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3/27/2008 9:56:41 AM |
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gruntster1949
Mountain View, AR
age: 58
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Most of the folks on here looking for a mate or partner, have had a mate or partner before.The memories of old hurts may sabotage a new relationship.Any of you had to deal with this.?What can you do to fix yourself?
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3/27/2008 3:19:26 PM |
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buffalogirl1961
Yellville, AR
age: 46
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The best thing to do is talk about the old hurts- work them out with someone you trust. A good friend who can listen and not judge is the best way to work out hurts old and new.
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3/27/2008 4:05:53 PM |
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katrina_sq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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I have just been trying to let it go and move forward, but in the beginning, having the support of my kids, best friend and favorite aunt really helped. My ex and I had been distant for years, and I had lots of support during that time, so by the time we divorced, I was pretty much ok with it. Just try to remember that each person is an individual, and while many women have the same general traits, we are all different and special. I know the types of things I want in a man, and not to be negative, but much of those are based on needs I had that my ex didn't meet, but I still try to be positive. I know that there are all kinds of men out there with all kinds of goals and needs, so the right one for me is out there somewhere. The same goes for women. I'm sure you will find one for you.
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3/27/2008 6:17:54 PM |
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lovesflowers2
Fort Smith, AR
age: 46
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At the age we are now, we all have some sort of baggage...it's just a matter as do we let the baggage control us or do we control it? No one has had a "perfect" life except for Christ to my knowledge...we all seem to think so. I look at divorce as a "do over" so let's put the baggage up in the attic and not bring it back down...the past always looks better when we're not in it...someone once told me that...and it's true.
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3/29/2008 6:30:26 AM |
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chuck1890
Benton, AR
age: 38
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Lord I wouldn't know where to start. With one divorce in the books and another getting inked as we speak, I'd say I have my fair share of baggage. I have some drama to deal with also. I'm finding it hard to even find people on various other dating site to even want to talk to me, much less get to know me. My best luck at making friends on the sites has been cam models or people stranded in Africa who need my money to get home or my bank account numbers to wire me some large amount of money to "hold" for them cuz they don't have a stateside account. Needless to say I burn those bridges quickly. I'm not on these sites to find my next wife, my next ex-wife or even my next girlfriend. I'm here to meet people close by that are willing to just take a chance at meeting someone who is basically a good person that's looking to make a new start. People that I can call up and invite over to just hang outor meet up with and go see a movie or catch a show at a comedy club and just share a few harmless drinks. You know...A friend. Someone to do what friends do together. When My wife and I split in December, I not only split from her but also from the friends that she had picked for me out of the kindness of her heart. So to answer the question, YES...It certainly appears that my baggage is weighing me down. I'd hang out with my 23 year old partner from work but I'm not into going out a getting tore up drunk and taking home any ole gal that is willing to spread 'em for me. I gave those days up about 17 years ago when the bar tabs began to exceed $400 a night and I never knew the name of who I woke up next to. I'm just not the same person I was then. These days I'm a home body who works and comes home and spends my weekends off with the kids and is looking for a new Church to call home. Sure I miss going out and having a few beers and enjoying a good band or whatever and would love to do that much of it again but I refuse to do it alone. So if there are any guys or gals that just want a new friend to hang out and be yourself with, let me know cuz I'm all for it. For the gals, if that friendship morphs into more, fantastic but if not, I'm ok with that too cuz that's really all I want right now. HOLY CRAP....I just noticed how long this post was. I'm sorry I went on and on like that. I'll shut up now
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4/1/2008 6:38:24 PM |
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bits2b
Bremen, AL
age: 58
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yes, like you say most people do carry around baggage from past relationship's..I did... for about a year,if you do'nt want to go thru concelling, you learn to forgive,let go.and you will be suprized ,how fast it'll go away.you only hurt yourself,when you hold on to old hurts old feeling,and anger.......forgive,and it will be fixed
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4/3/2008 2:40:34 PM |
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drlnlpn1947
Republic, MO
age: 60
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I have baggage galore, but it isn't what happened to you in the past it is what are you going to do with it. I refuse to let it drag me down.
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