| 5/31/2008 9:18:01 AM |
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luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
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I have to concur with everyone else. No need to continue if he didn't start off with the truth he will use this tactic again. Sadly this occurs much more often than it should and I wish it were the exception rather than the rule.
Sorry you got hit with one sweetie but you are worth a lot more.
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| 5/31/2008 9:41:30 AM |
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judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 51 online now!
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You did the RIGHT thing to end it!
Once a Lair, always a lair.
Jan
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| 5/31/2008 9:48:18 AM |
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krystyl
Scottsdale, AZ
age: 50
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You were right to dump him to the curb. If he started out your relationship with lies, when you will ever know when he is being truthful. I am so sorry that this happened to you.
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| 5/31/2008 9:50:00 AM |
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lobo_corazon
Kingston, ON
age: 39
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...I'm not the 27 year old guy you saw in those pics I'm actually a 41 year old truck driver and I had to tell you this because I'm begining to fall in love with you. The reason why I did this was becuase I was trying to prove a point to my buddy and his ex that all women are the same they go for looks before they go for personality but you've already proven that theory wrong and I'm sorry again can we please still try to salvage our relationship...
He is running game on you - A hard-core player. This line was rehearsed as a calculated technique to guilt you into sleeping with him. He quite likely has several other young women that he's trying the same lines with, in hopes that one of them will cave.
I'm glad you weren't the chump who fell for it!
Now set aside any doubt, kicking him to the curb was the best idea you ever had. Break off all contact and look for a real guy, who doesn't hesitate to meet in person.
There's lots of deceptive freaks hiding behind internet profiles. My simple rule for being safe using dating sites: There is no relationship until you meet in person.
I'm glad you learned this lesson without getting burned though!
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| 5/31/2008 9:52:50 AM |
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knittinkitten
Lady Lake, FL
age: 71 online now!
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I can only guess, but don't you think that he knew he would probably be rejected by a 22 year old so he invented an age that would at least get her attention? When it came time to actually meet he knew he couldn't get away with it and then the additional lies started.
Nothing wrong in questioning your actions...you're young...and, as you mature, unfortunately, you will probably have more of these circumstances occur. But, you're not likely to forget this one and your eyes and ears will be open enough to spot the red flags as they are presented to you in the future.
As others have said, be thankful that you learned all this BEFORE you met...I've also been there, done that, and, even though it hurts, it's better than having been in a relationship and then discovering!.
Best of luck...you'll do fine. Try not to get discouraged...it's just LIFE...and, not much we can do about it besides live it...carefully.
Sincerely,
Knittin kitten
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| 5/31/2008 10:27:01 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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Like everyone has stated so eloquently, once a liar, always a liar. There are a lot of players on the net, male and female alike, you just have to weed them out. I am wondering why he is so interested in a 22 year old woman. His line is practiced and I assume some women fall for it. Run in the opposite direction, g/f!
Susan
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| 5/31/2008 1:05:28 PM |
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wishicould
Mesquite, TX
age: 51
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I would figure out if you liked him or not.
If you liked him, f*ck it...Get over it and go on.
Might be the guy you been lookin for.
Most people have told a lie before
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| 6/1/2008 12:09:50 PM |
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grlnxtdoor86
Sacramento, CA
age: 22
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Thanks everyone you've all been great!...I never really doubted that my choice was wrong I think I just wanted to see what someone looking on the outside in thinks and you've all pretty much agreed with me. You can't start a relationship on a foundation of lies. Plain and simple. As to some of the questions asked, I'm not questioning my actions becuase I still care about the man, I'm doing it to get the opinions of others. And one of the other comments about "well if you still have feelings for him then just say f*ck it everyone lies once in their life and give him another chance" I don't think so, I'm not the one who wants to be in a relationship and wonder everytime he opens his mouth if it's the truth or not. That just doesn't sound like a appealing relationship. So anyways thanks alot everyone...you all are AWESOME!!  
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| 6/5/2008 8:51:48 PM |
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lickmytongue
Sandia, TX
age: 55
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pretty soon i will tell u guys astory about head games from a person here on datehookup it sucksssssssssssssssssssssss melissa
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| 6/5/2008 8:57:02 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
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Prove a point to him....You don't like liars, or players and he is too old for you. Then Block him. Really want to get him, tell him he may have had a chance had he not lied.
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| 6/5/2008 8:58:19 PM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
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Move on down the road.................and keep moving...............
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| 6/5/2008 9:04:28 PM |
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den15x12
Arlington, TX
age: 22
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Lets say your talking to someone he's got a great personlality, funny, and is a good listener but after exchanging pics talking on the phone and really getting to know each other he pops off with I'm soooo sorry but I have to tell you something even though it might make you never want to talk to me again. I lied to you I'm not the 27 year old guy you saw in those pics I'm actually a 41 year old truck driver and I had to tell you this because I'm begining to fall in love with you. The reason why I did this was becuase I was trying to prove a point to my buddy and his ex that all women are the same they go for looks before they go for personality but you've already proven that theory wrong and I'm sorry again can we please still try to salvage our relationship. I personally already told him I can't stand liars and I'm not here so you can play with my feelings that was f'd up of you, and I'm through. I don't think my choice to end it was wrong do you?
I do not think you were wrong to end it.
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| 6/5/2008 9:09:02 PM |
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juicybrucey
Flint, MI
age: 48
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LEAVE the zero get you a hero
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| 6/5/2008 9:09:40 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 50
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run for my life is what i would do... he had no right treating you like that in the first place... you deserve better give him the flick fancy using an innocent person to try and prove a point ...Bad move that so you move on and I hope you find an honest person this time...
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| 6/5/2008 9:16:52 PM |
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den15x12
Arlington, TX
age: 22
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Yeah well he never got the sex we made two dates before he even told me the truth and both times he stood me up without even a phone call. It was me who called him to ask what had happened and he'd be like oh I'm sorry such and such happened. He even went as far as telling me he was Highway Partol and he got called into work bacuase the police station was short handed. I just couldn't believe he had the nerve to lie to me and then after wards tell me he loves me and wants to work past this. Trying to send e-mails to me apologizing.
you have a psycho... hope he isn't a stalker or knows where you live.
This is why I think its best to go out and meet someone in a very public place before telling them too much about yourself or investing too much time. Once you meet for a 20 minute coffee, you can go from there.
What he is is plain wrong... he is the sickest of the sick that you can meet on dating sites. Next he will tell you he's married, and of course his wife doesn't understand him.
blah... pure BS
He's...
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