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I want a lady to cuddle
by tomtom_88 at 5/23/2015 11:29:13 AM

I feel lonely and unwanted. Tryed putting my self out there. Tryed talking but keep getting turned down

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women like only want rich men or looks
by tomtom_88 at 4/5/2015 6:52:38 AM

I feel like women these days are too shallow. If you are a few pounds too big or if you have the wrong clothes or hair color they leave you in the trash. I know I am no Christian Grey. I know I am not...

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regret
by tomtom_88 at 3/7/2015 7:34:27 AM

I wish I can make the moves on a girl. But if I do I might be too fresh or make her uncomfortable. I always screw up no matter what.

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unwanted and disposable
by tomtom_88 at 3/7/2015 6:33:34 AM

I am nobody's type just friend nothing more. Ok date your a**hole marry your jerk. Get bruised so bad you trust no one and nothing. I am there to wipes your tears this time. But next time I won't be t...

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my crazy/bucket list
by tomtom_88 at 3/3/2015 11:28:30 PM

I want to do crazy things that may be illegal. Number 1. Sex out doors. I mean out in a field or on a roof type of outdoors. Number 2. Skinny dip Number 3. Do at least 100 mph driving. Num...

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Hi everyone I am back
by tomtom_88 at 3/3/2015 11:19:39 PM

Hi i am back

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messed up a friendship though foolish actions.
by tomtom_88 at 11/1/2014 6:45:18 PM

I don't want to revile this but I acted the jealous fool.

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i wish there was a rain to wash this world
by tomtom_88 at 10/16/2014 9:07:53 AM

I hope there is a cleansing rain to wash away all the diesesed trash off of this planet. All the scum all pimps wh*res wife beaters. All the criminals. Maybe it is just me.

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I wish i was jerk a** douche bag
by tomtom_88 at 10/12/2014 6:20:41 AM

I wish was a jerk a** douche bag. They seam to get all the nice women. It is ticking me off. Really what kind of guy would leave a pregnant woman broke. Spend the money meant for the kid's food and st...

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where i live and why i love it
by tomtom_88 at 9/22/2014 7:46:22 AM

I live in the city. I like there because every thing is close by. Also the fact people mind their own business. Sure I may be lonely in the crowds and have to deal with a lot. But that is life

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lonley
by tomtom_88 at 9/16/2014 9:41:01 AM

Seeing photographs of my friends that are couples makes me feel bittersweet. Bitter because I still had not found the one and still feel lonely. Also sweet seeing the love.

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frustration
by tomtom_88 at 8/21/2014 7:58:46 AM

Well I am feeling frustrated. After seeing two of my friends in a lovey dovey diabetic inducing relationship. I think it will take time for it to happen. But I wonder why I have not found any girl to ...

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failed
by tomtom_88 at 8/15/2014 9:06:35 PM

Well tried helping a friend plan a proposal and it blew up in my face. Got one friend pissed off at me. I would try to blab but it would ruin the surprise and plan.

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relationship vs relations@$&
by tomtom_88 at 8/12/2014 8:54:26 AM

We all have been to that point. The false love, the bs and failure. Yes I am talking about relationshits. When we think we are loved but blind to the fact that we are used sometimes even cheated on or...

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wanting to see crashing and burning
by tomtom_88 at 8/10/2014 9:34:22 PM

We have this sick side of us. When we watch a race or seeing a close friend's relationship or train crossing. We want to see a huge crash. A wreck of massive proportions that we never seen before ever...

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envy
by tomtom_88 at 8/10/2014 6:42:46 AM

We all have envy. It poisons us in every way. Some of us envy the neighbor with the shiny new car. Some of us envy the guy who is dating a female friend whom friend zoned us. But we have to mature and...

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don't be sad
by tomtom_88 at 6/28/2014 11:37:07 PM

Don't be sad that no one says I love you. Be happy that nobody says I freaking hate your guts.

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how to steal hearts, tips and tricks.
by tomtom_88 at 4/22/2013 8:41:07 PM

How do you steal someone's heart. Tip 1. Don't try too hard, when you try to hard you look thursty and no one whant some thursty dude/dudette all up in their koolaide. Tip 2. Be real be you. Again t...

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how to steal hearts, tips and tricks.
by tomtom_88 at 4/22/2013 8:34:39 PM

How do you steal someone's heart. Tip 1. Don't try too hard, when you try to hard you look thursty and no one whant some thursty dude/dudette all up in their koolaide. Tip 2. Be real be you. Again t...

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staying strong
by tomtom_88 at 4/18/2013 10:56:18 PM

Well been super busy. But one thing I had learned is to stay strong. Be with you head held up high and remeber life is to live to the fullest.

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feeling like a theme song to a tv show
by tomtom_88 at 9/6/2012 11:10:32 PM

well I been rejected and I feel like the theme song to a show set in the Korean war at a hospital. http://youtu.be/VlZdFmEdffg http://youtu.be/3OCLc3KME7g

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Politeness
by tomtom_88 at 9/4/2012 10:20:46 AM

I have been on other sites I dare not name and got a rude message. The message used offencive language, if I am not your type just say sorry you are not my type. No need for profanity or cursing.I can...

