderful women here and am in fact going to spend tomorrow with one. I understand what you mean as we age but still hold out hope for the future.
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| 2/13/2008 9:21:35 AM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 40
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Thanks for sharing, nice to know I'm not alone. Best of luck and wishes for your meating. 
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| 2/15/2008 7:39:36 AM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 40
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I mean, meeting....
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| 2/24/2008 6:17:05 AM |
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jimmy61
Titusville, FL
age: 46
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Interesting topic, grizz, makes you think for darn sure.
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| 2/26/2008 1:25:31 AM |
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bamaboy1986
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 22
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All I gotta say on this is women get bored easily early on but complain when they pay the consequences of being with an adventerous badboy. "I want a nice, down to earth guy who likes to go out and have adventure but also knows how to just be at home with me ." and then we give them that or they don't give us a chance to get that far and they start becoming distant OR WAIT I LOVE THIS ONE "I want a guy who is funny but knows how/when to be serious."
I am on the threshold of turning off the nice guy .
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| 2/26/2008 9:04:51 AM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 40
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I feel your pain bam, but be true to yourself. In the end the only person you have to impress, be honest to and live with is the guy in the mirror.
Good luck........"nice guy". 
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| 2/26/2008 11:19:33 AM |
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bamaboy1986
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 22
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Haha thanks grizz. Your right on about that
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| 2/27/2008 5:40:13 PM |
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midnight2005
Clarksburg, WV
age: 37
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women want the "bad boy" and want to tame him. They say they want a good guy who will kiss their ass, but they go for the opposite because you want what you cant have. She got what she deserved, let her go bankrupt and when he gets out she will see. Take my advice dont play the game, be nice but not too nice, be charming but keep them at a distance. If you are too easy they will lose interest. They want a challenge.
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| 2/27/2008 10:08:08 PM |
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lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 41
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Grizz, I so often so those "where are the nice guy" posts, but the story you tell about the woman you know - while maybe a bit out of the ordinary -- is far more typical. I am thoroughly convinced women enjoy being treated like shit. The nicer you are, the more distant they become. The nastier you are, the more they chase you. I laugh when I see the "Where are the nice guy" threads. Chances are good they knew one close to them and shit all over him.
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| 3/5/2008 10:39:59 AM |
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dobid
Mattoon, IL
age: 53
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i think u shoulda just not let her hear from u for a long while.lol
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