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side chicks and side dudes by rushfam at 1/24/2016 1:06:55 AM why do women as well as men who know that they are side pieces in whatever dealings they may have going on with someone always jump out of their position and start wanting more not respecting the game u know what u signed up for from the beginning fair exchange aint no robbery so play ur positions

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mysti011	1/24/2016 2:03:01 AM Could you clarify for me please? " Side chicks or side dudes"? I'm not sure I get your meaning
rushfam	1/24/2016 2:30:39 AM women who have men on the side outside of their relationships and men who have women on the side outside of their relationships the question is pertaining to both male and female
nymphopassion	1/24/2016 2:42:13 AM Three reasons side thing/jumpoffs want more: 1. People want what they can't have. 2. They falling for the part of you they see. 3. Misery loves company (break your relationship cause they don't have one themselves). When when jumpoff plays their position you tend to what to keep them around. So when they stop playing their position they secretly saying that they don't want to be kept. No point in debating. Run! That how I see it. Once they fall in love run!
rushfam	1/24/2016 2:46:36 AM very much so understood!!!
mysti011	1/24/2016 10:22:38 AM I got it pertaining to both thanks for clarifying that. Imo they do for a number of reasons, # 1 being that they are tired of of being seconds. #2 perhaps they are falling in love, and thus want more, oer just tried of being an option an want instead to be a priority. Or just plain not I interested anymore, and that was the the only way they could think to get out of the situation.
cafe_express	1/24/2016 12:52:39 PM Agree with lady above, if they went in knowing you were a player, that is one thing. If these facts were not clear up front, they only have themselves to blame for "giving up the cookie" as Steve Harvey says. Maybe you could hand them Steve's book so they know how the game is played. I still believe in the old fashioned standards. Loose men and women are a dime a dozen. One doesn't have respect for themselves who treat each other like yesterdays news. Who wants them permanent? You will never trust them.
rushfam	1/24/2016 1:43:42 PM absolutely!!
yetskimama	1/25/2016 2:16:21 AM Good morning Mr.cafe you know I agree with you.