That is complete, utter bullshit. When a two people consent to have sex with each other, they both get exactly the same thing - sex. If a woman was expecting to leverage that into a relationship, it's her own fault for trying to get more out of having sex than she put into it. You can't con someone who isn't greedy. Furthermore, to say that many women get used for sex would be to say that women aren't competent to make decisions about sex for themselves and they need benevolent men to make decisions for them. I'm sure such women exist, but they are protected by laws which don't consider the mentally disabled to have the ability to give consent. Guys who lie may be unethical, but women who have sex to get something other than sex are just stupid and I'd like to sell them the Brooklyn Bridge, too.
That's not true either. There are lots of women who might want sex at any given time and who are capable of being grown up about their decisions. What women WILL run from is the proverbial ``nice guy,'' who bullshits her about being nice with the idea that he'll get into her pants easily. Women see through that shit in a second. If a guy wants sex, he needs to be rather brazen about.
As women in general age they trust men less and less so to find one, a man has to show he's interested and trustworthy in more than just the bedroom.
Only if you're wimpy enough to say, ``How high,'' when a woman says jump. I'm not about to jump through hoops to prove something. What do you think a woman would say if you told her she needed to prove she was worthy of having sex with you? She'd laugh in your face and tell you to go jerk off. Why should men be any different?
Yes, women want sex. However, most women want sex within the bounds of a long term relationship not a FWB. The quickest way to turn off a woman is to start a conversation off regarding sex.
You'd be surprised how untrue that is if you have a little finesse with words and have some wit. The quickest way to turn a woman off is to be BORING. Every woman will reply to a message if she's having fun doing it. If you want to be BORING, tell her how much you like [camping, kayaking, knitting, whatever] and that, coincidently, you noticed she does, too. Sucking up never works. If you want to get a date or get laid, be witty and be brazen.
Women want and need their emotions massaged and involved before they show interest in sex.
They say that a lot, but that isn't true either. Just about every woman will have sex very quickly with a guy who turns her on.
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rocketman0001
Kissimmee, FL
56, joined Mar. 2013
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I don't think the women on this site are real??!!
Anyone else having trouble meeting women on this site in person?
Seriously, Where can I go to get laid?
Where have you had success?
It's been awhile and I am starting to back up.
Thanks
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| 3/18/2013 12:54:53 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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I don't think the women on this site are real??!!
Anyone else having trouble meeting women on this site in person? Yep
Seriously, Where can I go to get laid? 
Where have you had success? No where
It's been awhile and I am starting to back up.
Thanks
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karrpilot
Oswego, IL
51, joined Jul. 2009
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Ever hang out at a truck stop? The lot lizards are always looking for business. Although your next stop could be either a doctor's office or morgue these days. Life is all about choices. That is what i try to tell the kids who fire up the ol' wacky weed. 
But hey! Nothing ventured, nothing gained, correct? 
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hugabear47
Sykesville, MD
49, joined Jun. 2012
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i need some puss my dam self !!
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tcretiredhippie
Durand, WI
56, joined Apr. 2012
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If you live in central fl and cant get laid, youre just not trying. Now stop it. Its really sad.
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| 3/21/2013 9:49:01 PM |
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hugabear47
Sykesville, MD
49, joined Jun. 2012
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If you live in central fl and cant get laid, youre just not trying. Now stop it. Its really sad.
im not talking about getting it from a man a** hole !!
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| 3/22/2013 7:50:39 AM |
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tcretiredhippie
Durand, WI
56, joined Apr. 2012
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im not talking about getting it from a man a** hole !!
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metalshadow6
Dillon, SC
34, joined Feb. 2013
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You can always go to Nevada and can legaly pay a woman to have sex with you, except in Las Vegas.
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rocketman0001
Kissimmee, FL
56, joined Mar. 2013
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If you live in central fl and cant get laid, youre just not trying. Now stop it. Its really sad.
OK Tcretiredhippie, since you think it is so easy to get laid by a woman in central Florida, please tell us all how and where we can do this?
I really want to learn from you. I am especially interested since you do not even live close to Florida.
If it is so easy, let us all in on the secret.