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enjoying new freedom
by tomtom_88 at 8/28/2012 6:46:43 AM

being with out the stringsof burning gas to visit some one and hoping to find some one near is mynew goal. I like this feeling,

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single again
by tomtom_88 at 8/15/2012 11:14:17 AM

broken up is hard it has me feeling like trash nothing unloved uncared for

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well I have been in my own issues
by tomtom_88 at 8/12/2012 6:09:46 PM

well I have my issues with myself. I make the same mistakes and feel crummy every time. I want to fix my self and I taking the steps forward but I still need help.

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feeling like the song tomarrow by Chris Young
by tomtom_88 at 7/20/2012 8:58:12 AM

http://youtu.be/ETVjll5eR88

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my favorite song
by tomtom_88 at 7/17/2012 6:20:32 PM

my favorite song is Carrie Underwood's Before he Cheats. the lyrics speaks out and the soul Underwood puts into that song is awesome. Heck I would never ever think to cheat after that song.

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happy parents day
by tomtom_88 at 6/8/2012 7:31:17 AM

well I was late in saying happy Mother's day

to all the mothers out there and I will be ealry to say Happy father's day to all fathers out there. So those who have whipper snappe...

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Being loved
by tomtom_88 at 6/8/2012 7:22:35 AM

what is being loved? Is being love a feeling of being secured? Or is it knowing some give a care about you? Maybe it is plutonic friendships or planetary flings. What ever it is the juorny of findi...

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Hoarders
by tomtom_88 at 6/4/2012 9:02:41 AM

I wounder if any heard of hoarding or simmilar conditions. I have seen the show hoarder and was shocked,no room to walk no room at all. Got me thinking has any one dated a hoarder? it has to be hard j...

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what is a relationship?
by tomtom_88 at 6/3/2012 3:50:09 PM

what is a relationship? Tell me any thing, a friendship? a bond? relations happing? things we don't thing of and things that keeps us up late at night.

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been so busy
by tomtom_88 at 4/30/2012 8:34:11 PM

I have been so busy with living the busy life that I kind of forgetten about my friends and readers out there. I have met all kinds of wounderful readers friends and people in general. I have read som...

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Doubt we all have it
by tomtom_88 at 3/30/2012 6:20:06 PM

I have doubt about love and I have a wounderful woman who loves more then any thing. I thought about it when we doubt our self we never know what is good or not. so some times we should say to heck wi...

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new years new page
by tomtom_88 at 1/1/2012 7:14:08 AM

Well this a new year time to turn a new page. Be it a reloslution to not have relations or some other train of thought. Be it being more forgiving. be it watching your weight or quiting smoking. Be al...

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The best Christmas Presents Ever
by tomtom_88 at 12/27/2011 7:09:51 PM

I have gotten the best gift ever. Convos with friends, time with family and some relaxing moments. I geuss people have lost their values on Christmas, Newyears and other holidays. SO try thinking on t...

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True friends
by tomtom_88 at 12/26/2011 7:36:12 PM

One thing I have learned in my life is that true friends never ever go away. They are always in your life and never go away. Staying there in your hearts and souls. Evan after spliting ways they...

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I living my life and taking it one day at a time
by tomtom_88 at 12/24/2011 4:09:01 PM

Well I geuss well all have to take things one day at a time. No matter how many people think their rushes are important we have to take thing one day at a time.

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Jelousy the worst human emotion every one raise above it you are grown
by tomtom_88 at 12/21/2011 10:36:57 AM

I think every one feel jelousy once in a while. May be it is to the neighbor with the new car, maybe the person who can get dates out of thin air or maybe some other reason. My veiw is to raise above ...

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I know I said I was going to write a last blog
by tomtom_88 at 12/20/2011 6:17:57 AM

I have a friend who has her own music label.She is looking for talented people.

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last blog
by tomtom_88 at 12/16/2011 6:04:48 AM

This is my last blog an other aplogy

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what is the want to meet feature
by tomtom_88 at 12/14/2011 10:57:30 AM

I saw the lets meet feature and I want to know more about it. I rather do friends reqeusts winks and messages but it just me it seems cool. I hope there some that wants to meet me.

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merry Christmas to every
by tomtom_88 at 12/12/2011 11:25:45 AM

Hi every on merry Christmas to every one unless you prefere happy holidays.

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i am sorry for the hurtful text
by tomtom_88 at 12/8/2011 7:51:55 PM

I was jelous of people find their one and while having friends on confernce call I put them on hold so I can talk to my shy friend. I acted like a kid so I am sorry. I was peeved of the lack of action...

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I like date hook up
by tomtom_88 at 12/8/2011 10:55:12 AM

Well I have not yet found the one. But I have made so many cool friends. If I have time I would talk to all of them. Shure we all have been stuck in the friends zone or have had been either the main o...

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found out that my shy friend is overprotected
by tomtom_88 at 12/7/2011 8:07:43 AM

My friend has been sheltered from the world. Could not blame her dad because of his job he has seen the worse in people and all the crimes. I also noticed that she was compensating for her lonleyness ...

