| 6/19/2008 3:14:45 PM |
>>Why are people on DHWhen they are NOT healed from a bad relationship |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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healing takes time........ we do not want to DRAG a new date into OUR DIRTY. ..DRAMA...!!
MAYBE WE NEED A FORUM.....FOR (THE HEALING ARTS)......
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| 6/19/2008 3:20:05 PM |
>>Why are people on DHWhen they are NOT healed from a bad relationship |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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WE ARE ONLY Asking for HONEST REPLYS....HERE.....
[Edited 6/19/2008 3:20:33 PM]
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| 6/19/2008 3:20:33 PM |
>>Why are people on DHWhen they are NOT healed from a bad relationship |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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Well i healed a long time ago my heart is open to recieving love...I have no bitterness or anger just love..My heart is sooooooooooooooooo big and soooooooooooooo full of love...Thats what makes life beautiful. 
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| 6/19/2008 3:21:57 PM |
>>Why are people on DHWhen they are NOT healed from a bad relationship |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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SOUNDS....like you are on your way.....of having some peace in your life....good for you..............
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| 6/19/2008 3:23:24 PM |
>>Why are people on DHWhen they are NOT healed from a bad relationship |
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fish_r_man
Aurora, MO
age: 48
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I have no hard feelings. I just want to get on with my life, have some fun and hopefully find someone to share lifes pleasures with.
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| 6/19/2008 3:24:55 PM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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| 6/19/2008 3:25:19 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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Thankyou and yes i am peaceful love heals all pain and love is life...
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| 6/19/2008 3:29:56 PM |
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zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 49
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I am healed and have a healthy heart when it comes to companionship or love. I prefer being with a positive healed person also. I don't like to be the "rebound" woman or his Guinea Pig for seeing if he is ready to move on. It's not fair to expect another person to do it for you, because that is not possible. Heal thyself and then you will see a world of difference in your dating attitude and how you treat the opposite sex.
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| 6/19/2008 3:31:27 PM |
>>Why are people on DHWhen they are NOT healed from a bad relationship |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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I am healed and have a healthy heart when it comes to companionship or love. I prefer being with a positive healed person also. I don't like to be the "rebound" woman or his Guinea Pig for seeing if he is ready to move on. It's not fair to expect another person to do it for you, because that is not possible. Heal thyself and then you will see a world of difference in your dating attitude and how you treat the opposite sex.
that is some real good wisdom......
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| 6/19/2008 3:33:26 PM |
>>Why are people on DHWhen they are NOT healed from a bad relationship |
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den15x12
Arlington, TX
age: 22
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healing takes time........ we do not want to DRAG a new date into OUR DIRTY. ..DRAMA...!!
MAYBE WE NEED A FORUM.....FOR (THE HEALING ARTS)......
as they say... misery loves company.
I dont like it when I run into someone torn apart from the last relationship. I don't work as a therapist. I wish people would heal before trying to date and meet others. Would make the world a little nicer 
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| 6/19/2008 3:38:10 PM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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| 6/19/2008 3:40:20 PM |
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bry11ca
Buellton, CA
age: 43
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Not only are some not healed, some are in the throes of divorce. Some of these people seek advice on handling the divorce from others who have been through it.
Some just need some recognition and flirtation to keep their self-esteem intact.
I have dated women who are in no way ready for a relationship, but it is still healthy for them to get out. I make it clear that I am their for friendship only.
I wish I had been able to go on DH years ago.
Bry 
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| 6/19/2008 4:22:09 PM |
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iamnumber5
Saint Augustine, FL
age: 48 online now!
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Im a positive person and Im sure its because the past is in the past, learn from it put it behind you however never dwell on it. You will remain stuck in it.
I can have a heathy relationship because I have moved on.
No regrets only life experiences.
All good from here on out.
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| 6/19/2008 4:38:07 PM |
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ll53
Three Rivers, MI
age: 55
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These forums do contain some very good advice, if you are careful.
So many people are going through the same things others have been through.
Sometimes it helps them knowing that they are not the only ones recovering from a crisis, and others have healed fine.
Just sharing a common bond can help. JMO.
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| 6/19/2008 4:54:28 PM |
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ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
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healing takes time........ we do not want to DRAG a new date into OUR DIRTY. ..DRAMA...!!
MAYBE WE NEED A FORUM.....FOR (THE HEALING ARTS)......
We all may have different reasons as to why we are on a dating site when we aren't over the ex completely and still hurting..I've only been divorced since April 24th of this year..meeting others on here that feel pretty much like I do has helped me alot..It's a good thing to correspond with others in the same or similar situation, don't you think?
I'm not ready for a romantic relationship yet and I enjoy the forums and meeting new people..sometimes these forums can be very entertaining..it has allowed me to learn more about others that I thought I may have an interest in, just by following their posts, and they have learned about me..
I did make a very good friendship with a man on here, but as I said, I'm not ready for a romantic relationship just yet, and he wanted more than I could give right now..It's always been posted in my profile that I am looking for friendships foremost and once we make a friendship, I like to take it slowly....so, there are other reasons for why we that are not healed completely, are here on a dating site..if we read the profiles then hopefully they've all spelled it out..
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