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Single Men Tempe, Arizona, AZ, Salt and Pepper Gray Hair, Hazel Eyes
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 Location: Tempe Arizona
 Zip Code: 85282
 Age: 52, Capricorn
 Height: 5 ft. 10 in.
 Hair, Eyes: Salt and Pepper Gray, Hazel
 Body Type: A few extra pounds
 Ethnicity: White
 Religion: Not Religious
 Politics: Liberal
 Education: Some College
 Income: Didn't Say
 Job: Other
 Drink: Drink Socially
 Smoke: Don't Smoke
 Status: Divorced
 Have Kids: No
 Want Kids: No

Personality
Hiya;
I'm not really looking for a "relationship", just yet. Maybe in a few months-- depends on how the emotional stalagmites shape up.

Guess for now I'm mostly just here for the chats, and maybe to find an e-mail kindrepal or two. Sort of getting my feet wet before leaping back into those deep, scary emotional waters, so to speak.

***Recent Edit -- OK, I have heard from a lot of galpals, and have almost more e-mailing than I can deal with.... so unless you've read the whole profile and still think we've got a lot in common, you might not want to waste your time, 'k? (If'n ya just clicked the pic, then make it quick, Slick)***

It should be said that I recently had my heart shattered... {sigh}

(some quick advice-- never marry a flaky, selfish, and amoral artist!)

...and it will be awhile before I can be very rational about who & what I'm looking for, let alone what I may have to offer.

I have tried the "rebound lover" route in the past, and found that it's just not fair for either person. And, yes... I've had enough sex in my life to know that I can afford to wait for the right partner (for those of you who still believe that sex is all that a man really wants)(sheeesh).

So, meanwhile:

I am an intelligent, musical, witty, irreverent yet sentimental, loyal, eclectic, creative and messy capricorn. The gals say I'm cute and "devilishly handsome", but currently I think I could stand to lose about 20 lbs (I've just joined a gym).

INFP (but close to INFJ), well-read (mostly fiction, humor & satire), politically tolerant (on the liberal side of Libertarian), spiritually aware and open-minded (but with a VERY healthy skepticism toward anyone who's "sure" they know what's right for everyone else), well-travelled (but sorta burned out on that), computer literate (jaded about that, too), vegetarian (not a fanatic), monogamous (very), sort of a hippie at heart, but also a US Navy vet and a corporate refugee, so I can usually fit in where needed. And um, lessee, what else......?

Movie-loving (almost anything with a reasonably intelligent plot and decent acting), Pro-USA (but thoroughly disgusted with the current administration), forest-hugging (we've gotta get our oxygen from somewhere), non-smoking (ditto), animal-oriented (especially doggies), sexual (to a healthy degree), currently bearded (just a phase-- shaving is so tedious without good cause), outgoing when comfortable (ingoing by nature), art-loving (yes, even in spite of the ex), not into pro sports (they're rich enough without my help), hiking-friendly (no alpine expeditions, just day trips), organized yet cluttered (hey, I know where everything's at... no, really.... *clatter**crash**clang*... just a sec...), too emotional for my own good (sob, sniff), too intellectual for my own good (indubitably), (no, the previous two are NOT mutually exclusive, unfortunately).

Reasonably fit (I walk a lot), have some of the usual hypocritical social biases regarding physical appearance & intelligence of a potential lover/mate (but can be friends with almost anyone), NOT a morning person (can be if needed, but definitely prefer the wee hours), reasonably tall (not 6’, but over average), casual dresser, easy-going, not too smelly, somewhat far-sighted, caucasian, blood type 0+, hazel-eyed, non-tattooed, large-footed..... {gasp} {pant} {coff}

Well, that sure oughta be enough to keep a few good conversations going, non? Give me a bleep if you're so inclined, and let’s yak.....

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P.S. I don't always get around to checking the ol' mailbag every day, so there might be a bit of delay.

P.P.S. Still looking for a more current picture. I grew up in a "stand over there and say cheese" family, so I tend to resist photo-ops unless they are absolutely necessary (or sprung unsuspectedly by "trusted" fiends, I mean friends)
Not to worry. the pix presented are about 5 yrs old (except the baby shot, natch), but the only major differences are that the jowls are a bit wider (and hairier, see above), and the hair is definitely grayer (divorce will do that to you). The diastematic grin remains intact.....

Personality Type: Strong Silent Type
Want To Find: A woman ages 35 to 54 to date
I Party: Not very often
Interests:
I Like:
almost anything progressive, animation, Beatles, Beethoven, Bloom County, bush-bashing, Calvin & Hobbes, Carnivale, comedy, dawgs, Dead Can Dance, Debussy, did I mention dawgs?, Dilbert, Doonesbury, Douglas Adams, ecology, fiction, fruit pies, Georgia Kelly, Grieg, hiking, hypocrisy-bashing, iconoclasm, Indian Food, Janis Joplin, Joni Mitchell, karma, Kate Bush, kewl movies, Linda Ellerbee, Mike Oldfield, more dawgs, music composition, music listening, music performance, new concepts, oobleck, orgasm, oxygen, philosophy, PIZZA, Pogo, religion-baiting, Rennaissance, Replicants, sarcasm, Shadowfax, Silly Wizard, Stewart/Maher/Colbert, Stravinsky, Talking Heads, The Bothy Band, Tolkien, Tom Robbins, used bookstores, Vangelis, Vonnegut, yet more dawgs, Zappa
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Geez, what a dweeb....
My best buddy...
My best angle. Probably my best mood, too. Pretty much the last time I wasn't even slightly cynical.