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indianadave1951
Elkhart, IN
63, joined Dec. 2010
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If all that is wanted is sex you have some challenges. As women age many have been used for sex by men. Because of this they become hypersensitive to what a man wants. If they perceive a man only wants sex most will run. As women in general age they trust men less and less so to find one, a man has to show he's interested and trustworthy in more than just the bedroom.
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| 3/23/2013 7:45:42 PM |
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rocketman0001
Kissimmee, FL
56, joined Mar. 2013
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Don't women want sex too??
It is normal to want sex.
What is wrong with the women here??
Sex is a normal and healthy part of being in good health.
I am not looking for a one night stand, but I am looking for a woman who enjoys going out and doing things and having a great sex life too.
Pretty normal I think.
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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Sure women our age like sex. They just want it from younger men. They have put us men over 50 out to pasture. Most of the women over 50 think men over 50 have E.D., so they no longer want us.
Get use to being celibate.
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| 3/24/2013 10:19:29 AM |
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indianadave1951
Elkhart, IN
63, joined Dec. 2010
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Don't women want sex too??
Yes, women want sex. However, most women want sex within the bounds of a long term relationship not a FWB. The quickest way to turn off a woman is to start a conversation off regarding sex.
Women want and need their emotions massaged and involved before they show interest in sex.
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karrpilot
Oswego, IL
51, joined Jul. 2009
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If one looks like a cast member on Duck Dynasty, has a gut that overhangs his unit, and a home that looks like an episode of Hoarders, sorry dude. You are out of luck.
The property has to look like it's on the market to be sold. Not condemned.
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whiskerbiscuit1
Heavener, OK
59, joined Feb. 2013
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Sure women our age like sex. They just want it from younger men. They have put us men over 50 out to pasture. Most of the women over 50 think men over 50 have E.D., so they no longer want us.
Get use to being celibate.
Uh speak for yourself please.
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mickad
Lomita, CA
57, joined Mar. 2013
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Wow, good point bro, but i wonder at my age, 55, why i'm even on this dating site now. But thanks for the "real 411 about women."
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mickad
Lomita, CA
57, joined Mar. 2013
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I wrotw this on the other post and am reposting it here because i thought it was me but, in fact i see it is a common denominator.
The question was: "Are you done dating women?" And i wrote3: Yes, totally. After conducting my own personal “ statistical analysis” of 575 searches on DH and 880 previously on match.com and 625 attempted contacts/searches on zoosk, which is a total of 2080 searches and 90 days online, spending $360.00 with nothing more than a couple of lines from potential mates, I’m done. Its far easier to just to meet a woman at the grocery store.
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| 3/25/2013 11:09:26 AM |
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robert518
Pittsburgh, PA
60, joined Nov. 2010
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How to get laid? Come on, Bro...with an attitude like that, you can pay for it. The hardest thing for most men is to develop a relationship which is what happens when you are at this stage in life.
Maybe a dating site isn't where you need to spend your time. Try your local red light district.
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| 3/25/2013 2:43:30 PM |
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rocketman0001
Kissimmee, FL
56, joined Mar. 2013
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Read my posts!! What don't you understand??!!
I am looking for FWBs, not a one night stand, not a prostitute, and not a girlfriend or a wife.
I want a friendship relationship with sex.
I have never paid for sex and I am not about to start now.
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| 3/25/2013 4:27:56 PM |
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robert518
Pittsburgh, PA
60, joined Nov. 2010
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Read my posts!! What don't you understand??!!
I am looking for FWBs, not a one night stand, not a prostitute, and not a girlfriend or a wife.
I want a friendship relationship with sex.
I have never paid for sex and I am not about to start now.
I read your ORIGINAL post, Dude, every word of it....you did not mention that you were looking for a FWB, you said you wanted to get "laid". Oh by the way, I read your profile too. No wonder you are not meeting any women on here....
Sorry, Pal, you need to use a little finesse and be a bit more delicate with your words. It isn't rocket science, Rocketman.
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| 3/25/2013 7:43:28 PM |
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rocketman0001
Kissimmee, FL
56, joined Mar. 2013
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Well if you are such a master at getting laid, please enlighten me.