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awakward moments
by tomtom_88 at 12/6/2011 6:23:10 PM

Has any one have an awkward moment on the phone like the way you answer or some thing. Or been put in an awkward situtation. Awkwardness is common.

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needs help in the grabbing didgets deparment
by tomtom_88 at 12/4/2011 9:11:22 PM

I need help in grabbing the didgets please help.

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has any one tryed the long distence thing?
by tomtom_88 at 12/4/2011 3:30:13 PM

Hi every one has any one here has tryed the long distence thing? I have heard stories of it working out and stories of it failing. I geuss true love can with stand any tests out there. But it just me.

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I am sorry for ticking any one off
by tomtom_88 at 12/3/2011 5:01:01 PM

I am sorry if I had ticked you off. I am sorry if I joked on things I shoud not joke about thanks for the advice on my clothes.

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keep me in mind
by tomtom_88 at 12/2/2011 8:55:14 PM

I have heard this country song on the radio at my other job that shows my feelings. It is Keep Me In Mind by Zac Brown. It is so true when I try to hit up some women.

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I think have gotten my friend out of her shell
by tomtom_88 at 12/1/2011 4:55:17 PM

I have been invited to her house to chill and that is a start. I just hope she likes me and loves me more for it.

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I hate being single and alone
by tomtom_88 at 11/30/2011 9:55:01 PM

Well I have been looking bars and the church and every where but woman loves, only love is like a brother or lamp or some thing I hate see couples lovey dovey with the lovey dovey bs. Shure love is ou...

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thanks for reading my blogs
by tomtom_88 at 11/29/2011 9:55:16 AM

Thank you for reading my blogs. It make me feel kind of well liked. When I need help you my readers try to help me or have simmilar situations or some thing. When I feel lonley you made me feel loved.

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the messages and replies
by tomtom_88 at 11/29/2011 9:11:56 AM

The replies to my blogs are helpful. I wished I have the time to send messages to all my friends. I hope my blogs help people by helping me. I know if I find the one it will be great but in the mean t...

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Well I was kind of drunk and dumb
by tomtom_88 at 11/27/2011 9:41:28 PM

well I was not thinking while I wrote the prevous blogs like to say to person sorry this person. I hope she understands me and accepts this applogy from me.

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how do I coax some one out of their shell?
by tomtom_88 at 11/26/2011 4:57:05 AM

I have this friend she is really shy and is the type whom never exits her home or go out for the fun of it. I need some advice since I seem to be the only real friend she has. I have known her sinc...

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i worry too much
by tomtom_88 at 11/24/2011 8:08:05 AM

I am worring too much. I worry about nothing. I know one thing my friends old and new are always there for me.

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well and good
by tomtom_88 at 11/23/2011 6:57:47 AM

I am happy to hear the misunderstanding has been cleared. Things are better for it. It turns out some people wants to drive a wedge between people whom are together since they are alone.

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help me out
by tomtom_88 at 11/22/2011 7:35:43 AM

I need help in thinking for getting more women to veiw my profile. because it kind of makes me feel wanted and loved.

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I will never understnd women
by tomtom_88 at 11/21/2011 10:19:01 PM

I like women, but will never understand them or their motives. when they call but don't or other BS. I might need a woman's opinion but I never know.

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I am a screw up
by tomtom_88 at 11/21/2011 6:35:01 AM

I try as I must but I keep making mistakes some times the same ones sometimes new ones. I wish I had the key to solving my problems. but I don't making a bad joke or creeping some one out with out kno...

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happy turkey day every one
by tomtom_88 at 11/16/2011 7:29:21 PM

TURKEY DAY IS ALMOST HERE YAY YAY I hope every one has fun this turkey day

:banana...

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thanks for being brave
by tomtom_88 at 11/16/2011 8:02:11 AM

I did not know that so many victims are living the darkness keeping bottled up. the strong ones don't bottle up but let people know their stories and moving forward to others with similar stories heal...

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the worst crime against hummanity and the univerese
by tomtom_88 at 11/14/2011 8:47:06 AM

I have a friend whom's name I would not reveil. She has had the worst of the worst toutre happen to her by her own blood relitive. Being violated by her bro, and her folks did nothing! I know it is ha...

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feel like a failure
by tomtom_88 at 11/13/2011 4:32:05 PM

well I have been trying to talk to women I have made friends but nothing as of yet, maybe I am trying too hard of maybe not hard enough. I feel like the right one will never find me.

Als...

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Friends
by tomtom_88 at 11/5/2011 1:58:25 PM

A true friend is some one that you don't even talk to every day when you talk you would feel special. That is what I like to think but also I like to think that we can talk to our friends every day.

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Having fun and not
by tomtom_88 at 11/4/2011 6:20:15 PM

I think of beingsinge has ups and downs like every thing in life. I try and face every thing with a positive atiude but is not working 1/2 the time. I think there is some one for me but it is not here...

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working two jobs
by tomtom_88 at 10/27/2011 6:07:25 PM

I have been wirjung 2 jobs for about five months and I am learning about how it is important to have fun.

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Happy Halloween
by tomtom_88 at 10/25/2011 6:08:36 PM

Hi every one I hope all of you would have a fun and safe halloween