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The reason why .... by blachardfun at 12/28/2014 5:20:37 PM In my openion the reason why women and men have such a hard time finding love is all the thing most ppl find attractive about a person have nothing to do with love ..your body ..your money , car , house , job and so much more is what's keeping you from happiness ..no one looks at how ppl present theirselves how they care themselves and how they think . If the first thing a man says to you is you got a nice body or a woman say you got a nice car where you work , it's nothing there but sex if that ..see me I find it better to check out the mind 1st I like to know what I'm getting in to I try to get in to your eyes and see your soul that way I know who and what you are . Yes I have a nice body and I may be sexy but That's not me it my shell now if you take the time to see past that you will see I'm a hard worker a good father I take care of self and family I take care of health and most of all I know that we can't do anything right without God .. My money my body and my looks what I got is all just a bonus for taking the time in seeing the true me ....it's skin deep what you see on the outside will keep you blind to what's real .....and that what I think

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persononwindow	12/28/2014 5:28:29 PM How someone presents themself is important and whether they have a shirt on is too,, jmo
ohrightthere	12/28/2014 5:30:44 PM ^^^^^^
blachardfun	12/28/2014 5:35:03 PM Yo I live life without a shirt I live in the gym that's what I do I'm a trainer and a fitness model so I don't have many pics with one I'm all ways on the job and if you had cuts like I do you would have one on either so that's jmo
persononwindow	12/28/2014 5:38:45 PM I was a professional model in my young days,, But I still wore a shirt and pants,,,,
blachardfun	12/28/2014 5:40:28 PM You can try your best to insult me but guess what it won't sink in I'm use to hate ....and why do a man cares if I got a shirt on ...that puzzling to me ....
persononwindow	12/28/2014 5:41:12 PM Of course I was selling the clothes,,
blachardfun	12/28/2014 5:43:33 PM Your young days what's that ac or bc ....bro worry about you ya digg ...I'm good
persononwindow	12/28/2014 5:46:02 PM Bout 30years ago
persononwindow	12/28/2014 5:52:16 PM As a teacher too,, The first 2 things I taught was how to walk and how to talk,.Then the clothes,, Then how to present themselves,, The last one being the most important,,,,Good luck to you,,,,
thepatriot1776	12/28/2014 6:14:37 PM I was a Porn Star.
blachardfun	12/28/2014 6:14:37 PM Worrying about me and my shirt won't help you any so why is it so important to you that I put on a shirt these my pics and you are a man so why look at another mans pics
ezzgoingru	12/28/2014 6:17:13 PM
persononwindow	12/28/2014 6:52:01 PM
geleen217	12/28/2014 8:34:40 PM @ bla well very well said with all honesty ! good luck and ill pray for you to find that nice lady for you ,,
bepetite	12/28/2014 9:07:32 PM Well, I'll tell you what............... OK....... I got nothing!
roxanneuc80	1/21/2015 3:43:35 AM @bla he is only saying that stuff to you in a blog post to receive validation from others about his opinion. You do not need to justify yourself to anyone. A fitness model and a clothes model are two very different things! Your fitness pics look great!! Back to the subject of the blog..... many women b***h about men just wanting sex but put pics up with little clothing on...that is a good way for a woman to ask for validation of her appearance and/or ego.... i dont dress up very often bcuz my current job doesnt allow me to and im not putting on heels to get a gallon of milk lol...i think if you find me attractive in jeans and a hoodie...then im doing good lol... ppl need to start reading the whole book before having an opinion
blachardfun	3/31/2015 10:30:12 AM @rox thanks I know what you saying .....some ppl got so much hate in they blood and they heart I over look a lot ......