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Why are men such creeps? by 1sthelpmate at 10/11/2014 4:38:13 PM I read all profiles before I contact anyone. Most say the same thing. They are looking for a decent woman and know how to treat a lady like a lady. But let me tell you, opening doors and being polite is not the only way to treat a woman like a lady. Why would anyone who professes to be a gentleman and know how to treat a woman with respect start a conversation with crude sexual remarks before getting to know if that particular lady even talks like that to any man let alone one she has yet to meet?

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luv4dance58	10/11/2014 5:39:44 PM Not all guys r like that Some guys like normal conversation Just keep trying
totorey	10/11/2014 5:44:56 PM same here
shezakeeper_2	10/11/2014 5:45:57 PM I copy the first paragraph of a profile and put it in the search field of a browser ... and search. Sometimes it will return multiple dating sites with the same information and sometimes it will come up in a females profile. It is a shame that a few .... ok a LOT of guys give the good guys a bad rap. Try not to let the bad guys get to you and move on. Don't let them steal your positive energy or joy.
elvissong	10/11/2014 5:46:39 PM Hey - not all ladies know how to be ladies - remember asking a woman a question that was appropriate and she started cussing at me. Then then she emailed me cussing - woman tweaked in the head
earldirt	10/11/2014 5:48:33 PM I asked a young lady friend on here about that,her opinion on the younger guys doing that was that they think being crude is perfectly acceptable to the women...
karenlicious	10/11/2014 6:49:55 PM And to a lot of the younger women, for some reason, it is acceptable. Not to is who are a few years older and have a little more self respect.
karenlicious	10/11/2014 6:50:15 PM *us
1sthelpmate online now!	10/11/2014 7:06:34 PM Well thanks for all your input on this matter. I was brought up it was rude for a man to ask a woman her age or her weight yet that is the first thing I was asked in person by a man who was my age and should have known better. The age is not rude in my opinion since some people don't look or act their age. However I still say asking weight is rude. Man or woman. But that is just the tamer things I have been dealing with and not just from younger men either. I am fairly new to the dating world since I had my first date at the ripe old age of 39 but still I am sure those women who have been dating much longer would appreciate a man much better if he waited until he had actually had some indication from her that she would enjoy that type of talk.
earldirt	10/11/2014 7:25:26 PM I would hope that ANY! woman would be offended by such blatant disrespect. Even though I suppose some younger women do accept it as just the way things are today and just shake it off ..
001snatch	10/11/2014 10:31:09 PM Online dating is just completely full of disrespect, I think it comes with the territory.
articiceblue	10/12/2014 1:57:31 AM I see no reason to ask about her weight when she is standing in front of you. If you like what you see, then go for it. If you don't like what you see, then what does it matter how much she weights? The age thing will come up at some point. That is unless she show's up with a walker.
bisdart	10/12/2014 12:06:49 PM If you have issues with this site not all of us are that way consider me for a meet and greet treating women a certain way is wrong give them respect and admiration and equals that how it should be always so guys are looking for a piece of a** if something like that happens making love is the only answer my friend bisdart
countryman12in	10/13/2014 12:21:42 AM Not all guys are like that being disrepectful there are women out there to that is the same way... Respect others as you would want to be Respected
countryman12in	10/13/2014 4:12:55 AM It doesnt matter how old she or what they look like its what on the inside that counts the most