Why Do woman not want single dad's?

6/29/2008 8:15:06 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
xxblue26xx Warren, OH 34, joined May. 2008	You always here of single Mom's ,But what about us single dads? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
6/29/2008 8:58:50 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
bethsp Summerfield, OH 31, joined Jun. 2008	Not all women dont want a man with kids there are some of us out here who cant have kids and would love to be with a man that has kids that she can help be a part of their lives. I love kids and want them but unfortunately have only a 1% chance of havin them, so i know id get with a single dad
6/30/2008 12:15:43 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
jessicka Dellroy, OH 41, joined Jun. 2008	lots of women like single dads, in fact I think it shows a very caring man, most women are looking for good family men. : )
8/16/2008 9:26:14 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
cyberblue46 Bedford, OH 58, joined Jun. 2008	I've been a single dad since my wife passed away in April2000. My son, Kevin, is autistic, has ADHD, retarded, and has pretty rough behaviors at times. This makes dating harder for me. Kev has a independent provider that helps me during the week but because I have to work 2 maintenance jobs now my free time is somewhat limited. I'm availiable 2-3 days a week during the day until 2:30pm when my son gets home from Maple Hts. Adult Activity Center. Friday nights I usually see a movie straight after work at 9:30pm but there's no time to pick someone up. I would have to meet them at whichever theater i'm going to.
8/16/2008 9:59:29 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
juggernaut6666 Hamilton, OH 25, joined Aug. 2008	it is nice to know that if i were to ever become a single father, that I know there are caring woman out there that wouldnt mind helping with kids that arent even theres, thats true love right there
8/16/2008 5:44:12 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
paryjeja Springfield, OH 47, joined Aug. 2008	I've been a single mom....don't mind single dads....why should I expect someone to accept that I have child if I can't accept that they have children.
8/16/2008 10:04:43 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
joandrchar North Canton, OH 60, joined Aug. 2008	Id love to meet a man with kids!
8/16/2008 10:32:08 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
cowgirllizzy Urbana, OH 31, joined Aug. 2008	I have no problem with single dads. Some women might have a problem with it because okay i am dating a single father what would happen with the child if this doesnt work out. Just a thought...
8/17/2008 6:43:49 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
pam1105 Akron, OH 53, joined Jul. 2008	JMO....If someone is involved with someone with child/children one would think when the time is right IT SHOULD BE A PACKAGE DEAL. Kids are to be accepted as part of the package as long as everyone knows there are kids in the picture and part of someone's life. Me, Have come acrossed a few that dont want to be involved w/someone who has a child or children. So that is something I put in my profile. Good luck and I applaude you for what you have to deal with it must be difficult to say the least.
8/23/2008 11:58:49 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
susette66 Johnstown, OH 49, joined Aug. 2008	Thats not true I prefer it!
8/25/2008 8:52:32 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
teddygirl617 Urbana, OH 75, joined Dec. 2007	My grand daughter is going with a single dad, and I'm sure they will marry. She is a well educated gal with a Master's Degree and a good job. A Beautiful gal, her picture is on my profile.
8/25/2008 12:22:35 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
snides20 Mingo Junction, OH 34, joined Mar. 2008	i said it before and i will say it again more older woman perfer men with children woman who have no kids of their own in their 20's most not all perfer someone who has no children. For a few reasons 1 when they do want to settle down if this significant other has children it is less likely he will want more unless he only has 1. 2. they are living their lives face it your not able to get up and go whenever you feel like it because you are being a responsable parent which is a good thing but single people with no kids perfer to go out more often which you can't do. There are some lovely ladies out there that woudn't mind a single dad i have met a few, but just keep your eyes open most of the woman on here are very intelligent, good looking woman who is looking for a caring man JMO good luck
8/25/2008 6:55:51 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
ablessedlady Painesville, OH 61, joined Jul. 2008	Many do.Maybe you have not talked too or met any yet.I dated men when we were both younger who had young 1's still home.I am very maternal and I enjoyed sharing"dad".Some of the children with a dad,have no mother figure and I would gladly step into that position.Of course being a grandma now,probably won't meet man with young 1's.Hey it's a package deal and many females want the whole package.
8/25/2008 8:19:04 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
dbsuma Lakewood, OH 47, joined Dec. 2007	because they just want you to knock them up so they can milk you for the child support. If you are actually able to get custody of your kids then that removes the incentive they have to sleep with you.
8/28/2008 8:50:42 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
bandit67 Cleveland, OH 48, joined Aug. 2008	Why Do woman not want single dad's ? This is based on most, not all. 98% id say! 1: They know the man has no money. Ex gets it all. 2: They know the single dad will never marry again. Refer to number 1: 3: They will have to deal with the "Ex". Will they get back?Have a fling? Etc. 4: They will be second to child. 5: Women are selfish. They want it all.
