  
                happens 
                Lake Junaluska, NC 
                age: 45 
                
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                Are there any women on here that really want to meet a nice guy...or what is going on...I dont understand...no replies to e mails...and I think winks are kind of rude...surely Im not that ugly..Im a nice guy and I try not to be rude...not asking anyone to hurry over and jump in my bed....just want to meet someone...what am I doing wrong... 
                
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                sandelle 
                Lexington, NC 
                age: 66 
                
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                I don't know the answers but didn't want you to feel that your post fell on deaf ears! You're a lot younger than me and have lots of time to find a special someone. Hang in there and think positive. I'll bet it'll happen when you least expect it. 
                 
                People who don't acknowledge winks or e-mails have no class and you don't need them in your life. 
                
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                countrylady52 
                Lenoir, NC 
                age: 52 
                
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                hey I think there is a lot ladies trying to 
                find a nice guy.no you are not ugly,just hang in 
                there.you heard the saying good things come to the 
                one who waits.good luck. 
                
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                goldangel 
                Hickory, NC 
                age: 55 online now! 
                
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                Welcome Happens   go to the groups and fine your age group and jump 
                 
                in and read and post on threads that how people see you.  
                
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                soulmate754 
                Forest City, NC 
                age: 53 online now! 
                
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                Happens, you DO seem to be a nice guy. Since you asked what you are doing wrong, So, I'll add my opinion. The "one more time, thing " with your ex doesn't make it look like you are emotionally ready for a relationship. Would YOU want to date a woman who just had one a one more time thing with HER ex ? 
                I also got the impression that you were describing yourself as a victim. You seem to be a Giving Man... but don't give too much of yourself away, to the point where you are empty. Confidence goes a LONG way. A long time ago, a friend of mine asked me" Isn't it time that you found someone who loves you more than you love them ?" I do wish you the very best! Joel 
                
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                sandelle 
                Lexington, NC 
                age: 66 
                
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                Good advice, Joe!! Your helpful hints sound better coming from a man than a woman! 
                 
                  
                
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                countrylady52 
                Lenoir, NC 
                age: 52 
                
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                soulmate you hit right. 
                
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