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Wicca
by geniuecoyote at 9/11/2010 10:22:30 AM


A friend asked me to explain to her why I chose wicca over all the other religions. This is how I explained it to her......


THE WITCH NEXT DOOR
by Seamus Drew
Nitewrter@[blocked]
Printed with Permission



Do you live next door to a witch? Could be. They’re everywhere. If you met one you wouldn’t know it. They look like you. They act like you. Their kids go to school with yours. They’re just like you except--they’re witches. Don’t be afraid. They mean you no harm. They’re neither concubines of Satan nor practitioners of the black arts. They’re followers of a religion called Wicca.

Wicca is a form of paganism that embraces ancient beliefs and is often referred to as "the Old Religion" or "The Craft." Centuries ago, when Christianity swept Europe, those who clung to the old beliefs were typified as evil. From this came the image of the wicked witch. Those who practice the craft today say that their intention is to "harm none." Wiccans, or witches, worship the earth. They celebrate the changing seasons and revere nature. They believe that man should live in harmony with the earth rather than exploiting it for personal gain.

Wicca, along with other forms of neo-paganism, is on the rise. People around the globe are returning to the old beliefs. What makes this religion so popular? The answers are as varied as the people you ask. Let’s take a look at Wicca.

An Interview with a Witch

Seated atop a small desk behind the counter of the occult shop in Houston, Connie answered my questions between phone calls. Wearing blue jeans and long hair past her shoulders, she was hardly the cackling crone one might expect a witch to be. She spoke in a quiet, easy, manner, pausing while I wrote down her answers.

"Wicca changed my life for the better," she told me. "I’ve learned to love myself. I’ve learned to love the world and other people also. People learn to respect themselves through Wicca. It helps them overcome things like drugs and alcoholism. It’s also used for healing. The purpose of Wicca is to help people."

Connie was introduced to the craft thirteen years ago by her mother-in-law. "Once I started, that was it, I loved it," she said.

She and her fellow witches belong to a "balanced tradition" having both male and female members. "That’s the way it is in nature," she explains.

Wicca doesn’t have denominations like Christian religions. It has traditions. A tradition is a set of beliefs and practices that witches follow. Often these traditions are handed down from generations before, but new traditions crop up frequently. "Our tradition was started by a Houston couple who have since passed on ," Connie says. "It’s similar to the ‘Gardnerian tradition.’ " The Gardnerian tradition has been the model for many neo-wiccan groups.

She pointed out the sign which said, "Anyone under 18 must be accompanied by a parent or guardian. Identification required." She doesn’t want to cause a disturbance in the neighborhood by upsetting parents who may not want their children learning about witchcraft.

"There’s lots of weird people out there. You have to be careful." she warned. " Some times a person will come in here and want to know how to ‘Zap’ somebody. I tell them this isn’t what my religion is about."

"Herbs really do work," she told me. "They’re associated with science now. They didn’t used to be but you’re seeing more and more on TV about herbs. People are learning to benefit from them." Moon Circles, the shop she helps run, carries a large selection of herbs for treating various maladies and maintaining good health.

Connie believes that in the future people will better understand Wiccans and will no longer believe that they are mad or evil. She says that Wiccans and other Pagans are more accepted than they used to be. She told me about a tarot card reader who lay dying in the hospital. A Christian clergyman came by and asked if he could be of assistance. Connie told him that the man was a Pagan. The pastor found a Pagan priest and sent him to the man’s bedside. She said that the U.S. Army, hospitals, and prisons now recognize Wicca as a religion. However, acceptance is far from universal. "Many of us still remain underground," she said. "That’s because of problems with jobs and other things. People have lost their jobs when their religion became known."

She reports that there have been no problems with harassment even though the shop is known as an occult establishment. Other businesses have been plagued with spray painted graffiti but not Moon Circles.


Comments

gothichippy
9/11/2010 10:30:45 AM

I know quite a few people who are Wiccan and they are some of the greatest people I have ever met. They go out of their way to help others.

geniuecoyote
9/11/2010 10:40:29 AM

Yes, we do...Thank you for comments!

miki49
9/11/2010 10:45:15 AM

When a male neighbor told me that he was a wicca witch, it freaked me out. Male witches! I started refering to him as 'sister Spike' after that.

pennylane66
9/11/2010 10:45:39 AM

It's the only religion to me that makes any sense. In this day and age it should be accepted as a wonderful alternative to the dogma and paternalism of the three major religions. Especially on this day, we should think about that, my god is better than yours is all it is. Aside from treating women as 2nd class citizens.

gothichippy
9/11/2010 10:56:42 AM

There are alternatives out there to the standard orginized religions. People just need to be open minded. I always thought it was a good idea for people to check out all that was available to them and then decide what suits them as individuals. I'm a Gothic Hippy & a Buddhist. There are actually some things that Buddhism has in common and shares with Wicca. I believe that some of the alternatives are better because they aren't closed minded, judgemental, or prejudice. But everyone has to choose what's right for them. We just all need to accept each other. We share the same planet.
chazz199



9/11/2010 10:59:00 AM

i've met a few witches,pick them out right away.they made it hard not to notice,but i don't think they were wiccan.interesting, u learn something new everyday...u sound very nice,glad it worked for u.

dancer70
9/11/2010 11:09:09 AM

I'm not sure if this applies, however, there are practicing witches in Salem, Mass. They have interesting stores along the main street. Their leader is Laurie Cabot. She is quite flamboyant....

geniuecoyote
9/11/2010 11:11:44 AM

hmm... Well..We all seem to believe in a higher being, What difference does it make what we referee to as!!!! When I lost my parents and ask Why?? I felt nothing was there and when I was introduced to Wicca, I never felt so loved and accepted as I did with goddess... Been wicca for years and I do believe the three fold theory with all my heart... Thanks for taking the time to read & post>>>

mickwats
9/11/2010 12:44:41 PM

wicca is nothing to be scared of . they have a room just for there wicca herbs . sometimes you will see herbs but there is alot of times you will never see the special room. the best thing to take for anything that ache you . go to a herb store its cheaper and its not man mad .you never know whats is in the man made . but you will always know your herbs.i have been around wiccan for along time . i have a close friend i went to school with is wiccan . but she will never do a reading on me. because she said A we are friends and B you are tussing off alot of good energy.a great thing is when you dream walk from miles from your friends its great .no i am not drunk lol lookin it up one day in the book.coyote have a great day

1becomes2
9/11/2010 12:53:49 PM

My daughter-in-law is Wiccan and she and my son are raising my grandchildren the same. One day my oldest granddaughters' teacher called and told her mother that my granddaughter was telling everyone she was a witch. Her reply.."She is." Would love to see the teachers' face when she told her that.

pretty_moonpa
9/11/2010 1:12:39 PM

My great grandmother would just love Seamus Drew...She was Wiccan from the old Country Ireland..Many traditions have been passed, along with those from my NA and German Heritage...I can remember as a small child my mother taking me into the woods to collect herbs...I never paid much attention....I was too busy dancing with the faeries..Thank you for this blog....

friendly_chuck
9/11/2010 1:32:30 PM

I had an aunt that claimed to be a witch... I loved her dearly, but I don't know anything more about witches or witchcraft than that...

jennyann71
9/11/2010 1:37:23 PM

We have many in the back woods of Arkansas.

geniuecoyote
9/11/2010 2:28:47 PM

A lot of people still think we should either be burned at the stake or stay in the back woods of any where but close to them!... Thank you everyone for posting