8/28/2008 8:58:17 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
sweetsnoopygal Bidwell, OH 43, joined Jun. 2008	hey i understand i have an austic son with adhd and its hard to date specailly with a disabled child good luck to you.its really hard for me too plusi just lost my job but now i have some more free time if ya ever wanna someon to talk to add me to your yahoo messenger it would be nice to talk to another parent of an austicchild. [email protected]
8/29/2008 8:57:25 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
annaira Goshen, OH 30, joined Aug. 2008	Not all women are selfish and sure we do think well if I still want maintain a relationship with my childs father, then they will the mother of their child, but will it go further....The saying is that alot of men revert to former lovers because it is something familiar....TRUST is what you have to look for.....I know this single father and he is great with his child and his ex and I think it is sexy, most men aren't like that I would date him in a heart beat
8/29/2008 4:40:20 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
horsinnurse Fort Loramie, OH 39, joined Mar. 2008	not all women sleep with men for money some of us just love sex
8/29/2008 7:25:42 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
hoops419 Cincinnati, OH 38, joined Jul. 2008	I haven't run into too much of an issue in being a single father. Sure, there are people that won't date me because I have a kid.... So what? There are TONS of girls that want too. If you honestly feel you can't score a date because you have a kid, you've probably asked out less than 10 people. I'll tell you, if I get told no, I just put myself out there for more people. I promise you you'll get a yes. Be patient and just know that you are worth it.
8/29/2008 7:57:38 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
otheah Painesville, OH 42, joined Jul. 2008	I don't want to sound mean, but maybe it's not the kid??!!! IDK - or maybe you don't want to date a woman with a kid because you have your own. It swings both ways. I'm going out tomorrow for a hike with a guy with two kids when I've only got one with a 50/50 agreement, so it's not about all women not wanting to date a guy with kids. Take a look at the type of gal that you're interested in and think about the reasons she wouldn't want to date you. Is it really just the kid or is that what she is using as the excuse? Don't know much about the background or why you would think that women aren't interested in a single dad. That makes it difficult to say what the issue really is. You just be you and take care of your kid. The right one will come along.
8/30/2008 12:01:06 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
mexicanchica Toledo, OH 37, joined Aug. 2008	I think it depends on the woman. Weather she has kids of her own or not. In my personal opinion. I don't want a pre-made family. Not saying that I never would But I want my own children, and would often wonder if I would treat the 1st children differently. Not purposely but women are only human also.
8/30/2008 1:25:43 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
shyfox Portsmouth, OH 50, joined Apr. 2008	I don't have a problem with single dad's. I love kids. I don't have kids and can't have kids now. yes, kids would of been nice, but it must of not been possible for me to have kids. We are all different some don't want to be bother and some due or have other issues.
8/30/2008 7:19:54 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
nascar64 Dayton, OH 52, joined Jul. 2008	I have been a father since I was seventeen, can't really say I've EVER been turned down for the fact that I was a single Dad!,maby for some other issue or dislike but never a single Dad.if thats is the case good rittens..
9/1/2008 4:59:13 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
lefty74 Cincinnati, OH 41, joined Jul. 2007	I would not object to a single dad I love to hear of it...You can share my pain and the other single parents out there. Be proud that you are being a man and raising your children if a woman cant accept that she is not for you FAMILY comes first!
9/5/2008 6:26:00 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
zhane2 Columbus, OH 41, joined Aug. 2008	There are lots of women that will talk to a single dad. Many of us single mothers understand what goes into raising children. We know how hard it is to find someone that wants to have a serious relationship. The problem is most people judge the single parent as a burden or just looking for a meal ticket before they get to know the person. Not every single parent wants you to financially take care of them. Nor do they want you to instantly replace the absent parent in the kids life. All people want companionship.
9/5/2008 8:05:28 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
sb1229 Cleveland, OH 51, joined Mar. 2007	Quote from bandit67: Why Do woman not want single dad's ? This is based on most, not all. 98% id say! 1: They know the man has no money. Ex gets it all. 2: They know the single dad will never marry again. Refer to number 1: 3: They will have to deal with the "Ex". Will they get back?Have a fling? Etc. 4: They will be second to child. 5: Women are selfish. They want it all. My,my, aren't we bitter?
9/7/2008 11:54:17 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
minmin24 Grove City, OH 31, joined Jul. 2008	i want a single dad, only single dads understand what its like to be a single mom, i mean in all reality you cant just go out at the drop of a hat and most men dont understand that but one who has kids know that they are your whole world, and time away from them all the time just sucks.
