| 4/27/2008 2:36:49 AM |
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musiclover3333
Mortons Gap, KY
age: 31
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How about some dating advise for the guys from the women on this site. Like for guys like me. The nice guy. The guy that I read a lot about on some of your profiles but surprise surprise doesn't seem to actually be the type of guy you want. hmmmmmm?.... Anyway, give us your advise on things like getting to know women and dating and stuff like that because honestly I suck at it.
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| 4/27/2008 2:43:11 AM |
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sandiman
Louisville, KY
age: 41
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Honestly something that might help you is to put a picture up..Also fill in your profile (likes and don't likes)...That would help you a whole lot...
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| 4/27/2008 2:54:43 AM |
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musiclover3333
Mortons Gap, KY
age: 31
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I'm not talking about my profile. I'll probably never meet anyone on here anyway.
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| 4/27/2008 1:30:11 PM |
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prissychrissy
Flemingsburg, KY
age: 30
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The main thing that i look for when im in a relationship is RESPECT! As long as you and your partner keep respecting each others opion then a relationship should work.
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| 4/27/2008 10:24:57 PM |
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scorpion1975
Leitchfield, KY
age: 32
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okay I have to side with the original poster here....nice guys seldomly find a girl. I am here to mainly make new friends but would love to find someone to date. I am a true gentleman, I respect women and show them the best time possible yet nobody wants to give me a second look once they see my pic. Local ladies seem to want nothing to do with me after a few days and I don't understand it. I open doors, buy dinner, go to a movie, talk with them, drop them off then do it all over again if they want. I even sit in the park and talk or take a walk and talk....am I not being forward enough??? I have been told that by some of my friends...that I should be more forward with women but that is really not me so what should I do???
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| 4/29/2008 8:13:44 PM |
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lachtna
Louisville, KY
age: 46
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I know exactly what you are talking about scorpion, nice GIRLS seldom find a guy either. I respect them, am honest with them, treat them nice and for nothing....IF they decide to bite, which they haven't in over 9 years now.
Be honest, be respectful and it helps to have a sense of humor.
Hang in there and here's hoping we ALL find someone to make our toes curl 
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| 4/29/2008 8:21:42 PM |
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kychick
Corbin, KY
age: 56
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I don't know what other women want, myself I want someone that makes me feel special and doesn't talk about his ex's. a man should listen to a woman and find out little things that mean a lot to her. And before you ask I do try to treat a man the same
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| 5/2/2008 6:49:29 PM |
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jaynissan
Irvine, KY
age: 22
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nice guys finish last, if you're what the girls father always told her to look for, she'll feel bored and feel like she has settled, thats why girls like bad boys, and then maybe, MAYBE when they're like 40 they'll want to settle down, cuz they've already had there fun for a lifetime, but just remember you cant turn a ho into a housewife either
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| 5/3/2008 4:23:23 AM |
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exvagabond
Lexington, KY
age: 61
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You're not kidding us? OK, then: Write your profile. Insert a pic.
If you presume the girls are all bent on self-destruction, and you don't even let them know you exist, then you have a little self-fulfilling prophesy.
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| 5/8/2008 7:41:18 PM |
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mlyon83
Fort Campbell, KY
age: 24
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- As the lady above said, respect. It's everything.
- Sense of humor/personality. Let your personality shine. Don't be afraid when on a date.
- Goals (ones that you're actively pursuing).
- Job (and one that you've had for at least a while. Just starting a job at Wal-Mart at the age of 25 or something isn't exactly appealing nor attractive).
- Car (which runs and she feels safe stepping into). You might wanna pick up your fast-food wrappers and condoms. It's not very appealing.
- Nice teeth & clean shoes.
- Good hygiene at all times. Wash your armpits and the crack of your ass.
- Most importantly: be yourself, not a f**cking tool.
Truth is, in my experience, women want a guy who is true to himself and isn't a tool. They want a guy who completely adores, respects, and enjoys being with them; their best friend. You need to figure out what it is you want out of women and dating before anything, then plan things out from there.
Most of all, if a woman likes you, she's going to make several attempts to let you know. And if a woman wants to be with you, you won't have to try. It's the truth. Less game, more inner game. And if you're feeling down or want more experience, then start dating more often. Men who seek less validation from women become better with women. Plus it never hurts for social experience.
P.S. If you don't like something about yourself, THEN CHANGE IT. As long as you make a continual effort to improve, that by itself is attractive. And don't worry too much about your physical looks. Some of the greatest seducers of all time are the ugliest people.
Good luck.
[Edited 5/8/2008 7:52:40 PM]
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| 5/13/2008 12:56:09 PM |
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letsrideuanme
Nicholasville, KY
age: 56
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ok what next.. I went out with a nice lady I talked to on here ....I injoyed every second with her ...can't say anything bad about her...When I first talked on the phone with her I think there was a miss understanding....I'll take the blame it didn't come up until after we had gone out twice...She seem to have liked me... now I don't know if she was just trying to be nice or didn't like me at all....I sure would like another chance...she said I was pushy ..not the way you think...I treated her like a gentelman should at least I thought I did....so do you think I should have another chance.....
SOMEBODY HELP ME
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| 5/16/2008 8:11:26 AM |
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sweetnessb
Stinnett, KY
age: 34
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i like alot of attention and i dont like it when u talk about your ex all the time even if it is bad.and take her to a place where ther is alot of people around until SHE fells she knows u well enogh to go somewhere private and dont try anything until she feels comfortable which will proabably bee the same time wehen u can go some where private.and dont be touchy felly in public thats very disrespectful of her and the other people around u and dont breck out the pornography thinking that is romantic or sexy IT IS NOT WOMEN DONT LIKE THAT. and dont get jealous when a man smiles at her or says hello
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| 5/21/2008 9:31:37 PM |
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deeredr58
Henderson, KY
age: 50
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sweetnessb, thank you, as i know this hard to do, mikie
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| 5/22/2008 4:08:40 AM |
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moedaddy
Fancy Farm, KY
age: 47
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sweetness, was that "first date" advice or what? every woman is different. some like holding hands on a first date and some dont. some dont think its wrong for them to get a look while they are out with you but dont want you giving looks to someone else. its all about being a individual and getting to know someone well enough before the first date, so neither of you screw up real bad, or feel awkward either.
i understand the things you mentioned but they are not all true for everybody. those are things specific to you and mabe a lot more, but definetly not the rule.
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| 5/22/2008 11:44:03 AM |
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sunny_08
Paintsville, KY
age: 60
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Mylon83,
I am 60 y/o woman and you gave some of the best advise, especially for a young man your age, I've hear a man say in many years. You spoke one man to another. Very well put..Kudos..
Sunny....
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