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tkat101
Alexandria, VA
age: 50
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YES beacuse if he is looking she is not giving him enough at home........her fault
It's not always as it looks. I think you are old enough to realize some men just are asses.
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| 6/3/2008 8:39:06 AM |
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unc005
Seagrove, NC
age: 25 online now!
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I was married to a cheater for 28 years. I hope you never feel the pain of that.
I tell all my prospective mates up front: "I can perform a castration. It's quite a simple surgery, really. I have access to all the drugs that I need, if you cheat on me...there is the possibility that I will castrate you...if you're lucky."
My ex husband didn't cheat. I just found him on AFF looking for couples to swing with. He thought that that would be ok...then we would still be "together." Ummm...ick. No!!  
LMAO gf! If I feel the need to castrate a SOB at ANY point, may I call you to come do the job?
I know *I* could probably damn well do it too, and not kill the guy, but..   .
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unc
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| 6/3/2008 8:39:29 AM |
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lioness_nikki
San Diego, CA
age: 28
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YES beacuse if he is looking she is not giving him enough at home........her fault
I don't think so. There was pretty much nothing I said no to (except the swinging crap)I think he just liked the attention from other women. But when he started drinking and acting like a loser then I didn't want him...let some other stupid wh*re deal wit his problems. All the easier to get a divorce, I guess!
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| 6/3/2008 8:40:22 AM |
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unc005
Seagrove, NC
age: 25 online now!
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YES beacuse if he is looking she is not giving him enough at home........her fault
I don't think so. There was pretty much nothing I said no to (except the swinging crap)I think he just liked the attention from other women. But when he started drinking and acting like a loser then I didn't want him...let some other stupid wh*re deal wit his problems. All the easier to get a divorce, I guess!
Amen to THAT! FFS! OMFGGGGGGGGGGGG!     
unc
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| 6/3/2008 8:40:33 AM |
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major_tom
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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Sometimes the extramarital sex is part of relationships spawned by emotional abandonment,also being cheated on,many intangibles to label all under the same label.
Each & every is different.
Many & most here focus on the sex being the primary need,but theres a lot who ar shut out on a lot more than just the physical
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| 6/3/2008 8:41:16 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 38
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Personally everyone is entitle to their own opinion
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| 6/3/2008 8:42:08 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 38
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Sometimes the extramarital sex is part of relationships spawned by emotional abandonment,also being cheated on,many intangibles to label all under the same label.
Each & every is different.
Many & most here focus on the sex being the primary need,but theres a lot who ar shut out on a lot more than just the physical
Nicely said TOM
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| 6/3/2008 8:42:19 AM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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I don't know that men- or women- cheat because they aren't "being taken care of" at home.... I think some people don't value a relationship the way others do....
If it's that bad at home, leave. It does suck to divorce... I know. But cheating doesn't make it less sucky at home.... and you'll probably just have your ass handed to you anyway....
save yourself the trouble.
And you're right Tom.... it's much much more than just physical.
Married people cheat when they are online flirting and cybering and shit.... emotional cheating can be just as devastating
[Edited 6/3/2008 8:43:31 AM]
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| 6/3/2008 8:42:35 AM |
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tkat101
Alexandria, VA
age: 50
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YES beacuse if he is looking she is not giving him enough at home........her fault
I don't think so. There was pretty much nothing I said no to (except the swinging crap)I think he just liked the attention from other women. But when he started drinking and acting like a loser then I didn't want him...let some other stupid wh*re deal wit his problems. All the easier to get a divorce, I guess!
It's good you reconized that a young age. I wish I had been stronger like that 20 years ago, after the first time I caught him.
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| 6/3/2008 8:43:30 AM |
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unc005
Seagrove, NC
age: 25 online now!
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Sometimes the extramarital sex is part of relationships spawned by emotional abandonment,also being cheated on,many intangibles to label all under the same label.
Each & every is different.
Many & most here focus on the sex being the primary need,but theres a lot who ar shut out on a lot more than just the physical
Yeah I know...know it kinda "first hand"..my sis has cheated on/been cheating on my BIL for..well...ummm...about 3-4 yrs. now (emotionally, or SO she says! I don't believe what ANYONE says to me these days...).
He JUST recently found out (long story) about 2 wks. ago...HE cheated on HER as well (what ELSE is new?!?? ) last year..texting women, female friends, even our SIL!!, etc...she was gonna kick his ass to the curb but THERE again--3 young kids involved, and well...
So..
unc
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| 6/3/2008 8:43:41 AM |
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tkat101
Alexandria, VA
age: 50
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Well spoken
Sorry I meant to quote Major hunk...I mean tom
[Edited 6/3/2008 8:44:34 AM]
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| 6/3/2008 8:44:23 AM |
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justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45 online now!
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Sometimes the extramarital sex is part of relationships spawned by emotional abandonment,also being cheated on,many intangibles to label all under the same label.
Each & every is different.
Many & most here focus on the sex being the primary need,but theres a lot who ar shut out on a lot more than just the physical
............ but can i also say that there are people out there just for the thrill of the chase and once they get they prey they move onto the next......... and this isnt just directed at the male of the species............ females are up there as well!!!! Not because they are lacking in their relationships............just because they can!!
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| 6/3/2008 8:46:36 AM |
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lioness_nikki
San Diego, CA
age: 28
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Sometimes the extramarital sex is part of relationships spawned by emotional abandonment,also being cheated on,many intangibles to label all under the same label.
Each & every is different.
Many & most here focus on the sex being the primary need,but theres a lot who ar shut out on a lot more than just the physical
No...at least to me, having a committed partner in marriage means that even though he and I are both total freaks...that we are only freaks together. If either one of us didn't think that we would be able to handle that, then we shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Once I have that emotional connection, that is what sex is all about, and if my man is cheating or looking for others for us to "prey on" then that means that the emotional bond is breaking...at least for me. I should be all that he needs and wants. If there's something that he thinks makes me un-sexy or something that makes him un-sexy, we should be able to at least work on changing or fixing it for our mate. If we don't care enough or can't bother with it...then we need to get a divorce- because that means that we are getting resentful or ambivalent abou the marriage.
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| 6/3/2008 8:51:20 AM |
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exfirefighter
Inverness, FL
age: 56
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anyone who knowingly has sex with someone who they know is a married person is just as much a scumbag as the married person thats cheating
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| 6/3/2008 8:56:30 AM |
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lioness_nikki
San Diego, CA
age: 28
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anyone who knowingly has sex with someone who they know is a married person is just as much a scumbag as the married person thats cheating
spoken like a TRUE man! 
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