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Giving space builds attraction
by rdeffley at 5/25/2013 4:15:43 PM


A key element of building attraction is actually giving someone space to miss you and see the value you bring. The problem is that so many people feel the need to text or call every day or even multiple times a day. If a day or two goes by without hearing from her they freak out and start blowing up her phone.

I think in the beginning especially if a woman is talking to/dating multiple guys you need to allow her the space to make her own decisions. If you are confident and know how to interact with women, the screw ups the other guys make only add value to you in her eyes. But if you are always contacting her and not giving her time to reflect on how she feels, you actually drive her away.


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marie11987



5/25/2013 4:53:20 PM

Very True!!
water228



5/25/2013 6:07:20 PM

Totally agree, I do not need someone 24 hrs attached to me!!