| 8/9/2007 5:40:38 PM |
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karebear87
Eau Claire, WI
age: 21
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I don't understand why men do this.
I was on another site, Facebook. I had a new message. Some random guy I've never met before was trying to ask me out. I saw he has a kid. I don't date guys with kids. I wrote politely that I was seeing somebody and I'm not interested in guys with kids. So he writes back "It's KID you stupid bimbo!"
Dont you love how men will say something like "OH baby you're so hot!" but if you don't show interest back, they have to snap and start name-calling and insulting. Like "Well you's a fake b*tch anyway!"
WHY do men do that? It's obvious they were interested. But since the girl didn't feel the same, why does the guy have to resort to name calling and insults? Can't he just take no and walk away with it? What is up with that?
It's extremely immature.
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| 8/9/2007 5:42:09 PM |
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mrcareful2007
Oneida, NY
age: 46
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"It's extremely immature" Thats your answer right there..and the simple fact..many us guys are asses.(except me)
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| 8/9/2007 5:43:06 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 55
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No.... You hurt his feelings and insulted his manhood. Just saying you were not interested "might have" let him down a bit easier. Put your self in his position. You volunteered TMI.
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| 8/9/2007 5:43:45 PM |
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hobokengirl1
Metuchen, NJ
age: 64
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Whenever a guy explodes like that, thank all that's holy that he showed his cards right up front. Lots of women marry them to their sorrow.
Sorry my beloved Krass, why does telling it like it is trigger such testosterone outbursts? Are guys that tightly wired?
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| 8/9/2007 5:45:55 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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idk, i think it was wrong of him to say that to you but, it really does insult quite abit that ppl can't see thru others having children...two sided coin..gl xoxoPeaches.
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| 8/9/2007 5:46:49 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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I agree with you Peaches.
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| 8/9/2007 5:47:43 PM |
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barbarac
North Kingstown, RI
age: 59
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agree with you both
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| 8/9/2007 5:48:18 PM |
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karebear87
Eau Claire, WI
age: 21
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Sorry but it's just something I won't touch until I'm older and ready to accept another woman's children......
I think the men have it right. It must be some kind of insult to their manhood. How dare I not be interested in them and everything they have to offer! The nerve! They gotta show the stupid bimbo the immature jerk she's letting down what she's missing!
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| 8/9/2007 5:48:32 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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Rejection is a b*tch!
It's obvious , he felt rejected and lashed out back at you because you dared refuse his advances.
Some people react like that , i have seen it right here on this site.
It shows not only a lack of maturity as you put it , but also a major flaw of character.
Do not let anyone intimidate you , Bear
If they don't fit your standards why should you have to compromise?
Besides , as you probably know , there will always be someone , somewhere pissed at you for something you said of failed to say
My Advice to you?
Screw em , well , screw what they think anyway , lol.
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| 8/9/2007 5:50:38 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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well, said and bear u know i'd never down you for that..just stating.and yea we see it here all the time. xoxoPeaches.
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| 8/9/2007 5:50:43 PM |
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katebug
Brooklet, GA
age: 32
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I agree with Krazz. Telling you that you don't date men with children was way too much information. You may have hurt his feelings. On the other hand I don't agree with him name calling. Red flag there, he would be on a powertrip.
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| 8/9/2007 5:52:20 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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i agree with peaches.seems women want you to accept theirs but not willing to do the same.
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| 8/9/2007 5:52:26 PM |
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 55
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You need to spell it out in your profile... then it's a no brainer for the infatuated... if they can read.
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| 8/9/2007 5:53:10 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55
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you know, i raised a son from age three until he was 7 before i was involved with another woman. today, at age 27, he still calls my ex his mom. She was the only mom he knew for years. I'm happy for him that he feels for her and I have no problem with that at all. However, while dating, there were many problems. I met, and fell a Spanish gal, superintendent of a school district, owned her home on a golf course, expensive everything from furniture to bmw 735. this was mid 80's. Nice gal, but guess what? she said.. my son or her. Sorry,, i am a father first. It is an obligation to raise that child, whether you are divorced and see him/her only on the weekends, its till your obligation.
Now, there are women out there in the same boat, Karebear.. hopefully you'll marry for life and will not be faced with the situation of you having a child or even a couple of children and trying to date. As someone said, might try letting him down a bit easier. Food for thought though.
It's different with women though.. you spread your legs and guys flock to you..haha.. a guy spreads his legs and women run.. thinking he's gonna fart!!
years ago i saw a cartoon with charlie brown and that lil girl in the cartoon. He puffs his chest out while pulling his pants down and says, "I got one of these!" She calmly replies while lifting her dress, "As long as i got one of these, I can get as many of those as I want." Nuff Said!!
doesnt excuse his rudeness though..sorry bout that
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| 8/9/2007 5:53:25 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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I am not ready for children either!
Will someone take mine?
Please?
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