| 5/30/2008 10:44:32 PM |
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grlnxtdoor86
Sacramento, CA
age: 22
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Lets say your talking to someone he's got a great personlality, funny, and is a good listener but after exchanging pics talking on the phone and really getting to know each other he pops off with I'm soooo sorry but I have to tell you something even though it might make you never want to talk to me again. I lied to you I'm not the 27 year old guy you saw in those pics I'm actually a 41 year old truck driver and I had to tell you this because I'm begining to fall in love with you. The reason why I did this was becuase I was trying to prove a point to my buddy and his ex that all women are the same they go for looks before they go for personality but you've already proven that theory wrong and I'm sorry again can we please still try to salvage our relationship. I personally already told him I can't stand liars and I'm not here so you can play with my feelings that was f'd up of you, and I'm through. I don't think my choice to end it was wrong do you?
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| 5/30/2008 10:46:36 PM |
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usanvgal
Reno, NV
age: 32
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No, it wasnt wrong, it was wrong of him to lie to you like that. I am sorry you had to experience that.
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| 5/30/2008 10:52:27 PM |
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bellinghamster
Bellingham, WA
age: 26
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It was really f*cking wrong of him. Sounds like he was just lookin' for sex or wouldn't have treated you that way.
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| 5/30/2008 10:58:47 PM |
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grlnxtdoor86
Sacramento, CA
age: 22
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Yeah well he never got the sex we made two dates before he even told me the truth and both times he stood me up without even a phone call. It was me who called him to ask what had happened and he'd be like oh I'm sorry such and such happened. He even went as far as telling me he was Highway Partol and he got called into work bacuase the police station was short handed. I just couldn't believe he had the nerve to lie to me and then after wards tell me he loves me and wants to work past this. Trying to send e-mails to me apologizing.
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| 5/30/2008 10:59:26 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
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Absolutely not. Kick him to the curb. It even sounded like a lame excuse. Then other guys wonder what's wrong with you gals. I'd be gun-shy too.
I had a gal tell me about a month or two ago that she went out to meet this guy. She said, "He was a BIG man." "It was like fighting with a German shepherd." I had to laugh at her analogy, but it wasn't really that funny. She just meets the guy and he tried to accost her. Good one! 
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| 5/30/2008 11:01:07 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
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Pardon, she said, "It was like fightin' with a Saint Bernard! That's why it sounded funny. It's late. 
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| 5/30/2008 11:13:24 PM |
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muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
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That was messed up my friend. He started off on a lie. Good thing that you did not go through with meeting him and end up getting your heart broken. I met a guy from DH that I fell for. He told me that he made a mistake and spent two years in prison when he was a kid and has been out for five years. He lied and spent 7 years in prison and had only been out for 9 months. You see, it didn't matter what he did. He lied and we started off on a lie. I was deceived by his good behavior but once his probation ended he changed and started acting like someone who has been away from society for seven years. Online dating is tricky....im learning as i go.
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| 5/31/2008 3:06:36 AM |
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chala95
Flushing, NY
age: 48 online now!
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Lets say your talking to someone he's got a great personlality, funny, and is a good listener but after exchanging pics talking on the phone and really getting to know each other he pops off with I'm soooo sorry but I have to tell you something even though it might make you never want to talk to me again. I lied to you I'm not the 27 year old guy you saw in those pics I'm actually a 41 year old truck driver and I had to tell you this because I'm begining to fall in love with you. The reason why I did this was becuase I was trying to prove a point to my buddy and his ex that all women are the same they go for looks before they go for personality but you've already proven that theory wrong and I'm sorry again can we please still try to salvage our relationship. I personally already told him I can't stand liars and I'm not here so you can play with my feelings that was f'd up of you, and I'm through. I don't think my choice to end it was wrong do you?
If he would of said he did it cause he was afraid you would not date him because of his age...would you give him a second chance? His excuse was lame!
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| 5/31/2008 3:10:37 AM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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Run for the hills and don't look back!! You deserve nothing less that trust, honesty and respect!
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| 5/31/2008 3:13:57 AM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57 online now!
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OH Kicking this guy to the Curb is not good enough for him. 27 or 41 Hes still a LIAR Be glad you are DONE with that one. You have every right to END it, and maybe if hes real lucky the Highway Patrol will pick him up 
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| 5/31/2008 3:41:33 AM |
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roggor
Eek, AK
age: 50
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So he's aroused by 22 year old virgins, and you're not aroused by 41 year old truck drivers? That sounds about right. Sounds like his little ploy got his foot in the door, and it's probably worked for him in the past. Don't worry about hurting his feelings. Just speak your mind assertively "I feel ______ when you ______." Perhaps, "I felt manipulated by your deceitful behavior." But really, you can see how he is creating guilt in you, or you wouldn't be questioning whether you did right to shut the door on his foot. Do what you have to do to cut off the emotional tie he has created, as it is pure manipulation of your good nature. Let it be a lesson about yourself that you are a kind person and that your natural concern for others can set you up for those who might manipulate your emotions for their own purposes. Learn to be kind and firm, polite yet unyielding, not pushing and yet not backing up, asserting your right to your own boundaries, your own choices, your own feelings (Virginia Satir, The Five Freedoms).
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| 5/31/2008 3:48:52 AM |
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justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45
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why do people play games like that!! will never understand it no matter what the bullshit reason is..............
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| 5/31/2008 3:58:46 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42
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Thats disgusting. people make me sick sometimes.
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| 5/31/2008 9:04:24 AM |
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lickmytongue
Sandia, TX
age: 55
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to many players on this site head gamers must not have feelings. i dont get it!!
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| 5/31/2008 9:13:46 AM |
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sammygirl58
Edwardsville, IL
age: 49
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You don't talk with them any more, that is bull shit ... I don't understand why any one would want to play with some one like that. He does not deserve any more of your time or thoughts ...
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