How many women have you met on this site?
How many times a week are you getting laid?
I am sure we would all like to learn from such a woman killer as you.
Obviously you are not having any problems meeting women and getting laid.
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| 3/25/2013 7:47:00 PM |
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rocketman0001
Kissimmee, FL
56, joined Mar. 2013
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Give me a break Robert!!
I read your profile.
You could not even write anything??!!
What a smooth talker??
Right, we will all learn a lot from you.
What a joke??!!
And don't call me Pal.
I am not your Pal!!!
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Especially when you're as impotent as me. Not having a date in 30 years certainly doesn't help either.
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| 3/25/2013 8:46:02 PM |
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robert518
Pittsburgh, PA
60, joined Nov. 2010
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But that's the difference....I don't have your problem. I could care less about what you want or what you think and I don't give a flying fig what you think about me PAL.... And maybe you'll get so backed up, you'll implode.
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| 3/25/2013 9:09:23 PM |
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rocketman0001
Kissimmee, FL
56, joined Mar. 2013
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Are all people from Pittsburgh such a**holes?
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rollingtoofast
Grand Prairie, TX
37, joined Feb. 2013
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I'm not sure what the problem is......I have 0 issues getting some!
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indianadave1951
Elkhart, IN
63, joined Dec. 2010
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Are all people from Pittsburgh such a**holes?
Have you tried Adult Friend Finder?
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geedubb123
Saint Albans, NY
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liltodger
Chester, VA
56, joined Jun. 2012
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Your main pic was taken in a bathroom at the airport by the looks of it. Maybe if you left the pic of the dog up and take the others down you might have better luck.
Getting laid on this site is virtually impossible unless you're young and hot.
Just give up like I did.
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revolve
Virginia Beach, VA
29, joined Jul. 2012
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There is a trick I used to play when I was younger, it takes money and alcohol .. maybe some weed or blow. Depends on the chics.
Trust me, if all you want is sex this is the fastest way to the bedroom, without soliciting.
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| 4/17/2013 4:18:43 PM |
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jckhammr9
Appleton, WI
29, joined Dec. 2012
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I don't think the women on this site are real??!!
Anyone else having trouble meeting women on this site in person?
Seriously, Where can I go to get laid?
Where have you had success?
It's been awhile and I am starting to back up.
Thanks
Dont take this in a negative way. You need to improve your appearance. Lose a little weight, gain a little muscle. Run, hit the weights, eat red meat and be a MAN. Do enough of that, you'll have more testosterone, n your confidence should improve.
I could be wrong, but look where I live. Now snap your fingers, thats all I gotta do and I can get laid. Just f*ckin around on these forums, I get messaged by girls "youre fkn hot" , "omg youre really sexy".. etc etc. just got one last week from a 19 yo livin in, of all places, Orlando, lol. n Im not gonna lie, on here? Im a blunt anti-feminazi a$$hole, n they still want me inside of them. You can hate me for it all you want, but it doesnt negate the fact that thats just the way it is and nothings ever change that.
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dalejrbuddrink
Brashear, MO
43, joined Sep. 2012
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I read ur profile and it screams I want sex I want sex I want sex. Almost every sentence has sex in it. That equates to zero women wanting u. Re wright ur entire profile and dont tlk about sensual lover and bs like that. Ur profile sounds more like a sex addict 20yr old than a 50 yr old.
And I know u cant change the fact u have no kids but women ur age r mothers and grandmas and they c u have none makes them think y not. Y does he not hav any by this age. Big red flag
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paperheart76
Lexington, VA
38, joined Sep. 2011
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The only thing on these sites are damaged goods
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| 5/20/2013 10:46:29 AM |
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rebelrockk
Miami, FL
23, joined May. 2013
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Want p*ssy? Learn how to be a wordsmith. Lessons here for a nominal fee
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coineflatt
Tacoma, WA
46, joined Nov. 2012
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Want p*ssy? Learn how to be a wordsmith. Lessons here for a nominal fee
F**k that. Just go plagerize someone else's shit. This aint college.
Or, like college, just get them drunk.
