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6/5/2008 8:56:28 AM |
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fairyk4u
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Call me alittle nieve ok. Why is it guys out here create a profile and you start talking to them and when you do they are about and looking for something totally different than what they have on there page. It's a waste of my time and the guys time and is very frustratingbecause I would not even bother talkin to the guy. I just don't understand cause I've been comming across that more and more. Why would I want to waste my time on someone I have nothing on common with or if we are not looking for the same things..? Am I the only one facing this..?
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6/5/2008 9:00:45 AM |
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den15x12
Arlington, TX
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Call me alittle nieve ok . Why is it guys out here create a profile and you start talking to them and when you do they are about and looking for something totally different than what they have on there page . It's a waste of my time and the guys time and is very frustrating because I would not even bother talkin to the guy . I just don't understand cause I've been comming across that more and more. Why would I want to waste my time on someone I have nothing on common with or if we are not looking for the same things..? Am I the only one facing this..?
I found that too, and from my deduction of what was going on... the guys who lie about everything, its because they offer nothing any woman would want, so they create online "personas"... its like illegal fishing.
They are the guys you see online for decades. All you have to do when you find one is block him and stop talking to him. Its also a good idea too... yo not respond to all men who show interest, just the ones you are interested in, in age, location and all that. If they don't post enough info for you to know if your interested, pass them by.
good luck to you.
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6/5/2008 9:03:43 AM |
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fairyk4u
Joliet, IL
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Well at least I am relieved to hear I am not the only one....Thanks
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6/5/2008 9:05:49 AM |
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muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
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They try to ensnare you with "I have a big heart" "I am generous and kind" "I look forward to finding my soulmate" You open the first email from them and read stuff like "hey sexy, you are so fine, I just wanna rub my thang inside you..."
You have to do a lot of weeding before you find a genuine guy....women are deceptive too yes I know.
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6/5/2008 9:16:11 AM |
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joy617
Scottsboro, AL
age: 45 online now!
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Muffycakes, I like your honesty, "women are deceptive too yes I know" I often read what you write in the forums. Thanks for the posts! You're a great girl.
We can learn more about guys in the forums, as they can about us. What they say opens up their true thoughts and perceptions. If you don't like what he is saying in the forums, you won't like him on a date!
Sometimes, I may not be looking for a particular kind of guy but find out, hey.. if he is honest and trustworthy it's ok, he didn't fit the mold I created in my profile.
I've talked to a few guys on here and some are great guys when you get to know them better and more personally. Some are worse than their profile's perceive them to be.
I post things in the forum that fits my "mood" for the moment. I might say one thing and then two hours later "edit" it to be more like my true self.
Be careful of who you set up face to face meetings with. Read all of their posts and see, "Is this someone I want to get to know? or... Is this someone I should RUN from!" Remember, we all have an opinion and they are like belly buttons. Everyone has one but no one wants to see Yours!
Be Safe and have fun!,
Jan
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6/5/2008 9:17:51 AM |
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den15x12
Arlington, TX
age: 22
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They try to ensnare you with "I have a big heart" "I am generous and kind" "I look forward to finding my soulmate".
they are playing the "nice guy" card.
Beware of guys like that, they are nothing but immature and game players.
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6/5/2008 9:34:28 AM |
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metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46 online now!
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Nature of the beast....................NEXT!
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6/5/2008 9:35:41 AM |
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asianr1
Charlotte, NC
age: 38
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shit....try anything once...lol..
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6/5/2008 10:15:06 AM |
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goodforfun51
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 53
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fairy, profiles are a very general synopsis of a persons self-perceptions and if they say anything as to desires. Example being yours which is VERY broad where you cite your desires from someone you seek being someone "down to earth with no drama" and you have eight key phrases.
This would only be a teaser for someone to contact you, you say nothing really about yourself nor your desires in any depth. So, the communication must begin to see if there are any interests and similarities to persue, RIGHT?
Point being, if you wanna B*tch about how their profiles are written, make yours sufficiently in-depth to be an example vice an equal problem. JMHO
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6/5/2008 3:50:44 PM |
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saxpistols
Bryan, TX
age: 45 online now!
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Well put, goodforfun51.
Now, If I say in my profile that I am looking for a 38 year old woman who weighs 120 lbs, has red hair, smokes and has three kids under 5 years old and this fits you exactly, then we chat and talk on the phone and I tell you I prefer women older than me in their late forties, with lots of meat on them, blonde hair blue eyes, and a childless nonsmoker who writes run-on sentences... then you would have every right to complain. Have you found this to be the case? Does a man's preferences go totally askew of what is written in his profile? If so, them I'm with you!
I find it is in the chatting that you find out these things AND there are so many things a profile CAN"T reveal about a person. Maybe everything looked fine, but a guy just decides he is not attracted once he gets to know more about you. Or maybe you figure out he is a jerk, but his profile did not tell you this upfront. Has happened to me (but don't tell!)
Best wishes in finding your great guy... I know you will!
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6/7/2008 4:09:59 AM |
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rick196246
Chicago Ridge, IL
age: 46
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Ok fairyk4u
I don't know about those things. But what I do know is what I have put on my profile is all true. I figure why lie. I am what I am.
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