9/7/2008 5:01:48 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
bigjaybird Fargo, ND 51, joined Aug. 2008	Hi I'm a single Dad and I have 2 son's one is 13&1 is 10 1/2 and I have custody of both of my son's. I have been DIVORCE for 5 1/2 years so it took about 4 long years to get custody. my x-wife tried to take my son's to another town that is over 4 1/2 hour's a way 1 way so that's how I got custody . One of my son's has ADHD & YOUNG'S SON HAS ASMA I hardly go out the only time I go out is when they go to there mother's and even when I go out I do not go for a long time.If any woman would like to go on a date here is my E- mail [email protected] thank you for lending a ear.
9/7/2008 7:13:23 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
vale42 Findlay, OH 57, joined Jul. 2008	single dads are great because they raise kids when a lot of men wont,,, i think they are fabulous,,,
9/8/2008 11:44:09 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
greeneyemimi Urbana, OH 55, joined Dec. 2007	i for one am a single mother. my ex is a dead beat. im not selfish. but if a man can help make kids they can help pay for them. or u can always leave it in your pants. i for one would date a single father.
9/10/2008 6:15:33 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
cantongirl1971 Canton, OH 44, joined Jun. 2008	I love the idea of a single dad. Whether it's because of choice or not....Single dad's are cool. Hopefully it shows their commitment to raising their children....
9/11/2008 5:37:18 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
letsfindlv Mason, OH 53, joined Aug. 2008	Hi Well a lot of women who run away when they find that i have 4 daughters who are young say that it is too many or they have been there done that. I wish that i could find one woman who would give me a chance
9/12/2008 5:44:25 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
cantongirl1971 Canton, OH 44, joined Jun. 2008	I dont care if you have kids or not. In fact, I love kids so I am thrilled if I meet guys with kids because I can show them my child-like side without having to make up an excuse to do it (like playing on a swing or going to a cartoon movie). I think men with children are cool. Not only that but it also gives me a chance to see the father's loving side and disciplinary side. It's a win-win for me because I can show my kid side and see what he would be like as a father with one of "our" kids if it progressed to that.
9/12/2008 7:51:20 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
sportdoc87 Cleveland, OH 47, joined Jun. 2008	Quote from jessicka: lots of women like single dads, in fact I think it shows a very caring man, most women are looking for good family men. : ) I have to agree on this one. Especially as you get older. and if he has custody, that makes a woman feel secure about the type of guy, because generally the mom has custody. Like myself, i have custody, a good job, and make sure my kiddos have a good family structure even though i am a single parent. and in my opinion, most single men who are fathers and have custody, are more stable, especially now a days. dead beat dads have given singl men a bad rap for quite some time. but, as times progress and rules change, more and more dads that have been put into that catagory, are getting a better rap as the times and laws change and society changes, and most marriages end bad, and the mom has a tendency to paint a bad picture of the dads. Until of course, he ends up with one or all the kiddos....sorry...drabbling on....either way, a man with kids, whether he has them full time or not, but takes care of them regardless, has a tendency to show that he has his shit together, and i think that appeals to allot of gals since now a days it is hard for anyone, man or woman to find someone of the opposite sex that has their act completely together, or isnt out to just get laid. IMO. E
9/12/2008 12:10:28 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
wzard13 Cleveland, OH 38, joined Sep. 2008	Ok, ok ,ok....... I am a single father of three little boys, and yes I have full custody of them. I am no saint and by no means do I consider myself the "nice guy." But this is a topic that relates to me fully and I want to put my perspective on this. So no offense to anyone this is only an opinion. First off I just want to say that I give the utmost respect to anyone who is a single parent. It is difficult for all of us!!! But man this question comes up alot and most of us can answer this ourselves. I mean ask yourself how willing you are to accept someone elses children. One is fun, two are cool, three wait a minute let me see, four how many more? It's really something to ask someone to walk into a ready made family if they aren't looking for it, but let's look at the positive side of this! My kids are like a filter for me, if someone gets scared off then it just wasn't meant for me. Oh well, life goes on I'll meet someone else. I mean we gotta keep our heads up and stay positive not only for ourselves but for our kids as well, they can sense when things aren't well. I think all of us single parents have alot to hold our heads high for, be proud of who you are, and don't let this get you down, EVERYONE gets lonely and that sucks, but never give up, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON,and negativity breeds negativity and I don't think any of us want that to trickle down to our kids!!! Anyways goodluck to us all. Don't carry it as a burden, be proud of you and yours!!!
10/29/2008 2:02:03 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
grimmreeferx Pickerington, OH 31, joined Oct. 2008	Especially when we have to fight so hard to get our children.