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reptarsrevenge5
San Pedro, CA
23, joined May. 2011
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Honestly it's hard as f**k to score on this site even if yr young like me  I was lucky enough to meet a girl at a show my band played at and I got her number and was able to score her but one chick ain't enough I need more and while I'm not playing at shows I'm using this site to talk to chicks and hopefully get em to see me play and then hang out w/ them after and then hopefully score but even my master plan is far from being fulfilled cuz all these chicks are picky AF and are soooo flakey about messaging me what IS a guy suppose to do on here to get some real action?
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| 5/24/2013 1:34:56 PM |
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ghtr
Suffern, NY
95, joined Dec. 2008
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not true
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| 5/24/2013 1:42:24 PM |
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ghtr
Suffern, NY
95, joined Dec. 2008
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so teach us pleas
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| 5/24/2013 4:26:28 PM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
63, joined May. 2011
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Honestly it's hard as f**k to score on this site even if yr young like me I was lucky enough to meet a girl at a show my band played at and I got her number and was able to score her but one chick ain't enough I need more and while I'm not playing at shows I'm using this site to talk to chicks and hopefully get em to see me play and then hang out w/ them after and then hopefully score but even my master plan is far from being fulfilled cuz all these chicks are picky AF and are soooo flakey about messaging me what IS a guy suppose to do on here to get some real action?
First off you just blew it with what you posted cause alot of the women read in here. So saying your just out to score was not to smart.
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grant97
Edgewater, MD
20, joined May. 2013
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Amen man
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
35, joined Dec. 2012
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Im gonna let you in on a little secret which by the way is a well known fact:....men fall in love wth thier eyes, women fall in love through their ears......Im 54, have gotten laid more now than I did at 24....course, I was married then....but really you can literally B.S...er I mean smooth talk a woman right to home plate..garuanyeeeeed....Ray
lol 40+ yr old women arent hard to bag dude. And they dont really com[pare to 24 yr old girls either. I mean bless them and good on you, but apples to oranges.
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
35, joined Dec. 2012
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First off you just blew it with what you posted cause alot of the women read in here. So saying your just out to score was not to smart.
hey if they dont care that we read their unadulterated hate of men, why should we worry what they read from us? besides i doubt ill ever take home one of these trainwrecks. plenty of fish has much better talent.
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assman5000
Norfolk, VA
32, joined May. 2013
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The only thing on these sites are damaged goods
lol after a while all girls are damaged goods!!!!
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| 5/31/2013 4:42:10 PM |
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snglmn4u
Monroe, OH
31, joined Jan. 2013
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Look, the problem a lot of guys have is lack of confidence. Women can tell if a woman is confident or not. On a dating site, it's a little hard to display confidence as its really just a behavior that your body displays. Saying "please" or "give me a try" makes you sound desperate which after reading is pretty obvious. Talk to women how they want to be talked to. Treat them with respect and listen to what they want to hear. You have to actually read their profile. They will tell you everything you need to know that will give you ammunition so you're not shooting blanks. Get to know them, ask them what they look forward to in life. Avoid the compliments. Girls get that all day long. What they don't always get is an ear to talk to and a brain to provide educated conversation. The trick is finding a good friend that is a woman that you can truly be friends with and avoid making anything to do with sex. Strictly friends and then see how she reacts to certain things positively and negatively. It's a win win. You have a great friend and can learn more about what women want.
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
35, joined Dec. 2012
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Lol im getting douche chills.
Actually kiddo, if you are 24 and as hot shit as you think you are, you have no need to be on a site like this.
the ONLY reason a 20 something should be on here is if they are military and dont have time to go out to clubs, are a single mother or a loser and hey here you are......
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| 8/13/2013 7:02:39 PM |
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patutu149
Everett, MA
52, joined Jan. 2011
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Remain skeptical there's an exact science about that. Plz persuade me of the contrary. Anybody?
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| 8/14/2013 2:24:18 PM |
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guy_in_plano
Richardson, TX
49, joined Mar. 2013
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If all that is wanted is sex you have some challenges. As women age many have been used for sex by men. Because of this they become hypersensitive to what a man wants.
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