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Have you ever said something by jdw72 at 11/25/2010 10:00:52 AM That hurt someone else??? If you have seen my posts, you know that i like to have a good time, flirt, stir up a fuss and am not afraid to state my opinion. If you have happened to visit my profile you will see that I openly state that I am a Christian and trying to follow God's will. Yesterday someone Approached me because of my somewhat direct and not so kind comments in a blog. I want to thank that person for doing it. It made me do a little self evaluation and was a reminder, that if you are a sincere Christian, you need to be careful of what you say and how you say it. I never mean to hurt any one with my posts. I am on the blogs for fun and entertainment. I will try to be more considerate and more "Christlike" in the future. Certainly will not quite flirting and having a good time, but will try to be more considerate of others. Thanks for the eye opener....(you know who you are) And I hope all of you enjoy your Thanksgiving Don't forget Who to thank for it!!!

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katie1736	11/25/2010 10:05:20 AM Awe jdw...we all fall short...the most perfect among us do too!. Yes, we do need to watch what our little mouths say...Don't give an apology for being human! Did you get that popcorn for your bird??? lmao
jdw72	11/25/2010 10:06:52 AM Thanks Katie Waiting for it to open the door right now...Should happen soon!!!
harrybyvick online now!	11/25/2010 10:09:23 AM Well Buddy happens to the best of us as I have fired off a few duds on here that didn't represent me the best.
diamondgem1 online now!	11/25/2010 10:11:00 AM THAT IS THE WAY I AM I CUT UP AND FLIRT AND SOME TIMES WE HURT SOME ONES FEELING SO I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT
ole_trucker	11/25/2010 10:12:30 AM Guilty, guilty, guilty......but SOME of them deserved it, next bus
jdw72	11/25/2010 10:12:40 AM Thanks Harry We all have our moments
dreamflyer online now!	11/25/2010 10:12:56 AM Yup we all say things in fun . some takeit in stride and some it may hurt. we all make mistakes.most of us do not say things to hurt. sometimes it may be taken wrong . We are just human.have a great turkey day.I am sure i have said some really dumb stuff on here.
calildy	11/25/2010 10:23:46 AM Jdw, sometimes know matter how careful we try to be with our words, someone somewhere will get offended, or misread and take it the wrong way. I don't ever take the blogs seriously; and just try to have fun, & laugh. I'm sure the person in question appreciates your apology because it shows what a good person you are. Happy Thanksgiving!
dogfoodman	11/25/2010 10:28:07 AM What the problem is..?????
jdw72	11/25/2010 10:28:19 AM Thanks All for your comments!! now it is "over the river and threw the woods for me See you all later
nickiegirl	11/25/2010 10:34:55 AM Agree with all we are not purfect... so life is to short to let one person make you day go bad. It could have been a bad day for them also. But all in all you did the right thing. Take care
bub049	11/25/2010 10:43:53 AM jdw... it takes a big person to stand up here and admit they made a mistake. congratulations! and we all need to reflect on the fact that the only perfect person to ever walk this earth got hung on a cross. the rest of us all make mistakes. Happy Thanksgiving all from Frostbite Falls, Minne-snow-ta!
pretty_moonpa	11/25/2010 10:51:28 AM Its cool.....we have all done that...sometimes I will go in to check my posts a day after posting and say to myself.......what was I thinking....the fact is..I wasnt.....sometimes its just not what we say but how we say it...I think we all have our bad days ....maybe even days of pain...that we post unkindly....I try to remember that when I see someone posting in a neg manner....not rude and obnoxious are different LOL
iknowstuff	11/25/2010 11:08:24 AM and U can never forget, It's impossible to forget, Only the Big man upstairs can achieve this, and HE said, I will remember no more
macdadyrev online now!	11/25/2010 11:19:43 AM No one is perfect, all we can do is our best. Be true to youself. Sometimes you just dont know what other people are feeling when there bloging. Therefore sometimes not your fault at all. Pie anyone??
djd60	11/25/2010 11:43:04 AM jdw -You are a Stand -up Guy!! for your blog!! you have a great sense of humor -I laugh alot reading things you write, It is some things we say in humor, that may hurt someone and we have all done it! no-ones perfect -but when we realize or it is brought to our attention and then try to change somethings it only makes us better people. Happy Thanksgiving!
mistyeyes67	11/25/2010 12:01:04 PM JDW...happen to all of us.. Moon..I myself have done the same thing... but remember... jus because we are Christian doesn't mean we have to hide, be a door mat or let things go without speaking up.. Just like that blog with the man that wanted to pay ladies to 'pass gas'...(that's a mild way of putting it).. in his mouth.... and we are human.. I'm not perfect....Just Forgiven..
rosesandsmiles	11/25/2010 12:21:02 PM Jdw, been their done that, got way out of line once. Yes me!!!! I apologized and am very reserved with my words now, but I do not question my Christianity
sassyjasaleena	11/25/2010 12:36:13 PM yea its happend to me. i try not to hurt any1's feelings when posting. but dont worry we all make mistakes and we learn from them.
madame58	11/25/2010 12:37:47 PM Whose mouth gets more out of control than mine? Thanks for bringing us all back to what's important...which is sparing the feelings of others and trying to live a Godly life.
karenbunny	11/25/2010 12:59:29 PM Yes, I do it all the time (here and on Facebook). I always feel bad and I always apologize.
jocieanne	11/25/2010 1:20:41 PM jdw. We never want to think anything we say or do will hurt anyone and everyone on here knows how you are but sometimes people take things in a different light. As everyone has said none of us are perfect. We do the best we can and as someone else said it takes a strong person to come on here and say they are sorry. Strenght is what holds us together. Now that you have done what you needed,hopefully they will see your blog and are ok with it. Have a great day.
iknowstuff	11/25/2010 2:54:45 PM If U can't take a little frisky banter on this site, This site is not for U, or else get your big girl pants on
jdw72	11/25/2010 6:07:20 PM WOW!!! Is all I can say.. It is no wonder that I enjoy coming here and posting!!! What an incredible group of friends and acquaintances Thank you All for your comments and reassurance. You Made my day!
sweetheart1943	11/25/2010 7:09:44 PM well i to said somthing an i also apoligised on the blogs an in a personal email. were only human.
talldrkman1	11/27/2010 2:27:00 AM Good move Jdw I like your style and your heart. I for one understand your feelings and respect what you just said. I am new here and only wanted to know why. So I posted it, I meant no harm just wondered out loud about something I saw. I am not perfect and know no one is. I will try to be understanding but I will never allow abuse from any one. Jdw I consider a real man without color and a possible good friend. again Semper fi