dondiamond
Saint Louis, MO
age: 18
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OKAY WHEN YOU GET ON THIS SHIT AND YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU REALLY LIKE HOW DO YOU KNOW IF ITS SAFE TO GO MEET THEM? THERE IS ALOT OF CRAZY  PEOPLE IN THE WORLD...ITS ON THE NEWS ALL THE TIME. I KNOW IM YOUNG BUT THANKS TO THIS WEBSITE I FOUND MY LOVE TIM...THE ONLY PROBLEM IS WHEN YOU DO FIND LOVE ON HERE....MOST OF THE TIME...THEY ALL THE WAY ACROSS THE DAMN COUNTRY...THE BEST THING YOU EVER MET...SO HOW DO I GIVE UP MY LIFE AND GO LIVE WITH HIM? ESP. WHE TRUST IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS IS A BIG FACTOR IT ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE HOW DO YOU BALANCE THAT OUT....AND IF YOU FIND SOME ONE ON HERE WHATS THE NEED FOR A PAGE STILL...THE ONLY REASON TO HAVE A PAGE IS IF YOUR STILL LOOKING...AM I RIGHT?????
>>>> DON DIAMOND'S CONFUSED????
[Edited 2/25/2008 11:41:23 PM]
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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Well, first of all, I personally don't believe in 'soulmates'. I think we are all compatible with more than one single person somewhere on the globe.
Can you keep looking until you find someone closer to where you live? Meet for sure, a few times, before you move across the country, unless you planned to move anyway. Meet his friends, family, as that gives you more of a picture of him. People tend to hang with like-minded people. As far as going for that first meet - yes, very scary. I haven't done it, so only thinking here what would I do: probably same as I would in my own city - meet only in public places, stay at a hotel (by yourself), ask for i.d.
Some people are on here for the forums, or web-friends. I think they could maintain a page, and explain that they are in a relationship, and not looking for that special someone.
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heraldsunshine
Huntersville, NC
age: 47
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Diamond - get a cheap long distance plan. There are some where you pay a flat rate and can talk all you want. Then, talk. Get to know him. Know how he behaves in various situations by talking. I traveled over 2500 miles in '98 to meet a man I ended up moving to be with. If you look at some of my other posts you will see a story about waking up the first day I was there to the sound of him sharpening a knife but I had no fear -- because of the amount of time we had talked. Look for inconsistencies between his words and actions - those are most telling. Do NOT be in a hurry. If the physical urges are driving you use phone sex to tide you over until you are totally comfortable. Let him come to you the first time - meet you on your territory. That is safer for you. Give other people his information before you meet, meet in public, take a friend. I have met a few men recently who have flown to see me. You're not old enough for a CCW but you could have mace and your cell phone set to 911. Be aware you cannot carry mace onto a plane in your carryon. Talk to his friends. Good luck.
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dondiamond
Saint Louis, MO
age: 18
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Okai, so it's not about Tim anymore same situation different person his name is Lance we have been on AND OFF SINCE MID 2007 AND WE ARE PLANNING ON GETTIN MARRIED SO THINGS ARE GOING GOOD.. IT DID HURT ME WHEN THINGS WITH ME AND TIM DIDNT WORK OUT BUT HEY THINGS HAPPEND FOR A REASON SO IM GOOD
THANK YOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT
LOVE,
DON DIAMOND
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healthologist
Page, AZ
age: 60
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Diamond,
I hope your "planning" to get married includes enough time to get to know each other (1-5 years).
I get the feeling that you're jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend because "You want to be married" which is a recipe for disaster. JMO
This really belongs in another Group.
Les
[Edited 3/5/2008 8:55:18 AM]
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kyuubi9
Bloomington, IL
age: 31
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Hey u 2 young why u want sum ankle bitters just 4 he can leave u 4 the next hot thing by the way how u know everything iz 100 with guy iz that him r his brother n the pic i mean going on over there u 2 hot 4 that & why u on this site anyway REAL TALK you want a man off this site have a NO PHOTO & let see will they hear you Honestly I WANT
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