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Momma didnt tell me by mspookie1967 at 6/6/2014 10:33:21 AM There was gonna be days like this!!!!! I've come to accept that I just might be single for the duration! As attractive as I feel im bottom of the dating pool because Im BLK, over 40, alil over weight, wear my hair naturally and have been single bout 3yrs (wont settle) I'm have my own n thought being independent was good for attracting someone decent without too much drama.

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acengage	6/6/2014 10:36:01 AM Forget what other people think! If you aren't happy with your lifestyle- change it! I always enjoy watching the progress of those who choose to adopt to a healthy lifestyle and stick with it for an extended period of time.
yaavoiceinabox online now!	6/6/2014 10:38:13 AM Well your beautiful that's for sure Being a strong woman (as am I), has its set backs for sure. Def don't settle, but just make sure your not tooooo picky either. Sometimes I've found myself doing it and not realizing it.
elvissong	6/6/2014 10:41:52 AM Your smoking hot - go have fun
tspofhugs	6/6/2014 10:53:30 AM Chit now all the rest of the guy's don't stand a chance, now that your here....
actionmodel	6/6/2014 11:13:11 AM You sound like your picky.But I dont know you from jump so do you think your picky?
2hearts714	6/6/2014 11:19:05 AM Hi Mspookie How are you? Haven't seen you for a while! You are a beautiful woman and don't you forget it! I've missed you here and I'm sure others do to! Just keep on keep on! It will happen! You will see!..Now change your picture so everyone can see how gorgeous you are!..
yaavoiceinabox online now!	6/6/2014 11:28:18 AM No no I didn't mean you wereeeee picky....no not at all..i was thinking of myself when I said that.
mspookie1967	6/6/2014 11:50:40 AM Yes I am lil picky but its hard trying to force something thats not there or give in when a man hasn't worked at all (quality time because I'm a simple woman) for it!!! And I lost then gained 20lbs over this past winter (bad case of winter blues) I appreciate the comments, I just had to get it out of my head.
rose1206	6/6/2014 1:35:44 PM You're a beautiful lady plus strong so that intimidates a lot of guys. It's both a blessing and a curse!
grill2014	6/7/2014 7:27:28 AM Well, I would help if you got rid of that one picture...lol
mspookie1967	6/9/2014 7:16:30 PM I just watched "Disconnected" a 2013 movie with Jason bateman. The power of the internet!!!! From bullying to users to serial daters and being involved with scammers!!!! Sending and receiving pics or attach messages is so dangerous now. I'm afraid this cyber word is a bit too scarey for me.
artist820	6/10/2014 6:09:08 PM You know I was just gonna say that people shouldn't say you are picky. You are just making good choices. From what I've seen you are in good shape. I, on the other hand have been rushed by my biological clock. Don't do that either. Enjoy your single life.
mspookie1967	6/10/2014 7:18:42 PM Tnx @artist, I won't settle for what ever comes.
blackie4u79	6/10/2014 8:23:25 PM Your not picky at all some men feel if there lady or wife makes more money than them it kinda hurts there feels or if they see a woman that's has her own they run tha other way and rin into something that ain't about sh- - I guess that's life but anyways you are a beautiful and pretty young lady even tho I'm 34 years old I know a good woman when I see one and tha weight thing everybody picks up and drops weight I'm just saying
mspookie1967	6/12/2014 8:59:08 AM Tnx black, today's my bday and Im not tripping today!!!