10/29/2008 2:02:56 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
grimmreeferx Pickerington, OH 31, joined Oct. 2008	Quote from minmin24: i want a single dad, only single dads understand what its like to be a single mom, i mean in all reality you cant just go out at the drop of a hat and most men dont understand that but one who has kids know that they are your whole world, and time away from them all the time just sucks.
10/29/2008 8:14:24 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
countrycharmer Litchfield, OH 51, joined Sep. 2008	I tend to agree with you sprotdoc. My 2 children are with me 50% of the time and I pay full weighted child support and a small spousal (BTW mother has equal education to me, just choose to stop working in 1995 since she was born into class that does not work and it was my job - being a farm-breed boy that was breed to work ~~ ). The courts are coming around with the dead-beat dad views slowly changing. All I know is that I love my children and will do anything for them. I am and always was hard working, paying all the bills, etc. I believe the right lady will find me and appreciate what I have to offer and appreciate the "package" (e.g. the kids & I). Don't give up hope and settle for Ms. Right now when in the long term she may be Ms. Wrong. Wait for the real deal - you will know when it happens. My 2-cents....
10/31/2008 11:12:02 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
sweetmamastna Hicksville, OH 34, joined Mar. 2008	Quote from xxblue26xx: You always here of single Mom's ,But what about us single dads? Speaking as a single mom, Yes it is hard to find someone who wants someone who has kids already but they are out there. Personally it doesnt matter to me if any guy i date has kids or not. As long as they treat me and my son good thats all that matters. However i would perfer a guy who does already have children. My reasons are as follows: 1. I love kids 2. I lost the ability to have more children when i was 20yrs old. 3. If they have kids already they might be okay with the fact that i cant have any more. 4. They already know how it is when you have kids and that life is not always nice neat and organized. That plans are not always able to be done. 5. They are more tolerant, and not easily annoyed by your own kids. they know how it goes. 6. Shows that you are responsible, stable, compasionate, and family oriented (not including dead beat dads like my ex who pays a whole whopping 10 dollars a week for childsupport and never sees my son) 7. Did i mention i love kids! 8. They enjoy including the kids on some dates, or going out for a family fun day The way i see it single dads are great by me!!
11/3/2008 12:07:18 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
staci711 Ravenna, OH 41, joined Jul. 2008	I understand what you mean. I'm the single mom of 3 kids...and that's a turn-off to many. But, that's who I am. My kids are my life!! Also, because I can't have more kids, I prefer a guy that has already been able to fill that desire in life. Best of Luck!
11/24/2008 6:13:17 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
peachez48 Cleveland, OH 55, joined Nov. 2008	hi I think it would be great to fall in lovewith a single dad and to help him raise his children, but some women might feel that there would be baby moma drama and it would be hard to get into sharing the care and concerns of the child and also some jealousy of the shared responsibilty of the mom and dad not been apart of thier speacial bond as mom an dad and if the mom is not involed. I think the childrens ages would play a big part cuase some kids will feel like you are trying to take over or take thier dad away or take moms place. I think it would take a speacial woman to take time an work at building a relationship with the father and the kids
11/24/2008 7:53:41 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
rnphd Jeffersonville, OH 58, joined Oct. 2008	Quote from dbsuma: because they just want you to knock them up so they can milk you for the child support. If you are actually able to get custody of your kids then that removes the incentive they have to sleep with you. This is a bunch of BS! Women are not just out to get your money. Maybe your ex was that way but most of us are not like that!
11/25/2008 11:04:08 PM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
motorthecat Mc Donald, OH 47, joined Nov. 2008	To tell the truth as a single Dad of two of the greatest little people in the world, I WOULDN'T date a woman that doesn't have kids. They just don't understand. You have to have kids to get it. You can be the greatest uncle,or aunt, but by no means do you have an understanding of what being a "parent" is. I'm not looking for a surrogate, they have a mom, sort of, but as selfish as this sounds, I need adult conversation, banter if you will. I don't need a maid or a mom, just a good friend . And only a parent understands, kids are first. Period. And if they're not? You're not a parent at all. em ail me at motorthecat and add AOL. K? bee cool.
11/26/2008 10:43:16 AM	Why Do woman not want single dad's?
eagleeric Dayton, OH 63, joined Apr. 2008	I don't want to play father to any woman's children. My children are grown up and taking care of their own lives. That was enough parenting for me. However, I have dated women with children without any difficulties, but her children had good relationships with their natural fathers. Also they were mentally and physically OK. I would never get involved with any woman who expected her BF (me) to raise her children. Also I can't think of a more difficult or dangerous situation to be in with a woman who has children still at home and a difficult ex-spouse. Exactly where does the new man fit into this situation especially if the children have emotional or learning problems? Blended families are a real challenge for any man or woman.

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